Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

My 20 year old step daughter, whom I have raised since she was 6 months called her mother, who lives in Florida and said that we did not get her anything for Christmas. My SD lives with her bf, they wanted some pans and a Knife set for Christmas. We spent $300.00 on a set of pans and a knife set. We got our Grandchild a car seat and some clothes. We gave our son and his wife a gift card for $200 to Pennys and our 16 year old we bought her an MP3 and some DVD's, and such. This isn't the first time she has done this, but the problem is my husband has NEVER believed that his "little girl" would say something like that. So when I called her mother her husband said he is flying to our home and he is going to settle this once and for all. Apparently she has been calling and telling them a bunch of lies for several years now. So this isn't anything new. But it is worse now that she is an adult. We also gave her $300 to pay her cell phone bill. Any ideas would be helpful.

2007-12-28 14:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by maximus 2 in Family

Can men develop stronger feelings than just friend/sex partner if they continue to have great sex with the same girl?

2007-12-28 14:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are some examples of mind games and ex who broke up with you and is regretting it would do like ignoring??

2007-12-28 14:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by sixxss 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the story my husband has a job and it is commision, and his checks have been really bad! I have asked, begged, pleaded and yelled for him to get a new job. He always tells me he is or he has looked or he tells me what I want to hear. I have a job and I got asked to become a store manager and he says I should take it because I wont have time to spend with the kids, BUT we need money we have not made a morgage payment since october. I tell him he should get a second job more excuses. He is driving me crazy it is like he wants someone to hand him a job with out him doing anything. Please help what can I do to make him realize that he needs to do something before something really bad happens?

2007-12-28 14:19:12 · 23 answers · asked by shelle4392 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im going to have 8 bridesmaids.

2007-12-28 14:17:53 · 17 answers · asked by unknown88 2 in Weddings

my in-laws spoil my new husband and his 22 year old son rotten, my husband will not stand up to his parents, he and his son has dinner with them 3-4 times a week, they don't invite us, if i say anything my husband says u guy can come as he is walking out the the door, the real kicker is mil always invites ex-daughter in law to all the family functions, when i say something they all act like i'm nuts, my in-laws are very wealthy and my husband kisses their a---. They all including my husband treat this 22 year old son like he is a king he gets whatever he wants, my boys see this and they want the same, i don't want my boys to think life is that easy, but it hurts to see them treat us like we are not as special or important in thier life. my boys have no contact with thier grandparents from my ex, and i can tell they feel left out, my husband is to busy kissing his son *** to stop any of this, cars,apt,anything he wants. do i divorce this man? nothing is in my name, i used up all my $

2007-12-28 14:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What im trying to say is in seeking the perfect companion...we all imagine what that partner will look like.....and ive noticed a high volume of couples that end up together have said "i never would have thought we'd have ended up together! I was always interested in a different style, etc"

Im an not vain this is a serious question. My partner and I dont LOOK like the "ideal" couple because im actually a tad bit taller than him. And I seemed to have always been looking for someone else other than him. I could not have ended up with someone better than him. We compliment eachother very well, but im just curious with some of you....how your outcome turned out.

And of course they say the longer you are together ---the more you look alike!!! Isnt that awesome!!??? AND SO TRUE!!! thanks you guys <3

Hope all this makes sense

2007-12-28 14:15:24 · 17 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I am back me and my bf had a fight today and he was on myspace again and I told him that he was to be in a relationshio so exactly how was he getting stood up by another woman and he told me we wasn't in a relationship so I got my children dressed and left but before I could leave he came and told me not to leave with his chlidren. Well make a long story short he let me know that he is only doing these things because he thinks I have found someone else and it hurts him to think that way so he uses the computer to pissme off because he know they won't do the things that I do for him and that they will never be what I am and he just feels like playing with them to make hisself feel better but he would never be with them because he doesn't have enough money and he doesn't want to lose his family again. What should I do?

2007-12-28 14:15:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-28 14:14:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband does catering and has planned many lavish affairs but on my bday he can't even plan a trip to the movies! Burn out from Christmas Is what the prob prob is.(dec27) but the efoort is what I expect and I am HURT, each year...The 25th is lacking slowly as well....ps.. I am always doing it up for events. Am I wrong to want the same treatment...??

2007-12-28 14:13:31 · 23 answers · asked by Miz Peaches 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for a guy to say he wants to hang out on a Friday night and not arrive unti after 10pm? or is this a sign of not so honorable intentions? (He was supposed to be here at 10 it is now 10:10 and he has not even called for directions to my place)

2007-12-28 14:09:43 · 4 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

Women always seems to see me has a **** friend. But i dont get it ..! I always pretend to be arrogant, **hole. And they still see me has a nice guy. Dammit. It is just a waste because im too goodlooking to be a nice guy.
Women always loose interested in me in like a week. What can i do to change things? What can i do to be boyfriend material?

2007-12-28 14:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents split up 5 years ago, and pretty much hate each other. i live with my mom, but she always complains about how much she's mad at my dad or what he does wrong whenever it's time to visit him. i don't want to be mean but it bothers me that she says those things. It just sticks with me and makes me uncomfortable. she thinks it's normal and funny, but to me it just hurts because i love both my parents and it is hard when she keeps saying things like that. Is there any way I can fix this? should i just suck it up or should i tell her? i don't know how to go about it.

2007-12-28 14:06:57 · 28 answers · asked by trees are great 4 in Family

For the past 8 months, I've endured my husband getting drunk every weekend or should I say every 10 days and mentally abusing me. I think I have fallen out of love for him. I dont feel nothing for him. He's put on so much weight that he doesnt turn me on anymore. Our sex life just sucks too because of that. In the last 3 weeks he has realized as to what he's doing or so I hope. He tells me he loves me and wants to start a new begining, but I cant tell him that because I dont feel it. He has made some improvements. Will those feelings ever comme back? I am rather confused and not sure what to do. we also have two boys together that I have to think about. Please I need some real and honest answers. My marriage depends on this. thank you

2007-12-28 14:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If my parents have been divorced since i was 4 and i hate living with my mom, but don't want to live with my grama can i go to court or do anything so that i can live with my grama and if so what would i need to do and what would happen? my mom is a real uptight biatch ):
im 14 if it makes any difference.

2007-12-28 14:04:23 · 8 answers · asked by BlackHearts 1 in Family

2007-12-28 14:00:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband sometimes eats out with females, pick them up from their home, drop them off at home, drive them around, process paperwork for them, meet with them one on one in the office...would you feel comfortable with this? Yes he does this with guys too. But naturally, I dont like it when he does all this with females. He is a military recruiter and all this is a part of the job. He says he could get in alot of trouble if he tries to mess around with one of the girls. He didn't say he wouldn't do it because he loves me and Im all he needs. Only because he could get in trouble. I thought I would be ok dealing with his job but now Im starting to feel really uncomfortable. He has to do this for the next four yrs. All he ever does is get angry with me if I try to talk to him about my concerns. I guess I get on his nerves but I'm not happy. Any advice?

2007-12-28 14:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by sweetness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am only asking this question because it is through the internet. :)

I am a 21 married student and have been married for a year. My husband as of recently seems to only want me to give him 'oral sex' instead of make love. He doesn't do it to me, so it doesn't seem fair. I do not do it all the time or anything, but just wanted to ask.

I guess my question is how do know that I am not being taken for granted? And how can I not be?

2007-12-28 13:58:48 · 33 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want your opinion...

2007-12-28 13:58:16 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Boys frustrate me. i hate all their indirect messages
i hate game playing. Do you like me or don't you?
Just tell me so I can get over you.

2007-12-28 13:52:58 · 11 answers · asked by paigiepoooh 2 in Singles & Dating

that same situation and criticize him or put down the woman for doing that to him? Isn't that kind of contradictory?

2007-12-28 13:52:35 · 6 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my 20 yr. old cousin and i (19), are taking a one-day road trip to chicago on sunday (which is 4 hours away from here) and my fiance is throwing a fit because he doesn't feel comfortable with me going w/o him (age 21) or an older adult. things happen in chicago, and he's just afraid for my safety. he's pretty pissed off right now. we're in a big fight and i hate fighting w/ him. i feel like i could cry right now. i dont want this to do anything to the relationship (i doubt it will but...). i dont wanna feel controlled, and i know i can take care of myself. i've been there b4, plus my mom feels alright about it. i just hate fighting w/ him and i dont want anything to happen between us, but i also wanna go somewhere w/ my cousin and get away from all this stuff down here and have a good time. i dont wanna be worried about my fiance the whole time im gone.

tell me something that would make me feel better about this so i dont feel like sh*t the whole time!!

2007-12-28 13:52:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 30 i married at 17, i have 9 kids and my oldest is 17
is that too many kids

2007-12-28 13:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel Daley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife pays 0% of the bills/rent/groceries etc and does 98% of the housework and 60% of the cooking. I pay 100% of all the expenses and do only 2% of the housework/laundry and 40% of the cooking. I work full time and provide a decent living while my wife stays home with the kids (the youngest is now 11)

My wife thinks that her doing all of my laundry is a laudable sacrafice that goes beyond anything I do. She thinks that paying the bills is something I would have to do anyway even if she was not around.

So is the act of working to do the laundry for your family somehow better than working to earn the money to put food on the table?

2007-12-28 13:47:34 · 21 answers · asked by der_grosse_e 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy online a few days ago and we've been talking everyday since then. I really like him and I think he likes me, and he told me he was dedicated, and that he didn't see why we wouldn't become a couple. When we don't talk we miss eachother, but when we are talking we run out of things to saw pretty fast. What are somethings that we can talk about?

2007-12-28 13:44:58 · 28 answers · asked by Ann A 1 in Singles & Dating

when and why?

2007-12-28 13:43:47 · 29 answers · asked by mAdY` 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 13:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I went to my boyfriends house and his mom said he was up in his room and just to go up.So I was walking up the stairs and i could hear him moaning..? And I was just like uhmm.. and I opened up his bedroom door. And he was jerking off. and he like pulled a blanket over himself. and I just walked out... feeling awkward. And I kind of liked it.. And im at his house right now on his dads laptop. and its been 30 minutes and he hasn't came out? Why is he doing this? What do I do? I don't even know what to think. btw im 16 too. and we've dated for 2 years 4 months.

2007-12-28 13:41:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend says he would kiss me someday and hasnt. im not sure if im happy he hasnt because ive never been kissed. i dont know if im a good kisser or not. i dont want to make a fool out of myself for being a bad kisser but i dont want him to think im chicken. what should i do?

2007-12-28 13:39:32 · 3 answers · asked by Jersey Q 2 in Singles & Dating

I think i have a mate who is using me? the only reason she likes me is because when she calls me im stupid enough to listen to her problems for hours on end. yes before i liked her so i thought be listening to her would get us closer. i dread answering the phone now, but just out of not being rude i answer her. maybe im too "nice"

2007-12-28 13:38:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends