2007-12-28 15:53:54 · 20 answers · asked by anita p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is not your type then reject his proposal.Tell your parents that he is not your type.
2007-12-29 04:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by coolblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all lets take the question whether u r a working person or not. If u r then u r completely free to live ur life without anybody else's interference. Well, if u r not then at the most u can request ur mom n dad to let u see some more guys and choose from them the one that seems to be ur type. Thirdly, if u dont like any of these options, then the best thing u can do is to settle with the one who has been chosen by ur parents and adjust with him the rest of ur life. Best of Luck.
2007-12-29 00:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Amrita M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not from Europe or US are you? It is very easy for us to tell you that don't marry the guy, but if you are in a culture where parents still make these decisions for you then it's no longer an easy call. However, we are living in modern times and the ways of the world tend to unite. I think you should seriously consider what is important to you - to do as your parents ask you to, or to do what you instinctively believe to be right for you. You'll have to remember that you are the most important person in your life and you are mostly responsible for yourself, nobody else. What ever you choose, make it your own decision, so that later you don't have to blame your parents for choosing the wrong guy for you.
2007-12-29 08:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by sebthec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kid, also 28, was introduced to a young man. I could tell she didn't like him because of how he looked. Well, for the past month, they've become inseparable. He's a genuinely nice person, treats her with respect, talks to her nicely and he's a nice man. He's in his 30's and has never married because he has been holding out for someone nice to take home to mother. I told her to concentrate on someone treating her with respect, instead of trying to find some guy who looks like a movie star, because those guys generally cheat.
Try to get to know him and his interests and if all else fails, just tell the groom how you feel; he may feel the same way. There's no need to spend the rest of your life in misery.
2007-12-29 00:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by openmyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your age is now 28 yrs now u have to do marry after the marriage the changes will come the boy will become ur type of boy it depend on you.
2007-12-29 02:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see u r ageing fast now and for girls age matters much and if u r getting a good boy at this age just go for it as when the time will fly and u will never know that whether u will get the better option then or not so please see to it and dont delay if u want to marry and if u dodnt then no problem but let me tell u very frankly the age mmatter for girl more than boys. so please talk to u r parents ,meet the boy and if u think he is suitable go for it .as u will never get 100 percent perfect parnter as no body gets how young he/she may be. its all the movies and there is a diif. between dreams and reality
2007-12-29 00:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sister Anita, our parents are always happy when we as their children are happy. Trust your parents and taking them into confidence, do tell them that you think you will not be happy with the groom they have chosen for you. I am sure they will definitely consider your preference to see you happy. All the best.
2007-12-29 03:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say that he is not of your type,say you are not of her type and one more thing what is going to fun you be with the person who is as same as like you,if i was their on your behalf i will select the one who is different from me than their will be a fun and something new for me,and dear you are selecting a life partner not a friend who should be same in your manner.......Life partner means one who can become your part for whole life,who undersatnd you,who believe in you,who bless for you...
2007-12-29 01:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by karan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not marry him!
You will find the right man and they just need to accept that!
If they don't want to than ask them what is more important to them a daughter in their life or a son in law!!
2007-12-29 00:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart - say either yes or no
Another option is to get to know him better. Rarely married couple said from the first sight that he or she is her type or not.
2007-12-30 13:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u marrying him now will be like falling in a known pit!!! all u can do is convince ur parents about ur dislikes regarding that boy...if they dont agree...talk to that boy directly and tell him u dont like him orelse ask him to change the things that u dont like in him...still he doesnt marry him for ur parents wish and divorce him for ur convenience.....and blame ur parents for wt happened....all the best
2007-12-29 00:16:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋