I am only asking this question because it is through the internet. :)
I am a 21 married student and have been married for a year. My husband as of recently seems to only want me to give him 'oral sex' instead of make love. He doesn't do it to me, so it doesn't seem fair. I do not do it all the time or anything, but just wanted to ask.
I guess my question is how do know that I am not being taken for granted? And how can I not be?
2007-12-28 13:58:48 · 33 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am on birth control.
I guess I just don't like the way things are. I am a nice girl and I like being treated well.
I get attention from guys and know I don't have to settle for anything.
I never tell him, but honestly I would like to be with other men because I am not being appreciated the way I should be.
2007-12-28 14:10:47 · update #1
and why does my husband push my head down on him, (u know at the end) is this some sort of freaky weird kinky thing, cuz I don't exactly like that.
2007-12-28 14:21:34 · update #2
your husband sounds very selfish and wants only to satisfy his own needs without regard for yours. how sad but true. why settle for this in a marriage.
2007-12-28 14:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by gavilanes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should be satisfying each other. Sometimes couples get into this habit of doing this for awhile and move on to other positions. There is nothing wrong with him always wanting oral sex but he should be giving you oral sex when you want it too. If you feel you are being taken for granted and already want to be with other men, that's your decision. But marriage is a serious commitment. If you decide to leave, the next time you get married be commited and try and work things out. If you feel you are being taken for granted remember, you teach people how to treat you. Don't let him take you for granted.
2007-12-28 14:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by curlies55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel like just a sex object there to please only him if my husband behaved that way. He's being very selfish and is not seeing sex as a way to show his love to you but only a lustful thing instead. Making love should be just that....making love - at least when it's between a husband and wife. I would talk to him and tell him you don't mind doing that but that he should WANT to please you as well.
2007-12-28 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I thought I was the only person to ever have went through this. My ex husband asked for it so much I hated giving head for the longest time. But now we divorced and I find guys that will obey cuz it's like this either the go down on me or I am not going down on them period.
2007-12-28 14:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you married a selfish and immature little kid. If he won't reciprocate, don't let him finish off that way. Then he has no choice, but to at least give you something.
Real men make sure their wife is satisfied and taken care of.
2007-12-28 14:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your husband doesn't care too much about you or your needs. Aren't you the one who just asked the question about your husband not getting you a Christmas gift?
2007-12-28 14:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 07:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to discuss this with him! You should be able to have open honest communication with your spouse. You feel your needs aren't being met, and you're thinking about getting them met elsewhere. This is serious! A relationship is give and take. You need to speak up and talk to him.
2007-12-28 14:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by jpete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex its better to give then recieve is my motto.Not sure why he is doing this,but you are in control.If you stop he will either change his behavior or leave.Either way you have resolved your problem.If you are already thinking about other men , I wonder how long this marriage is going to last.Have you discussed this problem with him and asked why he is only wanting oral sex?Communication is key here.
2007-12-28 14:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋