okay my mom daied a couple moth ago my dad has a new wife my step mom and she's pragnet it makes me mad should i move in with my bf
2007-12-28 11:41:18 · 14 answers · asked by SCORPIO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand why you would be feeling upset. But if you feel as though you are ready to move out then you should. Maybe you should move in with another relative or stay at home with your dad and step mom. She's only stressing you out because of her pregnancy. But if you moved out that might stress out your dad and your step mom. & that's not good for a pregnant woman to be stressed out. It's probably best if you stayed at home.
2007-12-28 11:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sienna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be soooooorrry if u do. getting involved like fully with a young man is not a good idea ,, your step mom well pregnacy does make some women moody .. hormones do get wild at times plus the xtra weight its not an easy time,,
why cant you be more helpful and considerate then? after all the baby she is having will be your younger sister and or brother so thsi little new life will need an older sister to help too.. grins,, i too was a older brother i was 11 years old and 13 when my step mom had 2 kids.. . i was 18 when i left home . i never seen my brother alive after that either ,,
WHY not talk to her too and your dad ? yes i know teens think they dont need anyone either and noone understands them . SEXUAL RELATION with your boy friend wont make u more loving either and moving in wont mature you either .
GOD designed marriage for to be between one woman and 1 man in a stable loving relationship where they both share and love oneanother in a an environment that love grows. and flourishes.
SURE U CAN JUST LIVE TOGETHER and all but this is not what brings lasting love and security,, I BELIEVE the creator knows whats best for us and out of love HE TELLS us to wait, grow up more n learn more before entering intop this type of relationship.. ,, yes iknow many will tell you otherwise too. . , be safe wait you wont regret it in the long run ,, brother murray
2007-12-28 20:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, at fifteen, why would you want to move in with your boyfriend? I am hoping this is not the way you were taught life in London. Regardless of what your mother is going through, you should be there for her. Moving in with your boyfriend and I promise you will end up pragnet ( pregnant) as you say. Keep your butt at home with mommie, and maybe you will become a pro basketball player. Good luck!!!
2007-12-28 19:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by brownfoxybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your step-mom will be moody for the next little while...ah the joys of pregnancy! If she's stressing you out, try having a talk with her...on the level...no blaming and no yelling...I know it sounds hoaky 'She's emotional...it's hormones etc' It's really true. Pregnant women freak over the littlest things. Maybe invite your dad to sit in with you for support. If she wasn't freaking on you before she got pregnant chances are she'll settle down after the baby...either way talking it out with your stp mom and dad would be a good thing.
2007-12-28 19:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said ---- ok, my mum died a couple of months ago, my dad has a new wife, my step mum, and shes pregnant. It makes me mad, should i move in with my bf?
I wouldn't. Try and bond with your step mum. She will have had the baby soon and you will have a new family member to look after. It will be hard but rewarding. Don't run away from problems, face them.
2007-12-28 19:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by ρяσмιѕє мє тнιѕ ... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just 15, you are a girl plus you can't make that decision based on your family problems because you will get in a situation that you are not ready to assume.
If you move with him you'll have responsabilities similar to marriage are you ready for it?
2007-12-28 19:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't add to the confusion... it's complex enough
Your stepmom might appreciate some help and you would be demonstrating that you're mature enough to have a bf ...
btw, you'll probably love that baby!
2007-12-28 19:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Merry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months seem a bit quick for your dad to get involved with someone. Sure, if you can afford it, move out.
2007-12-28 19:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by the universe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf?
mom dies a few MONTHS ago, and your father remarried that soon? was he cheating? now she's knocked up? and you want to run away with some guy? good lord, your life is a freakin soap opera...
2007-12-28 19:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are like 16-17 yeah sure but if you are any younger i suggest not
2007-12-28 19:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋