my ex and i broke up recently and i lost it bc it was my fault. i have emotional problems and said some mean things to her. it's hard for me to get close to people so i poushed her way. i then put myself into psychotherapy. at first she said that i could regain her trust. then she said the walls between us would never come down. today i told her about the psychological stuff i'm going through and how bad i feel for hurting her. i told her i knew we needed time apart but asked if we'd be able to talk again someday. she said "someday". i asked if it was possible i could make this up to her and she said "yeah." then later she said "nothing will get better right now. do you understand why i can't say anything to you while you are having psychological problems?" i said i did but i really don't understand. what did she mean? do you think she could just being say we'll be friends bc she feels bad?
2007-12-28 11:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by the w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you need a break. Just stop talking to her like you want her back right now. Keep a journal of your thoughts and then share them with her after a month or so. If she's dating someone else, don't get all jealous and freak her out again, give her some respect and space. If you were meant to be together, you will be. Don't make any promises and don't expect her to keep any promises she makes to you. Sometimes a fresh start is all you need.
2007-12-28 11:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, congratulations for getting into therapy. I would ask your therapist for help about getting over this relationship.
You are not alone. Most people have had some form of psychological problems at one time or the other.
2007-12-28 19:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Brian K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is not sure herself but to be honest m8 i'd give it a rest for a while and concentrate on yourself it may sound harsh but thats what i think if someone cant look after there self how can they take care of others in short it doesnt sound good 4 a relationship and as far as being friends thats mostly harder than being together
2007-12-28 19:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Steff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's young and doesn't know how to deal with your problems. why don't you work on yourself for a while and learn to trust yourself before you begin to seek relationships. psychological problems can be scary for others, and baring your soul is not an easy thing for anyone to witness , no matter how close you were before.
leave it alone and get OK with yourself
2007-12-28 19:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't know how to handle the fact that you are having the problems? maybe she doesn't want to contribute to your problems. there are so many things that could be the answer to your questions but the only real way of finding out the answer, ask her! maybe she doesn't want you to get upset if she tells you the truth, cuz she doesn't want to make matters worse? my suggestion is do something to make her realize how sorry you are for what you did and make her realize how much you truly do love and care for her?
2007-12-28 19:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Privateperson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone for about a week.
go with flowers a bear and an apologize.
next time think before you say something.
put urself in her position.
2007-12-28 19:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by lilmayra2011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels once your emotional problems
are resolved the two of you can get back together again.
i think by that statement of hers there is hope the two of
you can back together again. i feel there is hope.
2007-12-28 19:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, quite possibly.
2007-12-28 19:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by hi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue. this question is very confusing
2007-12-28 19:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by | 爱 ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have hope.
no hope, no life...
create hope anyhow
2007-12-28 19:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by saif i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋