So I went to my boyfriends house and his mom said he was up in his room and just to go up.So I was walking up the stairs and i could hear him moaning..? And I was just like uhmm.. and I opened up his bedroom door. And he was jerking off. and he like pulled a blanket over himself. and I just walked out... feeling awkward. And I kind of liked it.. And im at his house right now on his dads laptop. and its been 30 minutes and he hasn't came out? Why is he doing this? What do I do? I don't even know what to think. btw im 16 too. and we've dated for 2 years 4 months.
2007-12-28 13:41:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He may not be coming out for one of 2 reasons. Either he was too embarassed by it or he is finishing the job.
Liked it huh? Then tell him that when you see him.
2007-12-28 13:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by hewlett p 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
pass back up and be like hi? and then if he a jerk purely pass away cuz he would be a jerk all night....he proably thinks you left thats why he hasn't come down that's particularly extraordinary i might have freaked too yet all and sundry is right its a classic guy ingredient i walked in on my bf as quickly as as quickly as we lived at the same time some weeks i purely acted like i did no longer see something im uncertain if even now he knows i comprehend stable success!
2016-10-09 08:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be pretty comfortable around him if youve been dating that long. Just go up and tell him what you REALLY thought about it. It could open up a new level for you guys. Let him know what there was no need to be embarassed! He probably feels humiliated right now.
2007-12-28 13:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Psychgrl77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't come out because he's too embarassed to face you. If you feel awkward, think about how he feels. If you liked seeing it, though, I would suggest you tell him. It will alleviate the awkwardness and possible open up a whole new level of intimacy in your relationship.
2007-12-28 13:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by The Dharmatist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a story, I know that you would be feeling awkward that is kinda gross. He probably is just horny and he just wanted some sexual pleasure or something. If you like him jerking off than there should`nt be a problem. But if you have a problem with him doing that than tell him about it.
2007-12-28 14:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably embarrassed, my son is 8 and gets upset when someone just walks in to his room, masturbating or not. You invaded his privacy by not knocking, and caught him in a awkward position. I tell my son all the time that it is a natural thing and that all men do it, but it is still something he does in the privacy of his own bedroom, and would be mortified if I caught him in the act! you should apologize for invading his privacy, sorry but you are the one who was wrong not him!
2007-12-28 13:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by shawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to admit that is a little weird. But give him a break. And if you liked it a little bit then if he mentions it later on then tell him you liked it. it will pull off a complete mess of weight on him. he is also probably sitting in his room thinking whether to come out and see you. go up there and tell him the truth on how you feel.
2007-12-28 13:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by fallenskatingrulesx1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys jerk off. So tell him its natural it's nothing new. Tell him you guys shouldn't feel awkwards around each other now just because of this moment. Go in there and talk to him about it. You are kind of waisting time right now talking to us about it. So hurry.
2007-12-28 13:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by "Foolishness" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably blue balled since you walked in on him when he was about to finish up. What are you doing on the computer? Go up there and help the poor guy out.
2007-12-28 13:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by o.fellow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is embarrassed and humiliated like you would be if something embarrasing happened to you. Just talk to him as normal - and WHATEVER you do - dont make his humiliation worse by telling anybody (and tell him you wont tell). Otherwise - its a normal thing for a 16 year old boy.
2007-12-28 13:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋