Why is it that girls usually go for the pricks and ignore the good guys who will actually treat them better?

Question

Well i have noticed that girls date guys how are known to be bad? I mean why not date guys who are nice nature wise and will treat them with respect and never cheat on them? Usually the good guys end up being their good friends and then can never be their bf? Am i right with that?

Answer 1

Im female and i would much rather have someone who is mature and treats me with respect rather than someone who is into drugs and goes out getting drunk.
Girls who go for that are just lame and all i can think of is if they have children with some immature guy i feel so sorry for these children.
However, there may just be times when the girl really does see you as a friend and nothing more and if that is the case then there isnt really anything you can do about it.
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Answer 2

Its not that we go looking for the pricks. Because trust me i know don't. Usually when we fall for the "prick" they start off really nice, telling us what we want to hear type of stuff...then after a while they start showing their true colors...but by that time our feelings are in too deep, so its hard to let go of them because in the back of our mind we still think that he will change back into the guy we first me.(even though we really know that will never happen)

As far as the good friend never being the bf.....so many things go into play with that....what if the girl doesn't feel that way for the guy...or what is she does but she's too scared to tell him for fear of losing what they have or she's scared of the friend turning out like the bf....

hope that helps

Answer 3

Well, yes and no. The reason that girls seem to date "bad" guys is because these guys usually possess several qualities that women find attractive, although they do it inadvertantly. Moreover, they seem to ignore "good" guys because they do not tend to elicit these same qualities.

The biggest of these qualities are confidence and assertiveness. It's no secret that girls like guys that are confident. They always go for the guy that just has one of those magnetic personalities. Well, bad guys tend to be confident because they think they are the ****. They also tend to be assertive because they are usually quite selfish and do not think about other people. On the contrary, "nice" guys tend to put other people's needs before their own, and therefore tend to not be very assertive. In addition, they often appear to lack confidence around girls because they are always afraid they'll say something she disagrees with.

I could write an entire book on the subject. In essence, girls are really looking for something in the middle. A guy that's clean-cut (both in terms of looks and personality), confident, energetic, funny, outgoing, the list goes on. Girls actually like a certain amount of sensitivity in a guy, but you have to be careful not to lose your man card. Striking this balance takes practice.

Quick tips;
1) Go shopping with a female friend, and make sure you get some decent looking clothes.
2) Shave often, and wear a light cologne. Nothing ridiculous, but it will help you (girls pay very close attention to smells) and it should help your confidence.
3) While out in the field-- remember to have a magnetic personality. TELL YOURSELF YOU ARE FUN TO BE AROUND AND MAKE IT A REALITY.
4) Crack light-hearted jokes at girls and have fun with them. Purposefully disagree with them about some things and explain why. This makes you challenging = major plus.
5) Don't be intimidated. If it helps, pretend like YOU are qualifying THEM.

Answer 4

these girls that run back are trying to make the relationship work thinking maybe he better or have a different attitude change or maybe he better we live happy ever after but these girls learn to learn the hard cause she never knew better herself that is what life is about learning experience even the dirt-bags want to date a quiet smart mystery guy that doesn't have be a liar, deceitful, bring me down in a bigger whole of debt/bad credit bad behavior/police record I never ask for that so don't blame it on us when the man cant do his job in the relationship if he wants to be man of the relationship than he need to balls to stay out of trouble Those girls just have a bigger heart that is willing to help people when they are struggling it I have a question why do guys go for the hot flashy attention hoes instead of the Good girl, friendly, respectful, smart, unattractive female we all have the same mindset as mens do OK

Answer 5

1st question. girls date pricks because they have alot of confidence and women love confidence.

2nd question. yeh girls date bad guys because they tend to be confident and are willing to give them thrills.

3rd question. some girls have disturbed childhoods and continue in the same cycle as theyre parents, for example if a child witness's her dad hitting her mum in the future she might get hitched with an abbusive, cheating guy.

also if someone always acts like a saint there really isnt any passion in a relationship. reminds me of a quote by fredrick nietsche he says "in heaven all the interesting people are missing".

4th question. not always does the guy get stuck with the friend tag. sometimes the chick grows up and realises the guy next to her. but most of the time the guy just stops spending time with the chick because he cant get any from her.

yeh ur right with most of ur questions.

Answer 6

Girls, like guys, like somewhat of a challenge. They also like to leave their stamp on the man. They feel like they can change a bad guy and the thrill of a bad boy is part of the excitement. Bad boys also have confidence.

Eventually all of that wears off and their stuck with a prick they can't escape from, especially when it becomes abusive. Also, women that are used to stressful and abusive relationships don't know how to deal with someone who is generally good and therefore don't bother.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Girls probably usually go for pricks and ignore the good guys because guys usually go for bitches and ignore the good women who will actually treat them better. (I am a good woman, by the way!)

Answer 9

Some women go for bad boys, some go for nice guys, some go for those who are a mix...same thing with men re: women (bad girls, good girls, somewhere-in-between).

People go for those they are attracted to, and sometimes it takes a while to realize they aren't really very kewl people after all. The 'bad boys' don't get all the girls, nor every girl they go after...they just don't take rejection personally and if someone turns them down, they go on to the next conquest. They have no issue with the chicks that go for the 'nice guys'...there's plenty out there for everyone. ☺

Answer 10

They go out with what they are attracted to just like we are! I like a fly girl even if she is a pain in the butt! you now the s e x is good!!! what would you hang out with if the s e x was good and she was suppper hot you now a 10+! probbebly a lot I am guessing? weomen are ruled more by emotion than logic "how they feal" it does not matter if it is logical! you have to create that fealing for them! The real question is why arent you creating that I want him to jump his bones fealing with them! Dont ever try to bie there love it does not work ,or try to earn it, you have to work on your game dog! Make them feal lucky to hang out with a cool guy like you! If the are good enough to you, you just might break them off a piece!
From a player that lost count of my one night stands!!!
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