I am thinking of really confronting her husband about this, because talking to the other woman is doing no good.
2007-12-28 09:46:24 · 62 answers · asked by openmyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm thinking the same thing, girlfriend, she obviously isn't respecting anything about you, your marriage. I realize it takes two to tango so deal with your husband, but don't let her get away scott free.
What's good for the goose....
2007-12-28 10:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating Married Woman
2016-11-12 03:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him end it. If you do love him keep forgiving him because the next guy you meet will cheat on you too or worse. All men cheat. I guess you found out the fairytale is BS!!! Here are the facts of life you obviously haven't learned yet:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to
hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike
the other answers you will get.
2007-12-28 10:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, who says the husband doesn't already know or have his suspicions? Secondly, I would think about what you want out of this-do you still want to be with your husband & vise versa? If yes, telling the husband may cause them to end there relationship & then she would be open to hooking up with your husband permanently. If you want out of the marriage then you should go see an attorney & get advice from him. I would not, at that point, tell her husband because you would not have anything to gain except revenge & that is an empty feeling in the end because you would be hurting someone else (her husband) like you were hurt. Good luck with whatever you decide to do-just make sure your happy with your decision because you will have to live it.
2007-12-28 10:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mary B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still living with your cheating husband, by all means confront the other woman's husband. Why should just 3 of you be in on the secret?
2007-12-28 10:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it. He will probably beat up your husband, if he's cheating on you, he probably deserves it. My mom did the same. She caught my father cheating on her with a married woman, so she told her husband. My mom thought the man was going to go after my father, but no, he went after his own wife. He beat her a ss!!! Just get a divorce and yes let that man know. Sorry this happened to you.
2007-12-28 09:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by meyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This can be touchy. How well do you know these people? Do you really want to more involved than you already are? And did you say it is your husband that is having an affair with a married woman? Maybe you should have a talk with your husband first, not hers.
2007-12-28 09:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Been married 25 years and have 5 kids. Never cheated on my husband but tested positive for chlamydia.?
2016-10-19 10:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you do it the right way. If this problem is of serious concern to you then hire an attorney to write an advisory on your behalf to both your husband as well as to each of the other husband-wife team, with a statement of fact, date, time of encounters etc.
That will signal to everyone that you are serious and put an end to all this hanky panky.
2007-12-28 10:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mocha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so only because it will hurt that man. He may have an inkling and doesn't want to know. Maybe she could approach the cheating wife and try to get her to tell her husband?
2016-05-27 13:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋