An object of fun?

Question

Hey guys. Something i would like to share and want ur opinion on. I have been an introvert since my child hood and since then have been made fun off at school, at home. Eventually i have grown up an into the shell individual. Even now, people think i am dumb since i never made any GFs (though i had 3 but i don't want to brag abt it to them). I am called a Compulsive Bachelor. People would pass funny comments, they would find me annoying because i don't booze or smoke. They would make fun over petty stuff such as not being too cool dude or a guy with small ordinary sidelocks. They wouldn't trust me if i have to teach my sister how to drive or for anything.

Don't know if i should retaliate or just gulp it inside. As a result of this i am getting more impulsive and don't want people to joke with me anymore. I fight with my sister and parents everday which is wrong on my part though but i am working on stuff that i can but...!!!

Pl. Suggest if u guys have any thing to say

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Some people!! Babe, I must applaud you for your discretion about past relationships. It sounds like you are a very stand up kinda guy, trust me, these days that's a rarity. I promise you that it wont mean squat- what those jerks say in the long run. I was a late social bloomer but when I did bloom I became the person everyone came to for advise and comfort in troubled times. Even the jerks who taunted me as a teen. They feel pretty foolish to this day but honestly that crap was so beneath me that I truly cant even remember the stuff that was said which (I believe) is the main reason for their jokes. They never got why it never bothered me, frankly I always thought to myself, "if you only knew how YOU look to me!" I'm just nicer than you LOL!!

Retaliate? Don't waste your time- more importantly, don't stoop to that level....it's beneath you, too!
Keep up the good work and BE YOURSELF! Life only happens once sweetie, don't sweat the small stuff. Trust me, I realize words can hurt, but they can also inspire. Turn the whole situation around and find humor in their comments, they may not mean it like you are taking it. I wish you luck and remember you are above retaliation!! Stay sweet! Have a great new year. Maybe you could make that resolution to do some self discovery and social skills development, maybe find out what makes you an introvert, try some social coaching sites. But remember that if you want social skills, you are gonna need to step away from the PC. Giggles! I think you should get involved in a club or group. Try seeking information on local clubs or activites put on by your local teen organizations. BIG HUGS!! -SHell

Answer 3

your too good to be true!

but seriously, it almost sounds like they are provoking you to act out.

be who YOU want to be, not what they want.

as for funny comments etc, just make a joke back.

some ppl find laffing about themselves takes the power away from others to do it.

nothing wrong with being a bachelor, than settling down with mrs. wrong and living in a shoe with so many kids you donno what to do?

keep posting this, and i'm sure your gonna get lotsa emails from some hotties just looking for a guy that doesn't drink, smoke and is sensitive:)

good luck

Answer 4

Just this: Please don't hurt yourself and your family for the benefit of people who don't mean you any good whatsoever.There's no real need to retaliate but there's no need to absorb their abuse either. Just be yourself. ...just stay on target.