my husband was murdered, and we where seperated for 8 months and he was with a married women and she was murdered also, i was a suspect because my husband never changed his beneficiary of 50,000 on his life policy i did not know about this affair but her husband did my name is cleared and this has been a nightmare for me, now his father wants his esate from me want me to sign everything over to him and his father did not include me in the obituary or nothing i was very hurt, this is a very hard time for me i cry all the time and i need some advice please the fingers are pointing to her husband he new about the affair and i didnt and i moved on with my life but i still deeply cared about my husband what a mess please help ty so much and god bless jewels they where both murdered in bed together at my husbands trailor, and a terrible death also and the trailor was set on fire but was put out very sick way of murder im still in shock please help ty
2007-12-28 20:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to stay strong and protect your rights. If you are in a common law state, you are entitled to all of his property. If he had no will, everything you both owned in your marriage is rightfully yours. If you can, hire an attorney for legal help and advise, and if necessary protection from his father. Don't let him intimidate you, and scare you into signing papers or something. Don't sign anything until your attorney has reviewed it, and you know exactly what you are signing.
2007-12-28 20:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by henry568 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a bully and he has found out that you're going to permit him escape with it so probabilities are that he will worsen and worse. I were in an excessively an identical quandary a few years in the past and whilst I eventually advised him to % his luggage he threatened to remove our little one. I truthfully invited him to take action when you consider that I knew that no court docket on this planet will take a tender little one clear of it is mom except there are a few very well motives for it. Tell him that you would be really glad for him to waste his cash on anything he's going to under no circumstances reach. The prospect of being on you possess is mainly horrifying however so is the possibility of finishing your days in a quandary like this. Obviously no person can inform you what to do and also you have got to do it for your possess time. Get in contact along with your brothers and you'll be able to mainly uncover that they're very supportive, anything your husband isn't anticipating. I left my husband and my daughter and I are very glad now and I want I had performed it quicker however I absolutely wasn't capable to do it. Even regardless that I have under no circumstances suffered bodily abuse I do feel that intellectual abuse will also be as dangerous if no longer even worse and the results hang-out you for many years after however it will possibly get greater if you're robust adequate to do anything approximately it. You would possibly not be competent to difference your husband however you'll be able to difference your possess existence. Good good fortune and could be fascinating to listen to how you're getting on
2016-09-05 13:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by yerkes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the beneficiary, not his father. Keep the money and the possessions. If there is something very sentimental to his father, give it to him. Things like pictures, high school year books, and memorabilia of sentimental value are one thing, things aquired during the marriage of monetary value are something else. The father has no rights to any of these. They are yours. Good Luck.
2007-12-28 20:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the money, but give the father anything of your husband's belongings important to him. You deserve the money and it will help you settle your debts incurred during your marriage and if there are none, it will help you to move forward. The father has no claim, and I would tell him to go to hell - your hell was here on earth married to his son, and you deserve compensation. If he threatens you, tell the police, I'm sure they would be interested.
2007-12-29 00:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The money is yours. Wait at least six months before even considering giving any part of it to your former father-in-law. Get some counseling and join a grief support group.
Best wishes.
2007-12-28 20:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still his wife and you are entitled to his estate. I would not sign anything over to them. He should not be treating you like this and I would give him nothing. This is hard enough on you without him acting like that. I especially would not do this if your husband initiated the separation.
2007-12-28 21:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are strill his wife and have more say than his father does. Call the newspaper and complain about your name being omitted and insist that they rewrite the obituary. As for his father's demands, tell him to dream on, it ain't gonna happen in this life time.
2007-12-28 20:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell the father to kiss your a-s!
2007-12-28 20:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by shorts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋