Okay...I went on a cruise and i cheated on my bf. I feel really bad but i dont really regret it cuz i really liked the guy. But what should i do about my bf? (should i tell him, or pretend like nothing happened, etc...)
I'm so confused, I never do stuff like this... :(
2007-12-28 04:41:46 · 19 answers · asked by Abercrombie_Hippie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you fuc*ed up you should tell your bf
2007-12-28 04:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
I can't believe that u don't regret , I mean even if u like the new guy I think it's very harsh on the old one , he deserves 2 know 4 sure if u were with him long enough to care about his feelings , but if he isn't that long just leave in silence .
2007-12-28 13:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by A.S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes. Personally, if you told me I would break up with you. If you want to be honest with him, be prepared for the consequences. And it's true, if you don't regret cheating then you don't love your bf. Because that other guy would just be a good time, but with your boyfriend it should feel different.
2007-12-28 12:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Vero 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be telling that to your boyfriend now. If you plan to go on with him, you can tell him after some time, and seleting the moment carefully. Otherwise it will hurt him, because he can take your confession as a way of insulting him, rather than as an attempt to be honest. Then it will turn into something emotional and mindless. Also if you take a pause it will give you some time to think over what has happened and what are your real priorities.
2007-12-28 12:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should definently come clean. The key to a good relationship is 100% honesty. And if your relatonship with your bf is important to you, you wouldn't have cheated on him in the first place, now would you???
i say break up with the bf or come clean!
2007-12-28 12:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by singergirl13 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well girl... if you don't regret it.. then love it isn't..
I'm thinking you need to tell the so called boyfriend.. and let him move on.. sounds like you have...
Have you ever thought about the tables being reversed here??? and you say your confused??? awwww... sure..
2007-12-28 13:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
take my advice you are not ready for ANY relationships....this might sound bad but its the truth. nothing wrong with what happened with you but you should tell your bf what happened and break up....be single for few years until you really really really want some one for the rest of your life. otherwise your gonna be in and out or relationships, feeling like shiit because what you or someone else did.....its not a race....be nice to your bf.....be single......have fun......and when you are ready, find a good partner.
2007-12-31 23:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jenni, is this you? My girlfriend went on a cruise in early November and cheated on me. She came back and sent me a text message saying "I met someone, sorry". I don't understand why she did this. If you don't regret it, you need to break up with this guy. I think that's what happened with my Jenni. I miss her and I'm still very hurt.
2007-12-31 13:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by toochp 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you did with the other guy. if you flerted with him then thats just having fun! But it you did more then break up with him you apparently dont like him anoughf eny more.
2007-12-28 14:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth, cause what's in the dark usually comes to light eventually and besides take in to consideration if it was the other way around wouldn't you want to know
2007-12-28 12:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Cute kinky Chick 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i agree with perfectvelvet if you didnt regret it maybe you really dont like your bf as muchas you thought you did i would break up with him if i was you
2007-12-28 12:50:04 · answer #11 · answered by Maegs<3 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋