Ok, so I was talking to this guy I have made out with a couple of times, but am not dating. We were talking and I said I didnt want to kiss my last BF, and just couldnt. He said do you like kissing me, I said yeah. And then he was like why, so I said because there are no strings and its good!. He said thats what I love about you. I was like, ok. This sounds wrong to me. I mean, she likes that Ill give him what he wants with out commiting. What do you think.
2007-12-28 12:27:18 · 20 answers · asked by Mal777 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves that you're easy...
But to hell with that. If you are content with the relationship that you have going, then carry on. What do you care if anyone on this forum thinks that your behavior is slutty? They're all jealous of you because the can't get any action. Power to you!
2007-12-28 12:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are three good things that can come out of "no strings' 1. you get what you need with not having the guy always bugging you. 2. You can always change you mind 3. when you do change you mind you have a good way to dump him.
But if it does sound wrong to you, then don't do it. You will only get hurt in the end. Make up your own mind.
2007-12-28 20:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by iamnotme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a NSA ("No Strings Attached") relationship - as long as you BOTH remember the "Golden Rule"...
DO NOT GET ATTACHED!!!!!
If you're both just enjoying the "physical" side of things, then this is great - but you CANNOT turn this into a "real" relationship without BOTH of you agreeing to do so. When feelings DO develop, it will ruin both the sex - AND the friendship.
As I said - if you're down with that, then more power to you ;);););)
2007-12-28 20:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a guy to me lol i think honesttly thats what majority of guys want a little llove with no strings attached lol but i guess to a girl that is slutty but to him its perfect and if he said that he doesnt truly love u he loves the taste of ur lips
2007-12-28 20:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by brent_pitcher 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he likes that you are just after fun nothing more. You made out like you were that kind of girl so thats what he has taken you for , not his fault. So yeah it does sound slutty
2007-12-28 20:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes you're leaving him with no responsibilities
that's like saying I'll have a child with someone and never be around to care for it. That's just wrong
2007-12-28 20:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by اليسيا 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it sound like you two have a good thing going
theres nothing wrong with having a little fun!
2007-12-28 20:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats not good.. .you will get a bad name.girl you need to stop because other guys will get wrong idea.
2007-12-28 20:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Donna J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like your about 12, and if he likes you because he thinks you can do things with out being commited to you then he thinks your a slut.
2007-12-28 20:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm.... I think this all too confusing. But, it doesn't sound slutty or whatever. Sound like you were just being yourself from my point of view.
2007-12-28 20:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋