First off, I am willing to do though I never have but I don't know about what he may want to do. I don't think I would be comfortable with him doing anything with her. Guys, would you be ok with not touching the other woman and just watching us then being with me?
2007-12-28 12:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to tell your husband your conditions of this fantasy that he has. If he agrees to all your conditions, then You should pick the women, not him. If this is OK with him and you, go for it, if not, do NOT do this.
This is up to you, and make sure he does not pressure you into doing anything you are uncomfortable with!
2007-12-28 12:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lapband Man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm NOT a guy but, I'd like to answer this.. I have a friend whose husband was all hot/bothered with the idea of his wife being with another woman while he watched so his wife who has always been straight went along with it and after a few "sessions" she found that she no longer needed her husband kicked him to the curb and has been with the other woman ever since. ... So, your husband might want to be careful what he "wishes" for you may find that you don't need him....
Good luck
2007-12-28 21:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooo that's a tough one. ....
#1 Your relationship with your husband may not be the same after that and are you willing to risk that?
#2 How well do you know this other chick and where is this "other female" from? It may be someone he's already having sex with? or wants to have sex with?
#3 He will definitely want to join in.
#4 He is going to want to do this again you know right???
2007-12-28 21:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, consult a divorce lawyer, you will need it if you go thru with it. i think these are the goofiest questions on here. 2 people in love and thats not enough. i think these requests are selfish. but its your life, tyou have to ask yourself if this is really what you want to do and later face the music if it goes bad. 9 times out of 10 it will.
2007-12-28 21:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by j p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, If you don't do it you know somebody else will.
To your second question. I have done that and been happy as long as she was still doing it with the other woman.
Also, in my case it was a temporary thing. I eventually got my fill, and wanted to just be with my main girl after a few times.
The reality was not as good as the fantasy.
2007-12-28 20:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy answering, but if your husband really loves you he wouldn't even asks you. If you want to that's up to you, but have some respect for yourse if sonds like you are not comfortable, dont do it, let them get mad. youll have more respect & guys in thhhe long run!
2007-12-28 21:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck do you mean you are "willing", are you out of your mind?
You tell that husband that is not in the rules of marriage.
I guarantee you this, it will end your marriage (what you have of one).
2007-12-28 20:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm perfectly fine with it...you sound like a very loving wife - you must have a great marriage...
2007-12-28 20:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything that you are not completely comfortable with... this may change your marriage forever....
2007-12-28 20:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They actually have places in big citys that you can go to and do it with a proffesinal and they show you how to do it.
2007-12-28 20:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥↔♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋