i like this boy so much.........even if-----?

Question

i have a major crush on ,one of the hotties in our school
he is so cute+hot at the same time
he plays basketball,we used to be classmates before like 3 times yet we dont talk anymore
yah, i know he remembers me, because last year we would say hi's and hello's
but then one of my friends convised me, to let her,tell him i like him
thats when we stopped greeting each other
well now my question

i like him so much even if his
a bully
a jerk
and a little
wierd
the thing is
many people are saying
why do i like a guy like him and they are convinsing me 2 find someone new
but i would always say i dont care
because i kinda am like him
im also a bully and mean(a bit)

but i really dnt know what to do
because when people ask him if he knows me ,he answers
yah thats the girl who has a crush on me


i dont know what to do , find someone else?because his a jerk
or keep hoping?because it seems thAT me liking him, for him is okay

HELP!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I know how painful this position is because I am exactly in the same position. One time I tried to forget about him, but when I saw him playing basketball again with his sexy body, I was like "I really like this guy". I think, like I do, you should keep on liking that guy but just don't expect so much because it can hurt you eventually. Change your hair style or something about your physical apperrance that might change his ideas about you. What can I say, I totally understand how you feel. Maybe one day, who knows, he might be different. Good luck

Answer 2

Perhaps it is because you can't get him you feel like you want him. Obviously you can see that he is a creep but you still like him. Don't you find nice boys attractive? Some women are like that only like creeps. Perhaps you should speak to a counselor.

Answer 3

firstly you need to stop bullying people and being mean because it does not make you a good person to be around, then you need to play the field and make him jealous.