Women always seems to see me has a **** friend. But i dont get it ..! I always pretend to be arrogant, **hole. And they still see me has a nice guy. Dammit. It is just a waste because im too goodlooking to be a nice guy.
Women always loose interested in me in like a week. What can i do to change things? What can i do to be boyfriend material?
2007-12-28 14:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to stop acting so arrogant and start showing your true self then you will be boyfriend material.
2007-12-28 14:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by snickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many guys would kill to be in your position?!!!? You are in the good graces of a most noble court in the entire world. Do you know how many girls say they like bad boys, but always end up going for the good guys. Take Lindsey Lohan for example. She dates these bad boys for like a month and then kick em to the waste side. Then she finds a nice guy and at least he can get her for 2 maybe 3 months.
You are boyfriend material but I may also fear that you are a pussy. Do something spontaneous. You're probably that guy in the classroom who the teacher always calls on and you always know the answer and the girls think you're so sweet in smart. That's ok and everything, but maybe you should make a statement. Say something or do something that makes everyone in the room think "Wow?! If I had to get drunk with anyone, it would have to be that guy!!"
2007-12-28 22:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by David W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are boyfriend material there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy and a lot of girls wish there were more guys like you the reason they probably lose interest is because most girls aren't used to being with guys like you and they always choose the bad one but don't change stay exactly how you are and one day the right girl for you will come along and everything will be fine.
2007-12-28 22:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by broken</3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you do appear very arrogant; maybe the reason they're telling you that you're a "nice guy" is because it sounds better than "arrogant asshole."
Boths ways would be rejecting you, they just choose to do it in a way that they figured wouldn't hurt your feelings as much. Now whether you deserve their empathy is another story....
2007-12-28 22:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can do nothing to change yourself, women dont like fakes! All you can do is be yourself!
and by the way, I've been dating a very "nice guy" for well over a year now...
2007-12-28 22:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by rusty71987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uugh you' re getting on my neerves have some confidence.Don't be an asshole.Just be sweet and charming especially funny.Have you ever concidered that its not you its them.Seriosly I'm sorry but if your doubt yourself that makes you a loser.
2007-12-28 22:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by ariellebelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If girls see you as a nice girl, and you act arrogant, then they see you acting like something you're not, which we don't like :).
Just be yourself, and everything will be good!
2007-12-28 22:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Doll Face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you are a jackass, well you should probably act on whatever gets you laid the most. and when you just finish having sex, say something like "wanna go again, just this time screw better." they will not call you a nice guy anymore, but they might not screw you again
2007-12-28 22:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to do that much to become boyfriend material... you already are
maybe you should make friends with her first before you really try anything, your relationship will have some foundation other than sex appeal
2007-12-28 22:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be real, dont act something you aren't, be yourself! Girls like guys with a great personality, even if they arent so attractive!
2007-12-28 22:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by 2cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋