I met this guy online a few days ago and we've been talking everyday since then. I really like him and I think he likes me, and he told me he was dedicated, and that he didn't see why we wouldn't become a couple. When we don't talk we miss eachother, but when we are talking we run out of things to saw pretty fast. What are somethings that we can talk about?
2007-12-28 13:44:58 · 28 answers · asked by Ann A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out more about him..ask him questions about his life.
2007-12-28 13:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Monica K 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm assuming, that to be a couple, you guys are planning to eventually meet. There will be way more to talk about once you actually start doing things together. Then again, it could be indicative of a rather boring relationship. You won't know until that happens.:) As for the internet relationship you have now: Get to know each other better - you should find more to talk about - a few days isn't much time.
Note - If you do decide to meet - please err on the side of caution. Make sure you let somebody (a freind or family member) know what you are doing, where you are going, and info on this guy (address - phone - etc). It's a crazy world, and you never know who's on the other end of that internet connection.
Take care and be safe,
~J.M.
2007-12-28 13:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by lightninbug76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking online or on the phone?
Why are you also rushing into a relationship with someone you met online a few days ago? Slow down.
Remember, people can pose at whomever they want when they are on the computer. For all you know this guy is a 35 year old.
Be careful!
You like the attention and that is why you miss it when you don't talk to each other.
Find things that you have in common----music, books, movies, tv shows.
2007-12-28 13:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Seablanco1 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here are some questions you can ask him?
Are you still together with your wife?
When was the last time you were in prison?
Have you ever been charged with stalking young kids?
Are you now on parole?
Stay Away-- Stay Away
I hate reading stories about people meeting online and then hooking up at a private place--only to hear that the girl has disappeared.
2007-12-28 13:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here's a little cheat sheet, I tried to give them a range so you could pick softball, medium or serious:
Do you believe in God?
What is your favorite color/cookie/pie?
What is the worst thing someone of the opposite sex has done to you?
What food can you not get enough of?
What food repulses you?
If you could make it one temperature all year, what would it be?
What was the highlight of your day? The lowlight?
How do you feel about commitment? Does committing to one person for the rest of your life scare you?
What is your guilty pleasure?
Do you crave time alone or prefer to be with other people?
Do you like to cook? Is there one thing that you cook especially well?
How do you feel about premarital sex?
Do you want kids? How many?
Do you prefer women with a lot of make up, a little, or none?
Were you closer to your mom or dad growing up? Who are you more like?
Does your career/job truly make you happy? If not, what would you do that would make you happy?
Do you give money or food to homeless people with signs? Why or why not?
What about yourself do you dislike the most and wish you could change?
Who is the worst actor/actress on the planet?
What do you prefer when watching a movie (talking to another person, dead silence, multi-tasking, not paying attention)?
Ideally, if nobody told you when to get up in the morning, what time would you left to your own devices? What time would you go to bed at night?
How do you feel about porn?
Would you ever get plastic surgery?
Do you have a lucky number?
2007-12-28 14:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Fitz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the less said to this FOOL, the better. How in the world can you be "dedicated (whatever that means)" in a few days. He's probably some 60 years old, fat, sleazy geezer who is doing all kinds of foul things with just the thought of you. Find a real person, please, not some cyber phantom creep.
2007-12-28 13:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Hold on please and remember that you met this person online. Online everyone can be anyone. I'm not saying you can't trust him but one thing to not talk about is your personal information. You probably already knew that but I just wanted to make sure you did. You can talk about songs and movies and celebrities. Don't worry if you guys don't like the same things, opposites attract!
2007-12-28 13:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous721 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you should get to know him more before you two actually meet in person. Just ask about his life, his past, his future, and maybe talk on the phone before seeing eachother in person, just to get a preview of eachother before you actually meet.
2007-12-28 13:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has only been a few days. What my email friend and I did was to take turns asking each other a question and making the other answer it first and then answering it yourself. For example ask him what goals for the next year he has.
2007-12-28 13:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not listen to what he's saying and start asking him questions. Not interrogation...just be sincerely interested and want to know more about what he's talking about. Try and think of similar situations that you've been in and relate those to him when they come up.
2007-12-28 13:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Billy Shat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to move past the computer and the phone and meet in person. One it will let you know more about each other and also give you more to talk about later in future conversations.
2007-12-28 13:48:53 · answer #11 · answered by hellraiser7879 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋