Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

we were in love and I am older (alot older) and now I dont know how to get over these feelings. They are real and I hurt alot please help

2007-12-28 07:20:21 · 4 answers · asked by j 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a situation I am in with a very close friend of mine. I suspect he likes me romantically but I'm not sure. I don't want to make him uncomfortable by asking him upfront. He's kind of shy about these kinds of things. I don't want to ruin our beautiful friendship by asking him if he likes me as more than a friend, when in reality he could just think I am a cool girl to hang around with. He tells everyone, including his mother, that I am his 'best friend' or that we are really close. He seems to genuinely enjoy being around me. People are starting to tease me and I am really confused! I really care about him and I am a little afraid to examine my own feelings because my heart has already begun to skip a beat when he shows up at my door or his name shows up on my phone, which has become more frequent recently. I've never been in this situation before. I really need some advice! I don't want to ruin the love we already feel for each other by confusing it for something else.

2007-12-28 07:17:14 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda77 2 in Singles & Dating

Complete : As u talk about everything , even about sports or fashion cause remember , conversation is a two sided activity!

Honest : cause u won't hide truth from ur partner , u will always be grateful cause she/he accepted u with all ur shames , weiredos things u think about or feel like !

So , how often do u have such conversations ... ?

Are u willing to do it , or try to escape it all the time -reasons may vary- ?

Cheers everyone !

2007-12-28 07:16:51 · 9 answers · asked by Haitham Emad 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm having a difficult time picking out a wedding dress. All the ones that I love are strapless but my breast are (naturally) way too big! What style or cut would look good on a big bust but slender frame?

2007-12-28 07:14:53 · 34 answers · asked by MalinaB 2 in Weddings

2007-12-28 07:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years and lived together for about 4 years. We have talked about the possiblity of marriage. But i am unsure of the whole relationship at times because we have a problem communicating. I cant talk to him about finances, relationships, or business without me or him catching an attitude. But on the other hand we complement each other very well and have a great time togehter (mainly because when we are together we are never sober). Should i be concerned about the possiblity of marriage if we have a hard time communicating now? And what will happen when we stop drinking and smoking together all the time? Most of the time it is just fun and games, even though our sex life is just okay. And now we are at the point where we are both looking to start businesses, but it is so hard for me to talk to him about his business without him becoming defensive? But overall i would give our relationship a 7 out of 10.

Any advice?

2007-12-28 07:13:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gamergrl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 07:11:55 · 21 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a small intimate wedding with only CLOSE friends and family. My sisters want to throw me a shower and invite alot of old family friends that I will not invite to my wedding. Is this appropriate?

2007-12-28 07:11:39 · 26 answers · asked by sgtdandi 1 in Weddings

I was talking to my fiance last night about when he has his bachelor party and requested that there aren't strippers. I'm having a bachelorette party with the girls, and I don't need naked men, or any men, so why should he want random naked women all over him. He says he can't promise anything because his best man is the planner and he may get wasted and who knows where they'll take him, besides "its the last time to do whatever you want" before marriage. I trust him with all my heart, thats one reason why we're getting married, but it still bothers me that he thinks he needs "a last time to do whatever he wants." Is this a normal feeling? I want the guys side and the girls if possible.

2007-12-28 07:08:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

should i enjoy being 13 or want to be something that i'm not. It's hard to think that i want to be something that i'm not HELP!!!!

2007-12-28 07:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Less than a hour before he said that I asked him if he loved me and i said how much on a 1-10 scale and he said i love u so much it would have 2 be a 15! But that confuses me because right after he said that he wasn't a hug person you can break up with me on myspace he changed his relationship status to single and moved me down on his top! Does that mean he broke up with me or is about to? Sorry that was to questions please answer them both! thanks

2007-12-28 07:06:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife has two sons who I helped raise from preteen years to their early 20's. Not only did their dad criticize me (as you would expect a jealous person to do) but their mom (my now "ex") also relentlessly criticized my interaction with her two sons. Well, now that we are divorced and both "boys" are young men they have both separately told me that I was a good step dad to them and they regret what their mom said about me. How can she ever get the egg off her face?

2007-12-28 07:04:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-wife is dating a convicted drug user who was arrested two weeks ago for a DUI and probation violation for cocaine possesion in May. I was unaware of his history and she has had my son around him numerous times. I tricked her into telling me she used drugs this summer under the guise that I wouldnt have her drug tested. She has primary custody of my son but now I need to know what to do next. My family wants me to take him away from her but I have a hard time taking him from his mom. Should I hire a private investigator to follow her or go straight to DCF to launch an investigation

2007-12-28 07:00:29 · 13 answers · asked by Average joe 93 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel really bad for my little brother because his best friend got addicted to Runescape and hasn't been playing out side for months, talking to his friends,and stays on the computer for hours at a time. We've tried to get him to get outdoors and exersize, but he's too busy on Runescape that he's almost completely shut out real life...And is failing in school. We've tried talking to his parents and they really don't know how to control the issue. What should we do? We don't wanna just forget about him, as we know he needs help. Any ideas?
Thanks!

2007-12-28 06:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by bcolliegurl 1 in Friends

My friend Kristen and I share a same crazy sense of humor. (I actually had a bit of an identity crisis and I based my sense of humor on hers.) When Rachel and I went over to her house, we had a lot of fun. We played dress-up, pretended to be spies, put on stupid costumes and did idiotic dances to (gasp) Britney Spears music. It was really fun and they're the only friends I could ever do that with. But Rachel and Kristen (mostly Kristen) are excessive rule-followers. For example, we were doing gymnastics in PE. We had to balance on each other. The P.E. teacher was walking around, but it was nearly the end of the period. Kristen and I did it for a while, but I was like "No way" after a while. The P.E. teacher didn't notice/care, but she's like "Come on, please...We'll lose points for the day if we don't participate...". She's SERIOUSLY obsessive about rules. If she has a hard time on a test, she'll start crying afterward. When someone called her "stupid" she started crying. She and Rac

2007-12-28 06:57:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do nice, sweet,shy, flirty guys liked to be hugged by the girl that likes them and how do u leave them wanting for more?

2007-12-28 06:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by GenGen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 06:53:11 · 30 answers · asked by Danielle S 2 in Weddings

I came upstairs to wake my girlfriend up from a lie down and I thought she was masturbating, but she was watching girl on girl porn. I asked her what she was watching and she said it was just out of curiosity but I'm almost certain she was getting off on it. Could she be confused?

2007-12-28 06:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by jaggernut 3 in Singles & Dating

well can you?!

2007-12-28 06:50:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is our story, me and my boyfriend start dating four years ago, I am for another country and I didnt have a visa to US till last year, so he visited me for about 5 times to my country for a week each time and when i get my visa I went to visit him for about 8 months, I thought that he will say something to me about getting engage or at least a plan for us, while i was there everyone keep asking us when we will get married but he always had a hard time to answer...so before I come back to my country i told him that I want a family with him and be with him forever, he said that he wants the same but it is harder for him to make decisions since he has been single for so long and now he needs to get use to the idea to be with someone...it is hard to be so far, so what do you think I should do...he is 36 by the way, and we have a nice relationship and he calls me a lot saying how much he miss me...help me

2007-12-28 06:47:31 · 2 answers · asked by Juicy 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a friend who flirted and played on our emotions but he denied anything knowing what he did. He has been married four or so times within the last 15 years.

2007-12-28 06:40:45 · 22 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

Is there anything i can give to the mother like a book or something to help her out?

2007-12-28 06:39:50 · 19 answers · asked by John 1 in Friends

Im 16 and ive never had a boyfriend, or even had as much has a little peck on the lips.
I just feel really depressed and i cry sometimes. I don't mean to sound bigheaded but i get told all the time that im pretty, like this girl walked past and randomly told me im really beautiful. But if its true.. boys just dotn see it.
I have NO! confidence hardly and this is the reason. I try so hard to be confident though.. its like a cycle, I get really upset , then i try hard and get dresed up and put on a smile and talk to boys , but by the end of the night there kissing my mates and im just standing there. I know your all just going to say ''Just wait , true love will find you or somethign like that'' But i just want tips about how to get noticed .. and maybe just get a little kiss. I get upset lookin at couples, and im always on my own. Its hard at school when it comes to converstations about getting-off and boyfriends =[ because i have to be quiet and hope the convo passes and its awakard

2007-12-28 06:39:03 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and I think i have found the one. How did you know when you found the one?

I don't know if i'm too young or to wait....

2007-12-28 06:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a female 14 years old and im head over heels for this boy
im white and hes colored (no offense towards anyone)
and he doesnt evn notice me and i want him to know how i feel
should i write a note song poem if so what should it say
or should i dress a certain way wear makeup or what please help me i need all the help i can get

2007-12-28 06:37:03 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 06:33:33 · 3 answers · asked by sillydilly66 1 in Friends

2007-12-28 06:32:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met my bf's best friend about a handful of times over the course of 3 years. The times we hung out he seemed like a nice enough guy. Mf bf and I live about 70 milles from his hometown (where his best friend currently lives) Last summer, we wer visiting my bf's parents' home--having a bonfire/dinner-- when his best friend called him. My bf invited him to come over and hang out with us (seeing how now that he lives 70 miles away he only sees him occasionally--the best friend never visits him over here). My bf hung up the phone and was visibly upset. He said he didn't want to come over and that he should ditch me and he'll hook him up with one of HIS gf's friends. Obviously this upset me and ever since then I haven't trusted the guy.

Last night my bf was in town and hung out with him, his gf and her friend/their roommate. I didn't mind because they were just going to dinner. He then told me he was going to spend the night which upset me since he wants to hook him up with her friend.

2007-12-28 06:30:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and he knows it because i asked him out but he said he had a girlfriend and i asked about after he breaks up with her if he will go out with me he said he will have to think about it does that mean he likes me and will go out with me.

2007-12-28 06:30:07 · 3 answers · asked by Jaycee S 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello all,

Well I had a long conversatiobn with my BF this week after having noticed he bought some girl's jeans, had worn victoria's secret PJ's to bed and then I found he has pantyhose and panties in his underwear drawer. He admittted to me that he liked to dress up as a girl and has been doing it secretly since he was about 9 (he is 40 now). I'm not really freaking out as it doesn't bother me too much as long as he doesn't start meeting our frienmds dressed as a girl as that would probably not be accepted by everyone we know - although some are probably opwen minded enough.
He asked me if I would like to see him dressed or if I would consider maybe helping him with his feminine image. Do you think I should let him dress around the house? Should I help him?

2007-12-28 06:30:03 · 3 answers · asked by courtneyrhodeisland 2 in Singles & Dating