ummmm me and my bf have been going out for a few days (we started going out on christmas) and he is like really nice and sweet but he seems more serious than me about the relationship and i dont want to hurt his feelings b/c he is really into me i just like him as like a good friend though i mean i did like him but not that much anymore should i give him a chance or break up with him?
2007-12-28 04:42:51 · 31 answers · asked by Maegs<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him.
2007-12-28 04:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by kwik_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same situation with one of my good friends...we gave it a shot and then i had to break it off after three days because i felt the sooner we broke it off the better of friends we would still be and so far its been 4 years since that has happened and we are still best friends but sometimes i wish i would have given him a chance.
i say if you two are good friends then break it off but because he will understand and you might see later that it was better to wait and possibly get back together with him when you are older
but then again i wish i hadn't broken it off because my ex/best friend is the nicest guy to me and i wish i had that now
so all in all i wouldnt break it off you will learn to appreciate his kindness, it is what a girl really wants in the end
give it more than a couple of days...its not until 3 months that you will know if you two will make it or not
2007-12-28 04:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by strgazer9113 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're mature enough or in the state of mind to have a serious relationship. If one person is wanting more than the other, it usually ends up in a bad place.
I would end it and tell him why you're ending it so as to not hurt his feelings. Not only that, but it will show that you care about his feelings.
2007-12-28 04:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blonde&Intelligent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should break up. You never want to put yourself in the position that you drift into marriage, etc. However, for the Nay Case, think that you just terminate the relationship and he hooks up with one of your close girl friends. Do you care?
2007-12-28 04:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think instead of giving him a chance, you should actually give yourself a chance, dont be afraid to open your feelings more. sounds like a nice guy...give the relationship a chance.
i can only give you my opinion, you have to make your own decision. good luck and all the best!
2007-12-28 04:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him more time... but I guess it only depends on how you feel and thats soemthing only you know... it can be strange to start a new realtionship at at the begining it can be hard to get used to the feeling and the attentions and everything but if its too much leave him...
2007-12-28 04:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by flo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another one of those choices only you can make. If you aren't that into him then move on, life is about living and being happy, not just "settling" because you don't' want to hurt someone else's feelings
2007-12-28 04:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit teasing leading him on. You need to let him go. Why did you even start the relationship in the first place???
2007-12-28 04:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by rruby33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to be honest with him if that is the way you feel. You can wait and see how you feel later but don't lead him on if you still feel this way. It is better to be up front with him now then later trust me.
2007-12-28 04:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by runner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you've been together for a total of of three days??? Does this even warrent a breakup? It takes me longer than three days to figure out if I want to date someone, let alone make them my boyfriend....
2007-12-28 04:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would give it a few more days and if you still feel the same way then i would tell him you liked being friends better.
2007-12-28 04:46:13 · answer #11 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋