she cheated on her husband and he was proven NOT to be the father with a test and her lover wants a test but she cursed him out and told him that was not neccessary. What's going on with this picture???
2007-12-28 11:58:21 · 30 answers · asked by lele 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
her hubby signed the birth certificate and she is in love with the lover so why wont she give him a dna?
2007-12-28 12:08:29 · update #1
Cause he isn't the father either!
2007-12-28 12:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently the husband signed the birth certificate before he found out about her affair(s). Regardless of whether or not he signed the birth certificate, if he discovered he was not the father befor the child was 2 or three years old (depending upon the state), he can still divorce her and not owe child support.
However, if he continues to live with her and raise the child as his own, then he will be the legal father of the child, even if he is not the biological father. I'd recommend he get out now, because she will probably cheat again, and the next time, he will already be on the hook for child support for this child.
2007-12-28 12:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by rlb1961 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only other reason that a woman might refuse the test is because she feels humiliated because she knows, that he knows, that he is the real father.
If he thinks that he is NOT the father .. then he can contact the Attorney General of his State, requesting information on how to find out if he is the maternal father or not ... therefore - forcing her to take the paternity test.
2007-12-28 12:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she wants sole custody of the child, or wants to see if her husband will sign the birth certificate. Since her lover is not the husband, he can't force a paternity test. She would submit only if she wants him in the child's life and perhaps to get financial help. My guess is she doesn't want the lover to be in the child's life and may be planning on convincing her husband to sign the birth certificate.
2007-12-28 12:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the husband signed the birth certificate.. it could be that he can not have children.. and she just used the other person to have a baby with.. and now that she has one..she wants him out of the picture to complete her perfect family.. if he was in the picture with a dna.. that would always be a reminder of her past.. and then she could not pass the child off as her husband.. i know a lady that did that once.. she is married to my ex
2007-12-28 12:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either A: She's not sure who the daddy is, B: She doesn't want the truth to come out who the daddy is, or C: She her husband and her have just accepted that he (the husband) will be daddy, and that's all that the baby needs, someone who will claim it and love it. It takes a MAN to be a daddy, not a DNA test.
2007-12-28 12:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Renee' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be that she is insulted at the insinuation of mistrust. I know I would be. But I can certainly see where the lover is coming from as well. If she "cheated" on her husband, she may have "cheated" on the lover too! That is why I recommend people honor their promises, else you become someone that others understandably mistrust.
2007-12-28 12:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by DidoDeeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either she doesn't want him in the picture, or there's been more than one lover. The lover can court order a paternity test.
2007-12-28 12:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Maury show to me...............
Sir (the lover) you are NOT the baby daddy.
No for real.....I had a cousin that did the same thing........she refused to have a dna test done.............the courts had to make her do it........and the man turned out to not be her childs father..............we all knew she had no idea who her baby daddy was.............it is a shame.......but she still dont know.
2007-12-28 12:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't want the 'lover' around the child. Maybe she and her husband plan on raising him/her. It takes more than biology to make a great parent and raise a child.
2007-12-28 12:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by busymum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the aid of fact she isn't so beneficial that's his infant. there are possibly others available that must be the daddy. confident i could be disenchanted if i grew to become into to get pregnant by means of my husband and he needed me to take a paternity attempt. i does no longer p.c. to do it yet just to teach him what an azz he's i could get that paternity attempt and then flow away his azz. i could do it just to teach how incorrect he's. i think of she isn't extremely beneficial who the daddy is and is ashamed of herself for no longer understanding.
2016-10-20 05:35:32 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋