2007-12-28 10:10:32 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh hell yea, better to be the dumper than the dumpee
2007-12-28 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Geminat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweety......your thinking might not be right and you could wreck your relationship forever! The best thing to do is to look out for phrases and hints like this........"We need to talk"......."I dont know how 2 tell you this"........."Im not feeling very good about this".......
Even these are signs.......
*She starts to put everyone and everything before you*
*If you try 2 call her more and more and she starts 2 call less and less*
*She constantly puts off plans to meet you or always cancels last minute*
*She starts telling you "little white lies"*
*She picks fights with you about trivial matters*
*Her affection towards you ceases to exist*
*Her new male "friend" becomes the hot topic of every conversation*
If 2 or more of the above start 2 occur you should talk to her about it rather than quickly break up with her.This way none of yous are breaking up with each other and both of you are ending your relationship in a more mature, sutler and understanding way! This way knowing that you tried 2 make it work will clear ur conscience and sweety then you can move on......x
Hope i helped
Love Zarin x =)
2007-12-28 10:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't dump her if you're willing to work it out. If you really want her, then no. But if you're about to be dumped, you might be more interested in why. Has she lost interest in you? Has she found another guy? Is there something about you that she doesn't like? Is she just not happy? Maybe she thinks a major change in her life is associated with you. You should find you.
Good Luck
2007-12-28 10:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to be the one to get dumped. That way nobody says I'm a mean fellow who is insensitive to a girl's feelings.
I managed to lose an old girlfriend by getting her to dump me. It had to do with cigarets. She smoked and I didn't. I got her to promise to stop smoking before she understood how tough it is to quit. And I held her to it when she had her cravings.
When she'd ask me to let her buy a pack of cigarets, I made it look like she loved them more than she did me, and that made her feel guilty. She lasted a week, then told me she was going back to her mean ol' daddy because he would at least let her smoke. She felt guilty because she's the one who decided to break up, or so she thinks.
Ahhh, freedom. And no more having to put up with her obnoxious little dog pooping in my house and scaring my cat! And, best of all, the other girls still think I'm a nice guy instead of a devious, manipulative rascal.
2007-12-28 10:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by elohimself 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, if you don't think the relationship isn't going anywhere. If you are actually interested in the person, you could talk to them about it first, tell them why you think they are going there. Even if they are going to break up with you, at least you'll know why and you can work on personal development before another relationship ends in the same way.
2007-12-28 10:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by supermadchen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you "think" you are going to get dumped. Why don't you just confront the person ? If your together you shouldn't be afraid to bring these things up.
2007-12-28 10:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not a competition to see who can be the meanest. There is no one winner and one loser. In a break-up you both lose. If you want to dump her just to protect your ego then you didn't really care for him or her to begin with.
2007-12-28 10:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its love then let them do it because i personnally feel it will help you more to get over them but if its a little petty relationship and you dont particularly care then dump them first.
2007-12-28 10:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends whether your pride will be hurt if she dumps you first but then you may be wrong then you would feel a Wally
2007-12-28 10:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation.
if you love the person well you have ask her why or need to know why she's dumping you.
& if not i would break with her .
2007-12-28 10:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you love the person...you could be wrong, maybe they are just going thru something really hard that they are not ready to talk about yet. Don't give up on love---till you know that it has given up on you.
2007-12-28 10:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋