i love being sensual with my partner, i tried kissing his neck and givin him a sensual massage, but non of that seems to turn him on, he just wants straight sex and thats it no forplay for him.... i wanna show him that being touched and kissed in a certain way can feel good... but what would exactly blow his mind???
2007-12-28 20:19:04 · 15 answers · asked by Golden_Godess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get freaky with him, try something you usually would not do. Open up find your inner freak. Talk dirty , role play, etc. If all else fails try adding another female to your play.
2007-12-28 20:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tantrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here it is... rent a couple of highly intense movies in which things are going on that you want from him... another, a feather - use your immagination - maybe find a movie in which the girl is in your situation - underappreciated. I think you should move on because its obviously selfish on his part... hes not listening and communication is key, sorry to say that... make him work for it if you like him... gently guide him to where and what you want and such...
2007-12-29 04:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by chequemate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay is encouraged before sex. If a person straight away wants sex, then he's either lusty or some problem with his sexual harmones. I think ur partner is not normal.
2007-12-29 04:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Chain Gang Soldier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy wants to 'dive' straight into sex, then he is very eager to satisfy his lust. And this is dangerous. Because, in his eagerness, he may pick up a hooker and have his lust satisfied!
So, the best thing to do, right now, is to take his in your mouth and taste him; let him blow himself out in your mouth.
He should understand then that what foreplay is!
2007-12-29 04:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all know what would probably blow his mind, but in bed i love to be very passioante, and i love unfair play, basically i can spend alot of time eating the girl out an ask for nothing in return, i care all about my partner in bed!!!
2007-12-29 04:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Eugene Prada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him, I think that is the problem with a lot of relationships, if you don't know what your partner likes you won't know what to do and vise versa.
2007-12-29 04:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tommy H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bringing a girlfriend along
2007-12-29 04:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by wheelhog1966 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
communication does help in these matters....he sounds either naive or very boring...or both, try talking to him about this otherwise sex will become very boring for the BOTH of you.
GOOD LUCK
2007-12-29 04:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by tracieisland 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he already isn't into it then theres not much MORE you can do to get him to like it. he's just a moron and very insensitive. he's got to figure it out in his own mind.
2007-12-29 06:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by abominusprime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ur 17 or older talk real dirty if u r 16 or yougner he jst dsnt wanna ask him he will tell u
2007-12-29 04:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Puertorican 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋