Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

2007-12-28 15:53:54 · 20 answers · asked by anita p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think my ex-bf doesnt want to talk with me anymore
he said he still wanted to talk with me on msn
but he doesnt come online often
i sent him some emails and left some offline messages to him , but he didnt reply
he said he doesnt receive any of those
that was a long distance relationship
and i dont know why i feel that he is dating with another girl , so he doesnt want to talk with me often and when he is talking with me he doesnt reply me instantly or interested
thsi evening , when i told him , i felt really unhappy on msn
i said he didnt need to give me some solutions for my problem , i just needed him to listen to me about what i said
and then he didnt say or respond to me anything
i said i did want him to give me some responds when i was talking with him about my problems such as " hmmm hmm, ok , oic , i know, i understand , etc .
and then he said i was confusing him what his role in this conversation , and he was confused too

2007-12-28 15:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by candy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a big problem. I was in a bad relationship with my ex and have 2 kids with him. I trusted him and gave him everything and it just backfired in my face. This happened once before when I was a teenager. I am now engaged and have been with him for over 5 yrs now, but I find myself not trusting him the way that he deserves. I need to be able to trust him or I won't be able to marry him. Any serious advice please...Thank you ...

2007-12-28 15:52:40 · 9 answers · asked by kristianneveah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend of 7 months broke up a couple of days ago ( i broke up with him), but i cant help but want to call and text him. how do i move on? i have tried to stay busy and hang with friends but its not working. i dont want to get back with him because it was a really bad relationship. i need help. what can i do?

2007-12-28 15:51:05 · 28 answers · asked by JustWondering 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I really like. I havn't really talked to him we just smile when we walk by eachother. The problem is he's 6'2 and strong looking and I'm 4'11 and only 90 pounds. We sort of look like father and daughter. Our parents talk sometimes when they see eachother and we just stand there while they talk.
My mom thinks she's matchmaker.com and tells me all the time that we look good together but she doesn't know I like him.
SO GUYS: Would you feel comfterable going out with a girl who's like a foot shorter than you? I certainly don't mind his height ;] but he may have a problem with mine?

2007-12-28 15:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has two grown sons one is on the east coast, and the other is home for the holidays, I only see my girl on weekends as she works in another town 3 hours away, but comes home on the weekends. The past few weekends she has had to be home with the son and can't take five minuets to see me, can any one tell me whats up?

2007-12-28 15:48:30 · 5 answers · asked by J M 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband acts very different when we visit his family and in a bad way!
He becomes a selfish jerk and acts like i am the enemy.
Any ideas why???

2007-12-28 15:48:20 · 10 answers · asked by Lil lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend likes porn any kind of porn on the internet.. he says it started with regular porn 7 yrs ago... Then esculated every now and then he looks at gay porn and ts porn..he swears up and down that it is a addiction... he dont find men attractive, he is not gay. he likes looking at that stuff it is different and ya it gets him hard well the ts get him hard I'm not sure about the gay porn. Im assuming it does or he wouldnt look at that. He looks at regular porn the most... ts 2nd... then gay 3rd. So is it an addiction or is he bi or gay?what?? he swears he isnt... He says it is just something here and there when he is looking on the internet at porn that he decides to look at just something about it but he cant explain besides different and an addiction... He says he wants to stop looking at it.. Please help...Give me some answers I love him But I am scared....

2007-12-28 15:47:21 · 20 answers · asked by Countrylivin 1 in Singles & Dating

he just says he don't want a relationship. but, he is in a relationship with someone else. he has just never ended what we have. i dont understand why. is it possible he really wants me but is with her for material reasons(big house,travel etc.)?
it seems if he was really in love with her he would not have passionate sex with me? is it possible he likes her more but our sex is better?

2007-12-28 15:45:20 · 2 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Singles & Dating

here's his picture:
http://www.webwereld.nl/attachments/free/milton1.jpg

2007-12-28 15:41:52 · 33 answers · asked by lindsey p 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a 31 year old male with a beautiful wife, a 3 year old, and one on the way. My wife is done after this one an wants me to get fixed. I wouldn't force her to have a third but I wouldn't be sad to have 3 either. I dont know that I am comfortable getting fixed. I said that if anything ever happened to us or her, there could always be the chance that I would want another one. Am I really being the incensitive, conceided *** she says I am by saying that? Isn't 31 young to be doing something permenant to my body if it's not something I want? Any marital advice is welcomed here.

2007-12-28 15:41:37 · 32 answers · asked by dpcrogan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you find attractive? A guy with a six-pack ripped abs and a tease or flabby and funny? What of these kind of stereo types are true, What is it your willing to overlook and go for more in the majority of guys? And does Super smart and clumpsy= what u seek, or Average smarts yet real physically close and capable in a realtionship?

2007-12-28 15:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by Nate B. 2 in Singles & Dating

to have a Maid of honor but no Best Man? Our intentions where to not have any at all because it would be cheaper but my bestfriend really wants to be in the wedding and she said she will even buy her own dress.

Also she told me today that in the Catholic wedding the require you to have a best man a maid of honor because they are considered witnesses. Does any one know if this is true?

2007-12-28 15:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by Bree 2 in Weddings

how do you overcome a restraining order if you feel the other girl wants to see you? we had a breakup and got into a huge fight - she cheated and i said some things like threatening to go to her ex husband where she would lose her custody. i didn't mean it. before we had the chance to talk about it - she filed a temporary restraining order. the argument was over another guy she was seeing for two months while she was with me. i went over to her place when i wasn't supposed to so i could pour my heart out, and was afraid i was losing her to the other guy. she called the police. the restraining order went permanent. in the last four months, she has heard through friends why our relationship fell apart and now she understands and wishes she could see me, but she's very scared of losing custody b/c if she drops the restraining order, her ex will use it against her in her current custody battle. she knows i'm here for her if she needs me. how long do u think it will be if she comes back?

2007-12-28 15:38:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend has been cutting her self ever since her and this guy broke up, and he turned into a total jerk! apparently, her life has ben going compleetly wrong ever since then! she keeps promissing me that she will stop, but the next time i see her, i find out she is still doing it, even thought she tries to hide it!! she says that she has a "good reason", but she won't tell me. she says that she "can't" cuz her principal told her not to, but i think that a bunch of b.s.!
she acts like she's suicidal or something! i afraid that the next step up from cutting her self, will be killing her self! i don't want to lose my best friend! i'm scared! what do i do? how do i get her to stop? i can't tell her or my parrents, cuz then she will hate me, and they will just make her see some gay therapist for the rest of her life! and she hates therapists! i don't know what to do! i'm scared for my bestfriend's life! she's only 13, and...well...i just don't know! help me!

2007-12-28 15:37:22 · 46 answers · asked by baseballgirl46 1 in Friends

I was getting upset because my husband played on line poker and I believe he was flirting. so he set up a female account and flirts as a girl with men. I see what a kick he get's out of it so I still think he does is as a man with woman when i am not around. what is the turn on with this, or the turn off with me.

2007-12-28 15:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Angie M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

30 year old daughter-the man's only flesh and blood kin. mother-in-law took care of him in ill health 24/7 but daughter is his only child. (They will not ride together please don't say that).

Thanks!

2007-12-28 15:32:47 · 15 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

2007-12-28 15:27:14 · 8 answers · asked by BIG T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Look, I've changed. My Dad found out I was looking at pornograghpic images about 2 mounths ago. i feel really bad now. he thinks ima perverted untrustwrothy person now.
he put this internet pertecter thing on now i cant see pictures
not only that but he just doesnt trust me now

How can i earn his trust back!!
plz, i love him, i want him to trust me agin!!!

2007-12-28 15:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This evil sister inlaw for that last 23 years she has been a pain in my ***.. She is the only girl in the family with 2 brothers and to top it off she is the baby of all 3 of them.
The girl is 38 years old and had every thing handed to her from Dad & Mom to this day. She is married for the last 12 years with two kids... both sister inlaw and husbad dose not have a pot to pee in and what they do have came from my in-laws.
My husband & I have to kids we have every thing we need due to my hunsband works hard for his money. It is put in our faces all the time my huband gets payed more money that is why we have what we have. That is true but living in Calif is not the easyest thing they live in AL.
We just found out her two kids got a Wii with 5 games that came from the Grandparents & they gave my two boys $25.00.
I talked to my mother inlaw they are retired speed the money on them selfs she tells me the sister inlaws family have no $$$ the kids have know food I told her not her pro

2007-12-28 15:24:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the kind that guys go crazy for.

2007-12-28 15:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy I was working with were friends at work. I had the hots for him but he was really shy and wouldn't ask me out so eventually I asked him and he accepted willingly. We then started a booty call thing that went on for five months. He would call at night and ask me to come over (always for the booty call) but asked that I spend the rest of the night with him just cuddling but we never talked much at all. After a time I told him I liked him and wanted more like doing things together (watching movies or sports). We stayed doing the booty calls for a while later but then suddenly he stopped calling. So I began to process it and begin to move on. Suddenly after two months of absence he called me to say he was sorry for acting like a jerk and that he missed me. Is he still trying to just begin another booty call series or does he maybe have feelings for me too? Or did something else maybe drop out and he needs it again? He didn't ask me for the booty call :"yet".

2007-12-28 15:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 15:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by matt s 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel bad for her. its really sad. we've all been crying all day. my sister is not looking so good. they were supposed to get married tomorrow and i was a bridesmaid. =( i really liked him too. he was well brought up and had plans in his life. he graduated from college last year and they have a 1 year old son together. my sister is so depressed. i mean, she's only 22 and she's supposed to be graduating this may. but i dont think she wants to go back. she's locked up in her room right now and i dont know how to get her out. i need advice. what can i do to make her talk to me and perhaps continue going to school?? i am 16 and i have a boyfriend too and i know that i would feel the same way she does if he died.

oh yeah and she is pregnant again...she said about 8 weeks. *cries* REALLY??? We need help!

2007-12-28 15:18:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I get A's and B's..I have a good behavior in school I'm on the honor roll....I clean my room the house including my brother's room WITHOUT being asked I wash my own dish's and clean up after my mom...So right now I'm on my Winter Break and I asked my mom if I can make a scrapbook and she starts yelling like no you will not mess your pictures up and I'm like well I'm bored and well i had to go to this religion class today but I didn't because I had a sleep over at My best friends house FOR THE FIRST TIME i had to convince her to let me go for like an hour and then she starts yelling well you wouldn't be bored if you went to your class and I don't want to because its for like 6 hours and well I need my winter break because I worked hard the last 2 weeks of school for projects and then well she's like go do homework or read why are you so lazy and then I'm like im on my break and we get into a fight..how can I be good enough?? Are all parents like this?? I'm getting tired of fighting

2007-12-28 15:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by Me 6 in Family

2007-12-28 15:17:18 · 1 answers · asked by Ned 3 in Singles & Dating

ohkay so it all starts out with me and my brother.
im 15. hes 16.
he tells me not to "mess around" or date any of his friends.
but something happened.
i had a little crush on one of his friends.
but i didnt know he liked me too.
and the other day we kissed.
i didnt want it to happen, it just did.
BUT now, im over him.
but he told me that he REALLY likes me and wants to be with me., he is pretty serious
so i told him that it wouldnt work out because of my brother.
but hes like it WILL work out, if we really want it to and that he will talk to my brother.
but it will just make things worse.
should i just tell him that i dont like him as much as he likes me? i dont want to hurt his feelings though.

2007-12-28 15:16:38 · 3 answers · asked by Madeline 2 in Singles & Dating

The easiest and shortest explana is instead of having delusions of grandeur he has delusions of persucusion. It is very hard as you can imagine to live with this. Also these are some other symptoms: -if your sick or hurt he is too but worse, no matter who it may be. - he really does not get along with any other males, unless they are from work and have worse psych problems than him- he b!tches about me to himself out loud so I can hear it, and than claims he's not b!tching at me- he also is very paranoid with thing like making sure doors are locked and finacial info,- he can not have a decent converstion with anyone unless it is about the weather, these are just some I'm sure there is more I can't think of. what the heck, I truly know there is something wrong with him he will not talk to anyone, I really want to know what this illness is. I'll tell you this schizophrenia and bi-polar disorder run in his family, I don't believe he has either. Could some of his behaviors just be learn

2007-12-28 15:16:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-28 15:14:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'd like to get a job and have gone to a place to be hired, but, they didn't have much interest in me. I've found that people aren't eager to call for my help or employment.

Part of me feels like he's being wasted -- an able bodied person.



I'm a 29 year old son of a reputable radiologist who's really been there for me unconditionally. Because of his status in the community, I have a lot of freedoms and privilidges to do what I want. Yet, somehow, I'm STILL unfulfilled in life. I do a lot of exercise -- running, biking, swimming, weights, skating -- damn near everything, but, at times I feel isolated from the rest of the world. I'd really like to fall in love with somebody, but, can't find anybody out there who has free time to stuff.

2007-12-28 15:14:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family