please asnwer me in 1 week or its too late!!!
2007-12-28 21:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
As long as he knows that he truly wants to spend his life with that person and loves that girl more than anything, then I think 24 is fine. I've had friends get married at 19 and I thought that was too early, but they are still happy and married three years later.
2007-12-28 21:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by V 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they truely love each other and they are truely happy. Usually its men that don't know what they want for the longest time and then finally when they are older they realize they are unhappy because they aren't married and don't have kids. So the fact that your brother ask and he is going through with this then it must know what he wants. You have to let your brother go, if this is the wrong one he has to find it out on his own not by people telling him that it isn't going to work. You are just going to drive him into the marriage even more and when he isn't happy he is still going to be there to try and make it work because you all told him it wasn't he doesn't want to be wrong. Good luck to you! Also good luck to your brother in his wedding!
2007-12-29 10:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Starsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good age. I'll be getting married soon after I turn 23 and my fiance will be 22. We're ready for it, already living on our own.
As long as he knows that he will be ready financially and emotionally, he'll be okay. You don't need to be rich, just have enough to live without worrying all the time about expenses. It's a project taken on by two people.
2007-12-29 10:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the right time is when you are already able to grow mature and responsible that you can handle a married life with your partner. As lon as you are ready and stable, then you may settle down. I think that when you reach your early twenties...but I know some people who are getting married at their 30s yet their marriage didn't work. So I really think when you can handle what the marriage calls for(no matter at what age), you can tie the knot.
2007-12-29 05:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jazers 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on their maturity level and if they are getting married for the right reasons. If your brother is happy and in love you should support his decision no matter what his age is.
Age is really just a number. He is not a child anymore, but an adult who is making an adult decision. I was 21 and my husband was 22 when we got married. Three and a half years later we are both extremely happy and wouldn't change a thing.
2007-12-29 05:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of Practicality 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got married with I was 24 i'm 27 now, I wouldn't do it you miss out on you 20s years. Still married 3 years
2007-12-29 08:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as he is happy, who would care. He is 24, he is old enough to make his own decisions. I was 20 when I got married..... I am still married to him, love him with all of my heart.
2007-12-29 09:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 24 I had been married for 5 years, was working & organising my household (budgeting etc) - I think people nowadays are much more immature and reliant on their parents so maybe your brother IS too young - 24 now is like 10 or 12 when I was 24
2007-12-29 05:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Poodlemum99 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can get married when the law of your country says you can. That is different to whether you are READY for marriage.
A person may be legally old enough to get married but they might not be mature enough. No one can tell you that you are. If you have doubt - then likely you are NOT ready.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-29 05:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by The Mouse II 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh my goodness! I certainly hope it's not too old, because I'm getting married at 29!
And my poor mom, who's getting remarried at 56 - what if the city hall denies her a marriage license? WHATEVER SHALL WE DO?
2007-12-29 11:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋