So I'm still in the process of thinking about wither to break up with my current bf or not (I take a while to come to a decision about important things). After him, I plan on keeping only my cats for company, maybe a dog...
But past recuperating, there is this guy that lives far away, I've talked to him online for the past 9 years, I adore him. I want to go meet him in person and confirm that I really do like him as much as I think I have for the past few years. I could never stop thinking about this guy, through all the bf's I've had, it feels like sometimes I compare them to this guy, whom I've never met in person. :-/ I day dream about him alot, and talk to him all the time, we have disagreements about things, but it's never been enough that we stop talking to each other. When I feel mended, should I go visiting to confirm these feelings or not?
2007-12-28 12:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by Ravenberri 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps I am setting myself up for disappointment, which is why a visit would be basically a test run to see if he is or isn't who he is online. I'm prepared for that, and to make a vacation out of the visit if he's completely not the same online, but I think he's got more balls online then in person (apparently he's super shy in person!)
2007-12-28 12:45:47 · update #1
It's time to break up! Here's how:
http://www.bofads.com/stories/breakup2.htm
2007-12-28 12:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Question Guy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, why not go? I would urge you to be cautious before jumping into anything with this guy, though, as it takes very different skills to maintain a relationship "live" vs. online. Still, you two obviously have some chemistry, which is a good place to start.
Good luck.
PS Cats rock.
2007-12-28 20:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you break up with your current!
Then, stay single for 1 year.
Then go find another dude.
Why do you have to carry your baggage to another guy?
2007-12-28 20:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... I think you're setting yourself up for big dissappointment with this online guy. You don't even know the real him, you've just dreamed up who you want him to be.
2007-12-28 20:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh, long distance
=)
u should go visit him!!
see were it goes..
2007-12-28 20:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go follow your heart
2007-12-28 20:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by swnncountryboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋