this was a guy that was a friend for 2 years. He came by to say whats up. when i got in the car he locked the door and speed off. I told him no and he said, "i sound sexy saying no" he graped my arm a little forceful, but imediately i froze and got scared to fight back.....i cried non stop.... when I went to the hospital that same night, the doctor said he used a condom...is it my fault.
2007-12-28 13:05:11 · 8 answers · asked by GODS CHILD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whether he used a condom or not, you told him no and he scared you into sex. You need to keep telling people: Doctors, nurses, therapist, parents, friends, whoever you trust until someone listens and helps you. You are not in the wrong. It doesn't even matter how long you have known him either. I am sorry that happened to you. I hope you get the help you need. Good Luck. and God Bless.
2007-12-28 19:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Fancy♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said no, that's the only thing that matters. If you froze that was your way of handling it at the moment. You did the right thing going to the doctor and now you need to press charges.
Normally if they rape once they will again and again until someone sticks to it and makes him pay. I am very sorry you had this happen and I hope you have some moral support from family and friends. Also one very important thing is get some counseling, you may think you can handle this but if you don't work it out with professional help it WILL come back to haunt you later. Good Luck and remember you said no, that's the important thing.
2007-12-28 21:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by WACVET75 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT your FAULT! ! ! ! ! !
Girl you even went to the hospital, I would report it. Forget the friendship cause if he was a real friend he wouldn't have done that to begin with. I would so fight this one, men are not allowed to keep taking actions like this against woman. You told him no and that's the key word. Any sexual action that word would be called RAPE! ! !! It happens too to many females.
Stop him now before he does it to someone else.
2007-12-28 21:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dream_Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness!! This is so not your fault at all! That is deffinetly rape and i really think that you need to to report him. I know he has been your friend for two years but im sure he has other friends and he could do the same thing to them. You need to stop it before he goes any further. I really sorry this happened to you and i hope i helped. I'll keep you in my prayers. God bless.
2007-12-28 21:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by drama geek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duh,it's rape.Sex should be a mutual thing.If you are unwilling and he forced sex on you then it's rape.
2007-12-28 22:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by andy13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does that mean is there was no seman so they could not tell if it really took place no means no in all languages
2007-12-28 21:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, hun, he's a rapist!
press charges!
he might do it to you again- or to another girl!
its NOT your fault
2007-12-28 21:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! but you should have said something... but once again... NO!
2007-12-28 21:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Helloooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋