Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

Please explain!

2007-12-28 13:05:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this was a guy that was a friend for 2 years. He came by to say whats up. when i got in the car he locked the door and speed off. I told him no and he said, "i sound sexy saying no" he graped my arm a little forceful, but imediately i froze and got scared to fight back.....i cried non stop.... when I went to the hospital that same night, the doctor said he used a condom...is it my fault.

2007-12-28 13:05:11 · 8 answers · asked by GODS CHILD 1 in Friends

i try and tell my mom how i feel when shes drunk and sober.. but she never seems to think i can have my own opinion its always my dad "brainwashing me" and no matter how much i cry or tell her or let her see how it is affecting me nothing gets her to even think about quiting not even that im not asking her to stop drinking im asking her to stop getting drunk every night of her life.. ive told her and so has my sister that she is ruining every chance she has to have a relationship with us.. she says she doesnt have a problem and that she just does it for the buzz.her mom was the same way and stopped when she was about 50.but im in depression at 13 because of it. im afraid for her life and she doesnt care she has told me that she is scared of life and its not what she wants it to be i told her that nothing ever is but it cant get any better unless you face it and try to help yourself My life is a living hell because of it iv had so many people tell me so but i dont know how to help it!!!

2007-12-28 13:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by me(: 2 in Family

if you cant write 20 things its alright just try youre best . you will get more points to did a great job. it can be whatever you wanna to write . sillly stuffs, gross, weired, crazy .

2007-12-28 13:02:49 · 7 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Friends

Should I dump him?

2007-12-28 13:02:06 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even if you are in love..do guys really think "well why buy the milk when its free"? how can women effectively say "we either get engaged or nothing"?

2007-12-28 13:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by amazonprincess707 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 12:58:45 · 10 answers · asked by pogidaw2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so slutty...I'm wearing thongs and wearing low pants and bringing the thong strings up, i wear reaally low shirts and maxim bras, i wear short skirts and like bend over when i'm near a guy ( in public..), i flirt more with guys and im like allways talkign about se x. When i say i feel like a sl ut i dont mean as in promiscuous i mean that i look like a sl ut....does it sound that way to you, and is it going to be worse later ( i'm 15 btw)?? HELP

2007-12-28 12:55:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do i was asked to get married i do love this person who is 25 and i am 17 but will be 18 this coming year i will have a job with him and have a nice house but i think i am getting ahead of myself and i will feel awfel if he kills himself if i decline which is what he said he will do if i dont. what should i do

2007-12-28 12:55:14 · 25 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 2 in Singles & Dating

First off, I am willing to do though I never have but I don't know about what he may want to do. I don't think I would be comfortable with him doing anything with her. Guys, would you be ok with not touching the other woman and just watching us then being with me?

2007-12-28 12:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive known this guy since i was 8 and hes told me he was interested in me and I told him he was amazeing and he said thats the nicest thing any one has said to me in a long time and I said that I could tell him alot of nice things that I think about him.. and he said this (well then why dont you start..... now my interest is peaked) whats he mean by my interest is peaked??

2007-12-28 12:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in a car crash with your brother/sister, and when you got to Heaven, you discovered that your brother/sister went to hell instead (maybe he/she did something terrible in their life that they did not tell you about). How would you react knowing you would (in all eternity) never see your loved one again, and that he/she was burning in hell? What would you do? Would you call that Heaven?

2007-12-28 12:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by EverydayJoe 4 in Family

my boyfriend slept with my best friend from elementary school. i love my friend to death, but i also love my boyfriend dearly and i think hes the one. however i dont know who to blame... what do i do? :/

2007-12-28 12:44:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to make my 11 year old brother look like a girl. What do i need to do it and how? Include everything! (makeup, clothes, etc.)

2007-12-28 12:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i got so many conflicting answers to my question! thank you for the advice. i am still confused. the married man i am involved with is only there because of the kids. and yes we both have children! i guess i should make a descison in 08 and decide to think of my kids first, then myself. maybe then blessings will come my way! you can not stop the feelings you have for someone. whether they are married or not. the way he treats me makes me feel like he loves me. my husband is begging me to stick with him and make things work while he is in jail. though i am not sure that is the life i want to live!

2007-12-28 12:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so many people get divorced nowadays, mostly because they rushed it. were there certain things you wish you knew during your early relationships? also, how long do you think a couple should date before getting married?

2007-12-28 12:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by avielleb 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl at work. The thing is everytime she enters the room, I get chills and freeze up, and then walk away. The other day, I was talking to two other female coworkers when she walked in. Right when she walked in, I quickly sneaked out with one of the other coworker. I saw that she turned to look a little puzzle and perhaps even hurt.

What do you think I should do now?

2007-12-28 12:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by kekeke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please take a minute to read n tell me!!!!!
---Let's say,..me and and this guy have been verry close friends since high school. For straight two years,..we would go out at least 2 or 3 times a week. Just me n him. He would take me to a restaurant at night,...we would go to movies,..And then he'd call n say "lets go dancing", and it was just for couples,...or he would call, we'd talk,..n after we say bye,..he was tellin me really quick, so i coudnt even hear "love ya..bye." He was calling soo late at night,..to see if i was asleep...i dont know what else to say.
--We would always be holding hands,..but NeVER kissed or n e thing. There was a time when he told me, at the movies "This is not a date,..you know that right? We just came to see a movie". I've been so confused that you wont even imagine. And has also often told me, (would call n say).."I just called to say I Love you.! My life would be incomplete without you."
I just want to know, how do YOU GUYS see this?

2007-12-28 12:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm still in the process of thinking about wither to break up with my current bf or not (I take a while to come to a decision about important things). After him, I plan on keeping only my cats for company, maybe a dog...

But past recuperating, there is this guy that lives far away, I've talked to him online for the past 9 years, I adore him. I want to go meet him in person and confirm that I really do like him as much as I think I have for the past few years. I could never stop thinking about this guy, through all the bf's I've had, it feels like sometimes I compare them to this guy, whom I've never met in person. :-/ I day dream about him alot, and talk to him all the time, we have disagreements about things, but it's never been enough that we stop talking to each other. When I feel mended, should I go visiting to confirm these feelings or not?

2007-12-28 12:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by Ravenberri 4 in Singles & Dating

For years my husband neglected me, was never home and was always on the computer. I felt so irritated and annoyed, but i still loved him.
These past couple of years however, i have felt that i do not love him anymore. I have found other men attractive, which i didn't before. When he tried any sexual act I feel repulsed, as i don't even fancy him anymore either. I do have a high sex drive, but just not with him. We hav 3 kids together. I have tried so hard to get my feelings back for him, but I can't, and the longer I try, the worse I feel about him.
I told him the way I felt and we both decided that he should leave. Poor thing was crying as he still loves me, but I just don't love him. I feel very guilty, but I can't stay in a loveless marriage just cos I feel sorry for him.
I feel very bad too, as his family can't see what is wrong with me, and they are going to hate me for not loving, & hurting him. I will miss my relationship with them too. what do you think? should we split up?

2007-12-28 12:35:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To make a long story short...I'm black my boyfriend is white. We already get enough sh*t as is with us being in an interracial relationship.Yesterday, me and my guy went out to dinner with 4 of his friends who are dudes. 1 was his best friend. Anyway, some how or another, the convo lead to sex and a womens role bed. So his my guys best friend makes a remark about black women and sex and links it to me and my dudes sex life. I'd rather not say what he said... but everyone at the table starts laughing out of their a** and my dudes knows i'm pissed off because now I know he has been telling people things about our sex life. I talk to him about it today and he had the nerve to say "sh*t happens" right now, I can't even talk to him because I think he has broken a bond and trust that I don't think will ever been link again. Obviously we need to talk about this again.How do you deal with a guy who has gone around telling people about your sex life? I was humiliate sitting there by myself

2007-12-28 12:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by Reese 6 in Singles & Dating

I ask her if he was there and she said no and I said ok and hang up but now I am wondering if I should have ask her who she was because I think he has another girlfriend judging by the way he has been acting lately.Do you think I should call back the phone and ask her who she is? I need your advice please.I am 18 and he is 21.

2007-12-28 12:32:06 · 20 answers · asked by Tanya S 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband just called me a 'f#*$ck up' several times. We got married in August. He is a control freak. We don't have a lot of $$, I am in school but as soon as I finish I will have a lucrative career as a court reporter. The program is really hard, though and it has been extremely difficult for me here at the end. I will definitely admit that I don't practice as much as I should and he certainly reminds me of that often. He gets angry with me for buying anything. He is a realtor and hasn't closed on a deal in a couple months which has not helped our financial situation. I also work part-time as a paralegal which is the only income we are making at the moment. I bought a pair of pantyhose for $3.87 recently and still have not heard the end of it. Tonight's fight was because I bought a large bottle of wine $6.99. He thinks I drink a lot (he does not drink much) so it made him mad that I would spend on something he doesn't like. Should anyone put up with this no matter what they did bad?

2007-12-28 12:29:23 · 15 answers · asked by wendyshannon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married since June of 2006 and he's active army, we only lived with each other maybe 3 months out of our marriage and he was physically abusive during that time. Now he is currently deployed to Iraq and his physical abuse has turned into verbal abuse, he blames this on him being in a war. I dont know what to do, I do still love him and I dont know if I should stick it out and wait for him to get help.

2007-12-28 12:29:16 · 47 answers · asked by joyfuljoy2001k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I was talking to this guy I have made out with a couple of times, but am not dating. We were talking and I said I didnt want to kiss my last BF, and just couldnt. He said do you like kissing me, I said yeah. And then he was like why, so I said because there are no strings and its good!. He said thats what I love about you. I was like, ok. This sounds wrong to me. I mean, she likes that Ill give him what he wants with out commiting. What do you think.

2007-12-28 12:27:18 · 20 answers · asked by Mal777 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 12:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by tik 1 in Singles & Dating

when you are in you thirties ..... having been in love in your twenties ..is it so different now ?i have two children so it will be different anyway but thanx for your serious input in advance?

2007-12-28 12:26:09 · 16 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

The question iv been asked by Random girls the past month !

One of the things girls have asked me is

Hows your love life ?

And also have been asked this one aswell Today

Do you have a Girlfriend ?

What does this Mean if a Girl asks a Guy these questions ?

these questions have been asked by all Differant girls

2007-12-28 12:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had that experience?

2007-12-28 12:23:01 · 14 answers · asked by Kerrie 3 in Friends

wat is porn?

2007-12-28 12:22:31 · 6 answers · asked by Lilly T 1 in Singles & Dating