Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

Or should i wait till i come back from my basic training? i no and believe he cares for me but i dont no what to do. will it be worth it?

2007-12-28 21:40:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If no matter how hard u try

2007-12-28 21:36:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most of my friends are women. I get along better with women and I prefer women as friend. Lots of people say it's not possible. I has to be sex based. What do you think?

2007-12-28 21:35:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey guys. Something i would like to share and want ur opinion on. I have been an introvert since my child hood and since then have been made fun off at school, at home. Eventually i have grown up an into the shell individual. Even now, people think i am dumb since i never made any GFs (though i had 3 but i don't want to brag abt it to them). I am called a Compulsive Bachelor. People would pass funny comments, they would find me annoying because i don't booze or smoke. They would make fun over petty stuff such as not being too cool dude or a guy with small ordinary sidelocks. They wouldn't trust me if i have to teach my sister how to drive or for anything.

Don't know if i should retaliate or just gulp it inside. As a result of this i am getting more impulsive and don't want people to joke with me anymore. I fight with my sister and parents everday which is wrong on my part though but i am working on stuff that i can but...!!!

Pl. Suggest if u guys have any thing to say

2007-12-28 21:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by Me, Myself... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u forgive them..this happened to me..and im scared of her..i loved her b4 this all happened..now im scared..and i want to think of her the same as i did b4 this happened. I took every hit she gave me and she looks and talks like a guy and hits like a guy. i cany stand to forget about that night..should i though? she got a tattoe of my name and i think im in love with her...she never is violent and when she found out she hit me..she cried and she had no memory of what happened/ what should i do?

2007-12-28 21:27:13 · 19 answers · asked by lailaolivia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say your spouse cheated with your best friend. Would you be compelled to punch him/her out of reaction? I think it would be my first response.

2007-12-28 21:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy I was talking to who seemed nice. My friends went home early and I stayed, big mistake. This guy offered to walk me home. I did. He gave me a kiss goodnight, which I declined.The next week at the lunch bar, him and his mate were talking about me saying derogatory things and stories like I slept with him and how stupid I was.

They said rot like I had legs all the way to my armpits and my forest was so thick I could not see the wood for the trees.

They even mentioned my name and what I looked like and where I lived. They said my legs were as loose as a rubber band and that I was a pleasure machine.I was not drinking that night and watched my drinks or did not accept drinks from strangers. I know what happened.
I simply talked to a friendly guy and when he tried to kiss me, got rid of him. I did tell him details like my last name and my dreams and hopes, but did not think they would be talked about in a lunch bar of 50 people.My friends wnt 2 lunch + hrd it. Small city

2007-12-28 21:24:52 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys. Something i would like to share and want ur opinion on. I have been an introvert since my child hood and since then have been made fun off at school, at home. Eventually i have grown up an into the shell individual. Even now, people think i am dumb since i never made any GFs (though i had 3 but i don't want to brag abt it to them). I am called a Compulsive Bachelor. People would pass funny comments, they would find me annoying because i don't booze or smoke. They would make fun over petty stuff such as not being too cool dude or a guy with small ordinary sidelocks. They wouldn't trust me if i have to teach my sister how to drive or for anything.

Don't know if i should retaliate or just gulp it inside. As a result of this i am getting more impulsive and don't want people to joke with me anymore. I fight with my sister and parents everday which is wrong on my part though but i am working on stuff that i can but...!!!

Pl. Suggest if u guys have any thing to say

2007-12-28 21:24:26 · 2 answers · asked by Me, Myself... 1 in Friends

please asnwer me in 1 week or its too late!!!

2007-12-28 21:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If a girl feels a very strong connection through sex does this mean the guy also feels it, or can it just be a misinterpretation on her part?

2007-12-28 21:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months we had nothing but good long conversations. Recetly we started talking about sex and now all he wants to do is talk about it, during all conversations someshow he turns it sexual.... is there a nice way to tell him not to talk about it so much. Now i keep conversations short, conversations not interesting no more. OH YEAH we havent actually done the deed. I REALLY LIKE HIM....

2007-12-28 21:15:15 · 16 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

like you know it's going to happen, so when you come to doing it, you don't feel so excited because it's predictable/set up/going to happen (sex on wedding night). i don't know about you guys but if it were me, i would feel like i had to force myself to feel "turned on" and i think good sex, actually all sex, should be done when both people feel turned on and want to do it, they shouldn't have to fake themselves or be in a position where they don't want to do it and are only doing it for the sake that they can finally have sex and lose their virginity now they are married, like most virgin couples do. if i were the bride i would be like, sorry hubby but we're gonna have to be virgins for a little while longer til we both want to do it. then i'd go and stuff myself with food and drink good wine mmmmmmm. by the way, i am still a virgin at the age of 19, was going to just wait till i find the right one to give it to, but after seeing some questions posted about sex after marriage, the

2007-12-28 21:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 21:14:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day I went to church and my pastor said I should wait at least six months before I marry my fiance?Has the duration of courtship have anything to do with the marriage and how it will work out?

2007-12-28 21:13:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My best friends mom? She's 44 and single, and I'm 20 if it matters at all.

2007-12-28 21:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 21:07:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok......well me and my ex are still good friends but i still have deep feelings for him. and it seemes like he does for me but at school he doesnt show it but when were with friends he does. so he like gets jealous sometimes about guys who i hang out with some times and acts like a total retard sometimes but i dont do that 2 him. it seemes 2 me he still kind of cares about me but i don't really know. when he met my 2 friends from out of town he was all trying to get at them but he wasnt getting me jealouse so i think thats y he backed off......but i dont know if he still kind of cares do u???

2007-12-28 21:04:31 · 21 answers · asked by kylee4never 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay well, my boyfriend and i are an excellent couple and we get along really well and i'm happy with him. Now, there's another guy who keeps on claiming he "loves" me and i don't know what to say to him. He knows i'm happy with my boyfriend and i'm faithful but he just wont stop. I don't know how to make him stop telling me he loves me and saying nice things to me to change my mind about everything. Also, i told my boyfriend because i felt wrong about it if he didn't know and immediatley my boyfriend wanted to know where to find him. I told him not to and he settled down and said "i can talk it out with him" but i don't trust that. I think it's my job. What do you think i should say?

2007-12-28 21:03:32 · 7 answers · asked by infatuation 2 in Singles & Dating

by the way,,
Do you have any idea what should I write on my license plate?

Im thinking about " SPOILED "

2007-12-28 21:02:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Singles & Dating

I post this because I'm just curious to know.
well it goes like this, there was a guy in my class that he would walk super slow to walk with me. When we took test he would wait for me to finish, i would get up and then he would get up to take his test too. I would start walking out and so would he. That happen twice during the time our class in session. We would walk together and just talk about anything. Then he would just leave me by the stairs close to my class, we would just say "bye". He seemed very nice to me, he would make me laugh when ever we would be walking together. ANd then he just didn't keep going to class, he Dropped the class. i felt stupid because i didnt ask him for his number or E-mail so we could have stayed in contact.

Can you please tell me if there was something there?
like a spark?

2007-12-28 20:54:01 · 5 answers · asked by jeanne 2 in Singles & Dating

to exchange emails with a view to this - everything respected and I would be far to embarassed to approach a 'lady of the night' to ask this - at least by email one-to-one things can be discussed and details ironed out. Thank-you in advance.

2007-12-28 20:51:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHY I DO NOT WANT A FAKE HAIR COLOR/MUCH MAKEUP(EX. COVERUP):
i was an exchange student for 6 months and i landed myself in a narcistic family with two beautiful girls who hardly ever wore makeup but always looked stunning...
and the entire family(including the PARENTS)called me ugly and insulted me for wearing so much makeup and for having acne and bleaching my hair...i want to show them up!!!
also...
i used to be teased a lot in 6th, 7th, and 8th grade esp because i was so ugly. even little kids would run away from "the monster" and people would use me to do their homework and for candy etc. =( so those are my reasons.
i am 17.

i am wearing a bit of mascara and blush in these pics:
http://s53.photobucket.com/albums/g70/celena_02/?action=view¤t=wooow.jpg
http://s53.photobucket.com/albums/g70/celena_02/?action=view¤t=theese.jpg
THANK YOU AND PLEASE BE HONEST BUT NOT SUPER MEAN!!!
=]

2007-12-28 20:35:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old and my told me the other day that she is ready to have a kid. I love kids but I just am not ready for this type of responsibility shes a little upset with me right now. Am I being selfish?

2007-12-28 20:21:06 · 37 answers · asked by Booger F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I personally feel that often times when I tried to make love happen, it doesn't end up well.

But for the above mentioned question to hold true, does it mean that both parties must not deliberately trying to make things happen?

2007-12-28 20:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

An emotional affair was ended and now under counselling (she want to stay, I want to go). Wife threaten to commit suicide if divorce? I said if counselling is useless in 6 mths, divorce will be filed? Am I right?

2007-12-28 20:19:36 · 12 answers · asked by TT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i love being sensual with my partner, i tried kissing his neck and givin him a sensual massage, but non of that seems to turn him on, he just wants straight sex and thats it no forplay for him.... i wanna show him that being touched and kissed in a certain way can feel good... but what would exactly blow his mind???

2007-12-28 20:19:04 · 15 answers · asked by Golden_Godess 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband was murdered, and we where seperated for 8 months and he was with a married women and she was murdered also, i was a suspect because my husband never changed his beneficiary of 50,000 on his life policy i did not know about this affair but her husband did my name is cleared and this has been a nightmare for me, now his father wants his esate from me want me to sign everything over to him and his father did not include me in the obituary or nothing i was very hurt, this is a very hard time for me i cry all the time and i need some advice please the fingers are pointing to her husband he new about the affair and i didnt and i moved on with my life but i still deeply cared about my husband what a mess please help ty so much and god bless jewels they where both murdered in bed together at my husbands trailor, and a terrible death also and the trailor was set on fire but was put out very sick way of murder im still in shock please help ty

2007-12-28 20:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a major crush on ,one of the hotties in our school
he is so cute+hot at the same time
he plays basketball,we used to be classmates before like 3 times yet we dont talk anymore
yah, i know he remembers me, because last year we would say hi's and hello's
but then one of my friends convised me, to let her,tell him i like him
thats when we stopped greeting each other
well now my question

i like him so much even if his
a bully
a jerk
and a little
wierd
the thing is
many people are saying
why do i like a guy like him and they are convinsing me 2 find someone new
but i would always say i dont care
because i kinda am like him
im also a bully and mean(a bit)

but i really dnt know what to do
because when people ask him if he knows me ,he answers
yah thats the girl who has a crush on me


i dont know what to do , find someone else?because his a jerk
or keep hoping?because it seems thAT me liking him, for him is okay

HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-28 20:05:04 · 3 answers · asked by spongebob 2 in Singles & Dating

i got girl's hands hairy as men's but girls hands n my waist is big like girl's everything else is luckyly man's is tht a turn off?

2007-12-28 19:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

any advice is welcome.... I'm inexperienced.

2007-12-28 19:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating