If a girl feels a very strong connection through sex does this mean the guy also feels it, or can it just be a misinterpretation on her part?
2007-12-28 21:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its no misinterprattion... Guys treat sex as a release, it's only mental not from the heart. I can't believe u gave ur body away if he doesnt love u... good job
2007-12-28 21:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its difficult for us girls to believe, but for males, sex can be about as emotional as sneezing.
Sure, IF they are in love with the girl, they may connect through sex. But a guy can have sex with a girl he thinks is a total joke. I've overheard enough male conversations to know.
Its true what the last guy says. Sex and love don't always go together in males. Actually, the centers for sex and love exist in different parts of the brain.
SOURCE: My sister's male friend, my ex, various pop psychology texts, and "Nana" by Ai Yazawa.
2007-12-28 21:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's quite common for girls to attach emotional connections to physical acts, while guys are just doing a physical act. This is true not just of sex but also of things like kissing.
2007-12-28 21:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys can feel it or not. Girls get far more attached via sex than guys do. Guys are able to completely separate the act of sex from the feelings of love.
Is it possible? Absolutely.
2007-12-28 21:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it can be a misinterpretation. You can think someone really likes you but there simply just being nice and telling you what you what to hear
2007-12-28 21:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. its not always a two way road unfortunately. Its best to have an honest open communication with him. ask him how he feels toward you and express yours.
Whatever the answer, it will help you decide to be with him or move on.
good luck :-)
2007-12-28 21:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Betsy Boop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-28 21:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by jole d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋