Am i turning into a sl ut???

Question

I feel so slutty...I'm wearing thongs and wearing low pants and bringing the thong strings up, i wear reaally low shirts and maxim bras, i wear short skirts and like bend over when i'm near a guy ( in public..), i flirt more with guys and im like allways talkign about se x. When i say i feel like a sl ut i dont mean as in promiscuous i mean that i look like a sl ut....does it sound that way to you, and is it going to be worse later ( i'm 15 btw)?? HELP

Answer 1

in a way yes...if you want to act that way, go ahead. but dont expect guys to respect you as much...at least not certain ones that will pretend they like you just to get sex, and acting that way may seem you are offering it or something of the like.

Answer 2

Wow..girls are in such a hurry to grow up. No, you are a tease. As for the "thong strings" thats tacky. Just stop that..it says "I'm white trash, any man can flirt with me because I have no standards" Keep the strings in your pants. Wearing thongs are OK..they are now really more for comfort and fashion (ie NO panty lines) than for being sexy, unless you are a stripper..then thats the only way you make your money..

Short skirts are alright...but no TO short..you are only 15...The age group you are flirting with (i assume 14-20) really doesn't understand that concept of teasing yet. They see you bent over showing your a ss..they are going to assume that you are offering and they uh..might take you up on it. Skirts are fine..be a lady in them. (Hint...drop something at your feet and ask HIM to pick it up..less sluty, more flirty.....)

and if you have a nice rack..show it off..in moderation. No one likes to see all t its.

Answer 3

You're not a sl ut - at least not until you start acting on what you're promising.....right now, you're more of a tease.

If you like dressing the way you do, and that's part of your style, that's one thing - and it's fine. If you're dressing that way with the purpose of getting some, AND that's what you want, that's also fine. Sl ut is a derogatory term applied to women with no self-respect. If you're fully aware of what you're doing and you enjoy it, then no, you're not a sl ut. You're just being you.

Answer 4

Your just looking for attention(nothin wrong with that), and honestly if thats what your lookin for you are gonna get it. But you are also attracting the guys that just wanna bend you over...If you wanna find a good guy you have to change. Cuz the good guys arent gonna go after a girl who looks like she bangs a different guy every other day.

Answer 5

Wow, if you are 15 and doing all of that, yep, you are sending out some really negative messages about yourself.

I suggest if that is not what you want, then start toning down the way you dress, never discuss sex with males (that is extremely dangerous) and keep the flirting down to a minimum.

You obviously have realized something very important and that is very mature of you. Now take that realization to the next level and do something positive about it. Take care.

Answer 6

Watch out, you are a easy target for rapists. You need to really calm down and here's reasons to NOT do that:

* So you won't get raped, and get HIV (its possible if a rapist have that)

* You respect yourself more

* Respect your values, morals, and your parents

* What's worth of attention if guys start to use your body for s.e.x., taking advantages of you?

* Think of little kids, come on. Influence them with your slutty antics, little kids do learn fast

Those is reasons you shouldn't be a s-l-u-t. I'm only 15 too but I learn lot from my friends, they warn me about guys, how to be careful, etc. You need to focus on your life, school, family, friends, not s.e.x all time

Answer 7

I think you like the attention you get from guys. It is quite natural at your age to want to get those attention. But becareful because you may put yourself in a situation where you may not know how to handle the negative attention when the guy may want to advance on that flirting.

Answer 8

If you like to wear clothes like that now then yes. When you turn 18, as an adult no one, not even your boy friend will be able to stop your slut desires. focus on being your mans nasty girl. but show off for him by wearing, and posing in public for him and all his and your friends.

Answer 9

your 15 its ok all 15 year old girls do it
its just a matter of are you having sex that makes you a slut




and if your gana wear all that...make sure ur attracting the guys you want and not the older men not like 18 older but like 40 older? do u no what im saying?

Answer 10

if u present urself like a sl*t then guys are going to treat you like one