I'm soo disappointed with my best friend... now I can't even vent it out of my system.....?

Question

Have you ever had that experience?

Answer 1

yeah

Answer 2

as her friend you should be able to talk to her and let her know hoe disapointed you are the best person to air it out with is her .
Just make sure you have thought over everything before talking to her if you think you might not get to say your whole peice then write to her e-mail her. Let her know every thing you are feeling and let her know that she means alot to you and you would like to resolve the problem
much luck

Answer 3

Yeah, alot of times. Sometimes i get so mad that i dont even know why i stay friends with them! But then everything goes back to normal like a day after!

Answer 4

If this person is a friend, you should be able to tell them how you feel. If you don't feel comfortable with that how about writing it out in a letter?...Even if you never end up sending it.

Answer 5

Yeah I have... don't worry about it, I'm going through it now.. But things will get better for you, I know they will :)
Tell them how you feel, and if they're a good friend they would listen to you. :)
x

Answer 6

well,no because I dont know what the problem is.But yes I know how it is to be upset with a friend,or mad.Just write it all down on paper.It helps.Good luck hope i helped

Answer 7

no but here is how you vent your feelings (i got it off the show thats so raven lol)


write her a letter saying how you feel,, how mad you are and everything and NEVER SEND IT

Answer 8

yessss alll the time. just dont talk to her for a day or just sleep. or be a total and complete b***h to her and say sorry u were pms-ing

Answer 9

yeh, back in Junior High, this girl was one of my bestest friends for 3 years, call her R. R had a crush on one of the most popular guys (B) at school but she was really shy.
Since I was more outgoing n talked alot (so bluntly at times), R told me to 'get close' (just friends,casually) to B so I could tell nice things about R to him, make him like R ofcourse.
After awhile of doing my duty of tellin him how cool R is TONS of times, I dont know how it happened but instead of liking R, B grew fond of me o.O to be honest, I kinda liked him too since he was awfully nice to me all the time. But I realized how valuable my friendship with R was, so when B asked me to be his gf, I said "NO" right away.

I didnt want to hide things so I told what happened straight forward to R. I said I was sorry,I hope we're still good cos I'd never sacrifice our friendship over some guy. She looked kinda sad at first,but finally R said "it's fine. we're cool" and we just hung out like usual.

But like a week later, one of my best guy friend I hung out with alot (M) came up to me and almost like scolded me for how I've spread the secrets M only told few people to (me and few of his guy friends), to everybody else.
I tried to explain to M iono how it got out but I never leak any of his secrets, and its true, I NEVER DID. I asked him "who told u that I betray you?". He said "R". Then I realized, she hasnt gotten over the B thing, she lied about how she was ok with it, and she almost turned one of my best friends against me.
And I regret how I turned down B. I mean if I had know what kinda person R really was, I wouldn't have made any 'sacrifice' for our friendship.
I hated her, I yelled at her in front of almost all people at school and I turned everybody against her for saying bad things behind my back.

I got my revenge but I didnt feel better at all, to be honest with u. In time I learned how to handle such situations and to be the bigger person there. I've matured since I was in junior high, now I've finished highschool.

So iono what your best friend has done to you, but I hope you'll learn more how to see which are 'real friends' (& which are so-called 'friends' who'd only get close to you cos of the benefits they'd be gettin) and I hope you'll handle this situation wisely =)

Answer 10

Yes, people aren't always who we wish they were or want them to be.