I came upstairs to wake my girlfriend up from a lie down and I thought she was masturbating, but she was watching girl on girl porn. I asked her what she was watching and she said it was just out of curiosity but I'm almost certain she was getting off on it. Could she be confused?
2007-12-28 06:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by jaggernut 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by confused, I mean, does she want some sort of lesbian sex? We have a great relationship, lots of sex, always holding hands and kissing, that's why it's taken me by suprise. Maybe she wants to get it on with a girl though? That's what I worry about. ow do i bring it up in conversation etc. etc.
2007-12-28 07:11:27 · update #1
What do you mean by "confused?" She seems to be at ease with what she's doing. You seem to be the one expressing a bit of confusion.
Are you asking "Could she be a lesbian?" It's possible, but not necessarily so. Is she still sexually attracted to you? If so, I'd say she's probably not a lesbian.
Are you asking "Could she be bisexual?" It is also possible. She may have some interest in relationships with women, but so far she's leaving it to the realm of fantasy.
It is also possible she's still straight. I have known of a number of women who are sexually straight but find some interest in seeing two women together. It doesn't mean they want to be with a woman, just that they find images of two women erotic.
The bottom line? If it is bothering you, you need to talk to her. Find out from her what's going on with her. She'll know better than any of us (unless she's on Y!A too).
Good luck!
2007-12-28 07:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Donald J 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-27 12:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by cherly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 11:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Janette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are naturally curious and experiment, women seem to do it more than men (I know I've never been interested in guy porn ever anyway) so I wouldn't worry about it. It's probably a phase and she'll be over it in a while.
2007-12-28 06:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should worry you too much.
I like guys in general but I am sure if I watched two girls having sex I would get turned on by it big time.
Do you have a problem with two girls having sex? Most men would welcome the idea of their girlfriend interested in lesbian sex.
Well, I think you should talk to her and find out if its only fantasy or is she actually interested in trying it out - maybe threesome?
And to answer your question I do not think she is confused - she just found something on TV that she liked, so she got busy.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-31 10:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She might just be curious. I find guy on guy action erotic and I'm a lesbian. She might want to experiment a little. She might be bisexual and hasn't "come out" yet. You will never know until you ask her.
2007-12-29 05:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HAHA
No, she's not confused.
Some girls just watch it because it's more interesting. The way I see it is... girls know how to please girls more because they know what's down there, they know pleasure spots, and they know how to make it pleasurable. She might have been gettin off to it, but that stil doesn't mean that she's confused. She's with you and that's what matters, so what if she thinks girl on girl action is hot... that doesn't mean she likes women!
2007-12-28 07:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by HaiLeY 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dude what is to be confused about, women are beautiful loving creatures! Be thanful it was other females and not males !!!
2007-12-28 06:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You need to be on your knee's thanking god. Go out with her and find her a girl to play with.
2007-12-28 07:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Nope she ain't confused.....
2007-12-28 06:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Confused 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋