Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

Are you happy with the way your husband treats you?

2007-12-28 12:22:30 · 29 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I should leave my husband. He isn't attracted to me anymore and has admitted that He would like to be on his own. We've been married for 7 years and all was happy and fine untill about a year ago he started paying less attention to me and when I asked him recently if he loves me he said he's not sure. When I almost left once he told me he loved me and he wanted me to stay but now it's back to the same ol ignoring me all the time routine. We have talked a million times it always ends up with him implying he doesn't want to be together anymore. I can't bring myself to walk out that door and start the rest of my life how do I start over how do I bring myself to leave?

2007-12-28 12:22:15 · 13 answers · asked by Mommy of 2) 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 12:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by My world goes round 3 in Marriage & Divorce

With out sex of any sort....
Even if you are just friends... wut do u want her to do?
Or more...???

2007-12-28 12:18:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a husband is shut out of sex by his wife, would you be more likely to excuse him for having an affair?

I'm not asking if it's justified, but would you be more able to understand his actions?

btw, I am not married, and have not had an affair, but I do have friends whose wives won't have sex with them anymore.

2007-12-28 12:15:27 · 36 answers · asked by ironcityguy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Should this phrase be taken out of wedding ceromonies. With all the divorces going on it seams 50% of marrages just ignore this phrase.

2007-12-28 12:13:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

get child support? im scared to.. i filled all the papers but everytime i tell him i am going to get it he threatens me with everything imaginable.. that hes going to have me thrown in jail take her away blah blah blah
and i KNOW he is serious
he wont give me a dime for anything!
he wont help buy her things or do anything
hes a fat lazy slob
i need help :(

2007-12-28 12:12:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

..she wants to visit while in this area being tourist with friends.I love the woman still,I don't think I will agree to meet her...it was painful the last time we said good-bye.And I can't use a trip down selected 'memory' lane.To be blunt,she was always a fox and probably still is...I can do without the distraction of that too.
Do you have feelings for your ex still?

2007-12-28 12:08:56 · 45 answers · asked by cygnus4114 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want to be out in my car or in a bar or anywhere far when the new year comes in, so I am thinking about just having a drink then going to bed.
The last 2 yrs, my significant other and I have been engaged in sex during the midnite hour, but surprise, I started my period this afternoon and he probably isnt interested.
Do you have plans?

2007-12-28 12:08:29 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

just curious ladies, what career is most attractive or impressive to you. you know u ask a guy what he does in a bar and he says _____. what career turns u on the most? (lawyer, doctor, poet?)

P.S. no answers like celebrity, singer, actor, athlete.

2007-12-28 12:07:04 · 10 answers · asked by fresh 1 in Singles & Dating

As posted before, I hit my wife when she questioned me after a night out with some of my colleagues over a week ago. I am a dentist, practice owner ...educated, a professional. I am not some thug out on the street that takes pleasure in abusing his spouse. I feel horrible. I did right away. I don't have much time with my business and patients, and I wanted to resolve this on my own so our 2 children didn't get involved. I am having a very difficult time convincing my wife to trust me. She has moved back home from her sisters finally, but things are so different and she seems so distant. What can I do?

2007-12-28 12:03:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she cheated on her husband and he was proven NOT to be the father with a test and her lover wants a test but she cursed him out and told him that was not neccessary. What's going on with this picture???

2007-12-28 11:58:21 · 30 answers · asked by lele 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and I dont know what to do.
I want to make him feel better. ??I honestly couldnt care less about my feelings right now.
I guess I understand where he's coming from, but then again, I dont.
:(:(
Leah. :] says:
Babe. I dont like this. We talked more when we werent dating, and it doesn't even seem like you are making an effort to talk to me.
Leah. :] says:
.. Hello?
mike[vAMP] says:
..idk what tosay
Leah. :] says:
Do you want to keep dating? .. like, do you even care?
mike[vAMP] says:
idk
Leah. :] says:
what do you mean you dont know?
mike[vAMP] says:
idk..i never wanted to hurt u
Leah. :] says:
.. Did I do something?
mike[vAMP] says:
no its not you at all
Leah. :] says:
err idk. I guess I just dont understand
mike[vAMP] says:
i dont expect u to i wouldnt understand if i was u
Leah. :] says:
Like seriously. I thought we had so much in common. You are amazing.
mike[vAMP] says:
we do im just not that amazing im just a guy and I'm a mess inside.

2007-12-28 11:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by Leah//electric™ (: 2 in Singles & Dating

What is a good first date for high school? Im a senior and i am going on a date with a freshman. what would be a good first date?

2007-12-28 11:53:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl tht wasnts to be on my squad but shhe cant cheer for her life! She's a realyl geeky girl what should i do? will it ruin My life and i'll become less poppluar and nmy bf will dump me? and my sex goes down teh drain??!?!

2007-12-28 11:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by Lexi P 2 in Singles & Dating

after how many dates does a guy usually commit?

2007-12-28 11:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by Megan 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is having a relationship with a guy who is related to her. He is her 2nd cousin, I think? Is it illigal if she wanted to get married to him?

They both share the same Great Grandmother but different Great Grandfather

Sensible answers please

2007-12-28 11:51:23 · 24 answers · asked by Vixx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Thers this "friend" of mine and Carls, and the other night she wanted to comeover, and I said fine, but don't comment on how you're horny or how you need laid, ect. and she said okay. Well she waltzes in the door and not 5 mins later she said tht she was horny. And it gets Carl kinda excited, cuz idk, thts an issue I'm going to have to work out w/him. And she'll hit on him and me, all the time, and I really wanna tell her to piss off, but I don't know how to go about it since Carl will get pissed if I blow her off.
So I was thinking, and I wrote her this email:
Subject : Hey. I need to talk to you about something.
Body: I need to talk to you, its rather important to me. Write me when you get this. I think it's kinda urgent.
Thanks,
*Bunnie*

2007-12-28 11:49:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think its ironic that men are usually big and strong but they have a huge weakness between their legs/? in their balls. Like that most men tower over me because im short and they are alot stronger than me and all i have do is slap or hit them in the balls and down they go, do u love it girls or do u use it?

2007-12-28 11:49:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kate V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think its ironic that men are usually big and strong but they have a huge weakness between their legs/? in their balls. Like that most men tower over me because im short and they are alot stronger than me and all i have do is slap or hit them in the balls and down they go, do u love it girls or do u use it?

2007-12-28 11:48:53 · 1 answers · asked by Kate V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 11:48:28 · 3 answers · asked by Lilly T 1 in Singles & Dating

spend that much time with them. Our sex life is non existant anymore and she tells me to go get it from other women becuase she is too tired from watching the baby all day long. I don't know what to do anymore because we are in a lot of debt becuase of a failed business. I can't talk to her about anytning anymore becuase she gets all mad and starts yelling and crying. I don't know what to think anymore because i ask her is she is happy and she says she is and she wants to be with me, but it doesn't seem that way anymore. I don't want to leave her becuase she was adopted and her mom died and she has no one left to help her out. I also don't want to leave her because she will try to take my son away from me. I would do anything for my son and would die for him....i couldn't handle losing him. Someone please help me out here, before i go insane....

2007-12-28 11:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Pleasing yourselves? Just curious...I know you'd expect it to be more common for guys.

2007-12-28 11:46:55 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-a girl whose not really that pretty but is ok but has a good personality,good self esteem,and has confidence.

or...

-a girl you find really attractive,hot,cute or whatever but has a low self esteem, always negative about themselves,and no confidence but shes nice?

2007-12-28 11:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all i ever hear from men is how there are no happily married men, so why do men even bother? i dont get it. and for those of you that are unhappy, what is the reason that you are so unhappy. i love being married

2007-12-28 11:45:33 · 18 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay! im in a relationship with this guy that 21 and im 23 but the thing is that in the beging of our relationship he would call me more often pay more attention to me! I think Ive getting to attached to him. oh yeah one thing hes a transporter for a hospital grave yard shift. so most of his time hes always tired. what do i do to not feel like he doesnt like me ? sometimes i feel he doesnt even wanna talk to me because hes always like ill call you back when im getting into the conversation? girls and guys what do i do ? do you think its nothing ? do i pay too much attention to him ? what do i do?

2007-12-28 11:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by sweets 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up recently and i lost it bc it was my fault. i have emotional problems and said some mean things to her. it's hard for me to get close to people so i poushed her way. i then put myself into psychotherapy. at first she said that i could regain her trust. then she said the walls between us would never come down. today i told her about the psychological stuff i'm going through and how bad i feel for hurting her. i told her i knew we needed time apart but asked if we'd be able to talk again someday. she said "someday". i asked if it was possible i could make this up to her and she said "yeah." then later she said "nothing will get better right now. do you understand why i can't say anything to you while you are having psychological problems?" i said i did but i really don't understand. what did she mean? do you think she could just being say we'll be friends bc she feels bad?

2007-12-28 11:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

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^^this is me



am i competly hideous or something?

2007-12-28 11:42:13 · 77 answers · asked by levindevin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 11:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by Cinnamon 6 in Singles & Dating

okay my mom daied a couple moth ago my dad has a new wife my step mom and she's pragnet it makes me mad should i move in with my bf

2007-12-28 11:41:18 · 14 answers · asked by SCORPIO 1 in Singles & Dating