Should I dump him?
2007-12-28 13:02:06 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been dating for 5 years.
2007-12-28 13:07:43 · update #1
No but talk to him about it. He might have a valid reason.
2007-12-28 13:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A good boyfriend would be taking you out for your birthday. Yeah dump him and get a real man that will treat you right. Hey Happy Birthday!!
2007-12-28 13:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump him (yet). Give him another chance. I know it sucks but always try to give people a second shot.
Call him and remind him. Tell him that you didn't want a gift or anything but just hoped to spend the day with the people that you love or at least get a phone call from them to feel that they care.
See what his reastion is. If he loves you, you will see that he obviously feels sorry and probably ashamed of himself. Don't make him feel too guilty if he does regrets it sincerely. If he loves you and cares about you he will try to make it up in a certain way (like he will be extra nice to you or do something like a hangout or offer a gift if he can to make up for what he did)
2007-12-28 13:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by L.E.B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He has nothing better to do, no important job, no family crisis, or anything that should bar him from calling you. Shame on him for forgetting to contact you on the holiest of all holidays- your birthday. It is a crime worse than murder, and I hope he burns in hell for the veritable sin he committed on you. I can imagine no greater shame or suffering that you could go through than not getting a call from him on your special day. He should know that you are a special princess fairy and should be treated accordingly, not like a birthdayless piece of trash.
Both Napoleon, Hitler, and bin Laden called their girlfriends on their birthdays. He is obviously worse than them. If you value your credibility amongst your friends, you would dump him on the curb like a half-finished Big Mac.
2007-12-28 13:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Fingerlickin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't be dramatic about it. Talk to him about it. Tell him how it mad you feel that he didn't call.
See guys are not really into christmas gift and valentines day or even birthdays. Then never know what to get a girl and they always forget when your birthday is unless you tell them a head of time all the way to the day before your birthday. I think its a guy think and they stick together on it too.
Who knows maybe if you tell him how it made your feel he might even make it up to you.
2007-12-28 13:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by "Foolishness" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I'd call him and remind him that your birthday was today. Something like that is way too trivial to ruin a relationship over. And i guarantee if he is a good Bf other than the forgeting the birthday thing you'll prolly get an hr of apologizing and a wicked gift
2007-12-28 13:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday. I would not contact him yourself and see how long it takes him to get in touch with you. When he does contact you, see if he says anything in his defence. If you don't like what you hear, then yes you will have to dump him - its a dumpable offence. If, on the other hand, he had his leg chewed off by a shark and then his arm mauled in a robotic car making plant then he has nearly an excuse. Sorry - its not much comfort.
2007-12-28 13:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying, I am sure you heard it before, men are from mars and women are from venus. Most of the time guys do not mean to hurt you intentionally, it may just be that they don't tend to pay attention to certain things.
I guess you have to ask yourself how serious you are with this guy and if he usually does things like this. If so, take a look if you really want to be with someone like that.
BUT, I do recommend you talk to him about it. There may be a perfectly good reason and there is no sense in getting wrinkles worrying about something like this.
Try not to worry, it will most likely all work out.
2007-12-28 13:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Goldie Locks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you two have been together. If you have been together for a month and a half or longer you should confront him. Make sure you know his birthday if you choose to confront him. Don't get angry, upset, or raise your voice just be calm and everything will be fine. Good Luck
PS He could be planing a special birthday suprise
2007-12-28 13:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Cj J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatley not!!!he has to have some kind of reason, if he deliberatley didn't call you then yes maybe you should, but you can't just throw away five years. Maybe you should think about the fact that you want to dump him beacause it is quite blatant considering you haven't waited for a reason from him to consider it an option. Good luck.
2007-12-28 13:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by bonniest-baby-1988xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If him not saying Happy Birthday would make you dump him you don't have a good relationship in the first place.
Let him go so he can find someone else.
2007-12-28 13:05:18 · answer #11 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋