Thers this "friend" of mine and Carls, and the other night she wanted to comeover, and I said fine, but don't comment on how you're horny or how you need laid, ect. and she said okay. Well she waltzes in the door and not 5 mins later she said tht she was horny. And it gets Carl kinda excited, cuz idk, thts an issue I'm going to have to work out w/him. And she'll hit on him and me, all the time, and I really wanna tell her to piss off, but I don't know how to go about it since Carl will get pissed if I blow her off.
So I was thinking, and I wrote her this email:
Subject : Hey. I need to talk to you about something.
Body: I need to talk to you, its rather important to me. Write me when you get this. I think it's kinda urgent.
Thanks,
*Bunnie*
2007-12-28 11:49:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And then when she writes back, I'm going to reply with this:
I don't really appreciate you stuffing yourself in Carls face and neither does he (but he's not rude enough to tell you. I am though), and interfering with our sexual relationship. This isn't the first time you've tried to do it. And furthermore I warned you once before about this, as a matter of fact, the very night you happened to behave in such manners. This is the last time I'm going to mention anything to you about this, and if you do it again. Unfortunately I'm not going to be able to socialize with you. Carl is my boyfriend and you well know it. I think you need to step off before I knock you off.
Do you think she'll get the message?
2007-12-28 11:50:21 · update #1
I don't really invite her over, she just keeps calling and harassing me until I answer, and then she'll invite herself over. I usually tell her we have plans, but sometimes I can't do it. I'm not naturally a mean person.
2007-12-28 12:05:35 · update #2
Well I called her and said: the other night, what happened I didn't' appreciate, And I wish it wouldn't happen again. I did tell her I wasn't trying to hurt her feelings, I was just trying to clear up an obvious misunderstanding, that I would appreciate not happen again. and that I would still like to be her friend, as long as she can refrain her sexual urges, otherwise I will have to cut off all communication w/her.
And she started bawling and then said "Who needs friends, everyone dies sooner or later." Then hung up. So I called her back to make sure she wouldn't hurt herself (Cuz shes stupid like that) And she answered, screaming "f*ck off b*tch"....
Should I just leave it now?
2007-12-28 13:06:47 · update #3
You don't need to e-mail her. Just don't invite her over anymore. By you saying she can come over your putting yourself in this situation. If you decide to let her come over anyways when she says that stuff tell her straight up "Don't come over here talking like that. Nobody wants to hear that your horny, don't anyone care" But you better be careful she seems like one of those girls that would F uck your man behind your back and still come over and chill in your face.
2007-12-28 12:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by 2good4U 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she'll get the message. Just don't write that Carl doesn't like it either if he really does because that's lying.
2007-12-28 19:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She'll get the message. Whether she does anything about it is her choice though....hopefully she does, but ya know!
But anyways, your man should have been the one to tell her to back off. I'd seriously watch him because even if he is secretly excited by her, he's kinda showing you disrespect by not doing anything about it when it obviously bothers you.
2007-12-28 19:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her that as a warning, tell your boyfriend she bothers you, if she tries anything agian hopefully your boyfriend will leave the room or kick her out if not punch her in the face she sounds pathetic
2007-12-28 19:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jilly Bean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would bet she will get the message. good luck. also
regarding your question my suggestion would have been to
talk to her in a very civil fashion. good luck.
2007-12-28 19:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't email it, call her and tell her. Email is so impersonal that some people don't take it seriously.
2007-12-28 19:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have punched her in the face lol. but yeah that works to
2007-12-28 19:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by khinman14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just beat her ***
2007-12-28 19:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋