2007-12-28 04:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't tell him to stop, you should ask him to stop & if he doesn't want to stop dressing like a girl, then maybe you should leave him & find a boyfriend that doesn't want to dress-up like a girl.
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2007-12-28 23:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to tell him to stop? If you really love and respect him then it shouldn't matter the way he dressed. You should like him for who he is, not what he has on. Though....if it REALLY is EXTREMLY a problem why don't sit down and tell him how you feel. Before you do so, i suggest you ask yourself what really bothers you about the way he dresses. Explain to him why and see if you can compromise.
2007-12-28 12:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't. If it is who he is, trying something out or its just a faze, it's not up to u 2 decide. If u care for him, then support him. Just imagine a situation where u felt u couldn't express who u r because the people who loves u said u couldn't. Imagine if ur parents had said to u "we can't love u if ur gay, so be straight or ur not our son ne more." Gay doesn't change u in to something else, its who u r. Clothes don't change u, they r just the wrapping. If u r happy with ur bf, then suck it up and let him be who he is and let him express that. If u really can't handle it, then u owe it to him to be honest and if u can't reach a compromise, then end it.
2007-12-28 13:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by triumph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really tell him to stop! Either you can accept it, or it's not gonna work.
You can't change how he wants to express himself. You could try telling him how you feel about it. Talk to him and find out why he has this sudden urge to dress as a woman.
If you can't deal...then its not meant to be.
I think if you tried to tell him to stop, he would probably have a lot of resentment towards you!
2007-12-28 12:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's exploring a new side of his personality. You can't tell him to stop. You can ask yourself why it bothers you so much, and whether it is something you are willing to accept about him.
2007-12-28 12:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kristi O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its right that you tell him to stop being who he is
you may want to ask him if there's a particular reason why he is starting to dress like that?
in some cases, they do that because they think you are interested in that type of deal...he may be doing it to please you
so just ask him and clear the air
2007-12-28 12:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about it and how it makes you feel to see him in drag. If that's not enough to make him stop then he doesn't care as much about you as you think.
2007-12-28 12:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Brainy Smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you like who he truley is not who he is turning into. Tell him that if its truley him and not an act that you are willing to give it a shot though.
2007-12-28 12:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lookiss Luvver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if you wanted to be with a girl, you would be,
2007-12-28 13:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by choco_taco1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt try to stop let him go his own way and if he wants to be a girl then let him do as he wishes to do.
2007-12-28 12:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by flipper_maurin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋