Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

I am so sick of my roommate I seriouisly am past the point of being the better person and want REVENGE. I am OVER him not cleaning, not putting his dishes in the sink, not gathering his crap to take upstairs, or him doing ANYTHING. He is being such a jerk and wont even pick up one of my shifts at work to pay me back for me picking up his shift on christmas!
HOW CAN I SUBTLY GET REVENGE. Yes, thats right I am really wanting to be the lower person, I need that satisfaction at this point. I am sick of doing all the cleaning because if I leave his mess for him, it never gets done, and I do it to make our apt look nice for my guests.

2007-12-28 10:18:30 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa C 2 in Friends

not bother to take another loaf out,, so i cant make a sandwich :-(

2007-12-28 10:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by jo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i think i scared off this guy that likes me, but im not sure.. So, what happened was, I sent him a text asking him how his Xmas was. He replied with, "it was good, would have been better with u by my side, then he said, "i still owe you ur gift." I replied by saying, "you dont have to give me a gift babe, you are my gift" Did I scare him off by telling him he was my gift?? What does the phrase, "you are my gift" mean to u guys??

2007-12-28 10:15:53 · 10 answers · asked by mellisa 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so they are divorcing, my question is - If my dad wins the court situation (he wants me saterday and sunday) but my mom says NO to that, will my father get any form of payment? My mom tells me he only wants me for money, my mom sometimes tends to be a terrible mother.. She said this earlier "You almost died when you were little, why didn't I just let you die - If I die you'll have nothing left and you'll die and god will punish anyone who doesn't respect me bla bla bla. I love her and don't want any harm to her.. but honestly..
So yea, it's all highly complicated, I'm a 14 year old girl who's question mostly is if my birth father gets to have me saterday or sunday, will be recieve any money by any type of service? If so I might have the idea that he does want me for that cash he would recieve..

2007-12-28 10:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by ~*princess*~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

right hi i ahve a problem me and my man have had sex for over a year we have a beautiful baby boy who is now 4months but the things is i still dont feel comfortable with having sex or any sort play with him i think it may be because he is more experienced and i feel self consious all the time any ideas on how 2 improve this
please no rude comments

2007-12-28 10:13:49 · 16 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-28 10:10:32 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is meant to be for people 18+ so no immature kids
when i fingered my ex girlfriend i didnt necessarily have to slide my fingers in and out. After i found her G-spot i just stimulated it by moving my middle finger quickly over it and around while occasianally still going in and out. But with my current girlfriend i tried that yesterday and it didnt work at ALL. Is it easier to make a girl orgasm by simulating the in and out motion or by leaving my middle finger in her and wiggling it around quickly? and for all the girls give me detailed tips on how YOU like it the most...hey theres no shame in me trying to get tips on how to pleasure my girlfriend is there?

2007-12-28 10:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was on this chat room. and we were having private chat. and i know he isn't a old perv cuz he was really nice, i saw him on cam, and i know he goes to a high school. so anyway, before i found out all this and we decided to become friends, i lied to him about practically everything. i lied about how i looked, and when he asked for pics i gave him something i found on google images. he thinks im a hot filipino girl now. which is not true. so now i have to tell him im a black ugly girl. wat do i do!?

2007-12-28 10:05:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met back in Sept.
We talk everyday in school
He liked me, I liked him
but then BAM:
-he has a gf
-been to prison
-drugs, alcohol, partying
-player
-left my xmas gift to him on the floor and didn't pick it up, right in front of me

he was so close to asking me out, it was fun talking to him, he still tells his friends about me, i always catch him looking at me and he still gets shy around me
BUT I need to move on.

quick, someone call Tyra so she can come over and tell me to learn something from this.

2007-12-28 10:01:48 · 15 answers · asked by kmkween24217 2 in Singles & Dating

he bought the rings, and he avoids going to get our marriage license, am i wrong or paranoid, but it seems to me that he maybe having second thoughts. maybe he is waiting to get back with his ex, or what could it be??? Am i wasting my time waiting for this to really happen?

2007-12-28 10:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by 0 1 in Weddings

she thinks shes likes my crush, then she thinks she doesn't, she thinks she lives in my house, its annoying, what do i do? slap 'er?

2007-12-28 10:00:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any men out there who do not cheat? How can they when they are truly in love with their significant other? Why can't they just decide to leave who they are with if they decide they want to be with another person? Am I naive and living a fairytale if all I want is just to be loved and not worry about someone sneaking around behind my back? I take care of myself and try to look as attractive as I can, always be positive and have a fun-loving attitude, try to do everything that makes him happy and not create drama. I try to appreciate the small things in life. These things still do not seem like enough. What is enough to make a man not cheat?

2007-12-28 09:59:31 · 87 answers · asked by ♥ Erin ♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend's wedding is this weekend and i am broke! I was going to just get her a card, is that bad? What else can i give as a gift that is inexpensive or free? I should also mention that she is not really a good friend, but we've known each other for years. I am debating even going if I cant give her a gift and also because she has ditched out on me on my birthday parties, baby shower, etc. What do you guys think? Should I even go, and if so, is a card ok as a gift?

2007-12-28 09:54:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Did you regret it?

2007-12-28 09:53:43 · 17 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

i told him i like him and he told me th same and then he asked me to teh movies we talk alot but just over the computer and at school....are we going out?!!? please help!!! thatnks

much love ♥!♥♥

2007-12-28 09:52:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i started to tal to this guy and stuff and he told me if i would asked me if i would give him heads and do other things with him. he is constantly txting me telling me to send him sexy pictures and thats his horny and sked me to have phone sex but to top it off he as a girlfriend and i dont know shoud i go ago with him and mess around with or not.

2007-12-28 09:51:46 · 61 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been reading alot of dating books by sociologists that say if a woman is interested in a man she does not know, she will always let him know using "sex signals" such as thrusting her chest, licking her lips, smiling, flicking her hair, etc, and if you don't get any of these signals; you will be rejected if you approach! I have been spending time at places that are supposed to be good for meeting women (bookstores, salsa dancing classes, bars), but I never get any of these signals from any woman, all I get is one quick glance (if even that), and then they just go back to whatever they were doing. What is wrong, do no women want me because I am mixed-race?Too tall? Not muscular enough? Why don't I ever get any signals from women?

2007-12-28 09:49:27 · 28 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of really confronting her husband about this, because talking to the other woman is doing no good.

2007-12-28 09:46:24 · 62 answers · asked by openmyeyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you still friends?

2007-12-28 09:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend of mine "WAS" getting married tomorrow in Michigan...I originally told her that I could not attend because of it being around the holidays & so far away. (I'm in Texas)...Well she convinced me to come after all a couple of weeks ago...so I was talking to her on Christmas eve & tell her I'd see her this weekend. So today here I am in Michigan, sitting at the airport waiting for my delayed flight BACK to Texas!!!!! I get here and go to the hotel she told me about, & the desk clerk say's there is no reservation in your name or my friends name...so I tell him that I am there for the wedding...& he tells me that that particular wedding had been cancled last week..WHAT last week when I just talked to her...So I'm trying to get ahold of her...finally 3 hours later, and she says well we postponed because my parents couldn't make it...we thought you wouldn't come anyway!!! Now I'm out money plus I'm stuck at the stupid airport & will probably have to get a room..

2007-12-28 09:42:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Men only please, and state what you like and dislike about the traits of women.

2007-12-28 09:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by greenteaxlove 1 in Singles & Dating

So, she told me about this guy, he was her first boyfriend or whatever, and she was really exited. They have been going out for a couple weeks and they kissed and he was all romantic to her, then, out of the blue, she imed me and said he broke up with her. She said he said he was like all of the other girls he dated, who were sluts, when they didn't even hook up or anything. SO, I feel really bad. She's really heartbroken and I don't know what to say. I told her that she wasn't a slut and I called him an asshole. Now what ?

2007-12-28 09:41:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you saw me? http://www.flickr.com/photos/17821329@N00/
I'm not going to ask "AM I PRETTY"?
I just want to know what you would think if you saw me. Oh, she must be a *****. Or oh, she looks friendly let's talk to her. Or oh, she looks so uptight. She looks plain. She looks simple. She looks overdressed. She has bad taste. She looks like she gives a damn.
Whateverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
just tell me what your thoughts would be. (of course, those were just examples say what you want)

2007-12-28 09:36:48 · 32 answers · asked by strawberryfields 2 in Singles & Dating

My adult daughter has a serious issue with her adult brother which lead to a complete break down in relations. I , as their mother tried to intervene but it did not work . Now she is also ticked off at me and says I should mind my own business and it is between her and her brother . I have helped her many times to get along in life, now to get her way suddenly it is none of my lip . What do you think? Was I wrong to get involved .

2007-12-28 09:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are you TAKEN or SINGLE?

2007-12-28 09:34:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am getting a divorce currently and he cheated on me 3 times before i filed the papers so i decided to cheat on him after i filed the papers but the thing is we still talk and he sends me pics of him and says he knows he can still have sex with me if he wants and wants to when he comes home (hes in kuwait for a few months) and the thing to it is i want to still have sex with him again even after all the stuff he has put me through which was hell! does this make me a sick person or am i just confused whats going on!

2007-12-28 09:32:14 · 26 answers · asked by sum_ting_shy_knee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 09:31:16 · 28 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son has been misbehaving at church according to his teacher. He has Asperger's Syndrome and ADHD and I medicate him during the week for school. On Sundays I don't med him so that he can eat. His med takes away his appetite. Help!

2007-12-28 09:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Marie H 2 in Family

I was in a bad relationship with someone he used to be friends with,until he said things about me that werent true,etc. etc.



My best friend (&&the boy whom im talking to)Michael Sohl told me this.



"All girls say that its in the eye of the beholder that people see the truth"

He told me that that meant...

(What he told me)


"All girls are insecure...guys who love them see them for what they are... and after awhile.. they see that the other see's them as beautiful...thus... you realize ...youre beautiful,lady"

2007-12-28 09:23:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a boyfriend to get extremely jealous if his girlfriend talks to a guy? I have quite a bit of guy friends, and my boyfriend gets really mad and jealous when i talk to them or something of the sort. He's asked me to stop talking to them, unless they're gay. What should I do?

(we're in high school)

Is it normal for a guy to ask this of his girlfriend? How should I handle it?

2007-12-28 09:22:47 · 74 answers · asked by Waterworks. 2 in Singles & Dating