An object of fun?

Question

Hey guys. Something i would like to share and want ur opinion on. I have been an introvert since my child hood and since then have been made fun off at school, at home. Eventually i have grown up an into the shell individual. Even now, people think i am dumb since i never made any GFs (though i had 3 but i don't want to brag abt it to them). I am called a Compulsive Bachelor. People would pass funny comments, they would find me annoying because i don't booze or smoke. They would make fun over petty stuff such as not being too cool dude or a guy with small ordinary sidelocks. They wouldn't trust me if i have to teach my sister how to drive or for anything.

Don't know if i should retaliate or just gulp it inside. As a result of this i am getting more impulsive and don't want people to joke with me anymore. I fight with my sister and parents everday which is wrong on my part though but i am working on stuff that i can but...!!!

Pl. Suggest if u guys have any thing to say

Answer 1

You actually sound pretty cool to me. You seem able to evaluate which of your behaviors are OK (not drinking/smoking) and which are not OK (fightin' with your sis). The fact that you have insight into your own impusivity show that you are reasonable. Many people in your position would rather picture themselves as perfect and the WORLD as their ENEMY. Good for you that you don't seem to see it that way.

I wouldn't retaliate or gulp it down. I'd tell your parents and your sis what's really causing your behavior and ask them to be patient and help you work through it. Let them know that they aren't really the ones your mad at.

As for the people at school, just concentrate on surviving. I'm guessing your a high school student. You can't fight back because there are so many of them. Its better to just "play dead" until they go away, you know? When they make annoying comments, just be like, "Yeah, yeah, I know." Don't sound angry, just sound tired. Or you could try being openly nice to them. Lone them a pencil. Or the next time they say something rude just grin and be like, "Yup." Act like you don't realize they're trying to be annoying. I learned that trick from my sis. Its funny 'cuz its not what they expect and they don't know WHAT to do!

But in the meantime, just survive. Don't bottle it up. Talk about it here or with trusted friends. And try to get into a college that is based on academics--not a "party school". It does get better.

Answer 2

just **** those guys who make fun of you ignore them or fire back at them if they make fun of you for not drinking or smoking tell them it's cuz you plan to live past 30 and dont take it out on ur parents or sister if you need to get angry at something i suggest buying a shooter game putting it on easy and just take out all that oppose you as if they were the ones who are being jerks to you or if you don't have any game consouls then i find a vigorous workout helps me to blow off some steam