i think my ex-bf doesnt want to talk with me anymore?

Question

i think my ex-bf doesnt want to talk with me anymore
he said he still wanted to talk with me on msn
but he doesnt come online often
i sent him some emails and left some offline messages to him , but he didnt reply
he said he doesnt receive any of those
that was a long distance relationship
and i dont know why i feel that he is dating with another girl , so he doesnt want to talk with me often and when he is talking with me he doesnt reply me instantly or interested
thsi evening , when i told him , i felt really unhappy on msn
i said he didnt need to give me some solutions for my problem , i just needed him to listen to me about what i said
and then he didnt say or respond to me anything
i said i did want him to give me some responds when i was talking with him about my problems such as " hmmm hmm, ok , oic , i know, i understand , etc .
and then he said i was confusing him what his role in this conversation , and he was confused too

i talked with him about i dont know how to handle my emotion after i broke up with him and there are another events that affected my feeling
i felt those events made me so hard to tiderr over a day
and then he said i over reacted too much and there were something that would separate us even as a friend
i said i just wanted him to talk with me as a friend
but why does he need to treat me like that ? :'(
i asked him if he still wanted to talk with me
and then he said " unless you dont over react "
i think i understand what i should do now
if i should stop talking with him fovever
and dont communicate with him as a friend
and distories all of the connections with him ?

Answer 1

It is very clear ...he is not into u anymore...save ur pride..u are a person, not a toy.. get on with ur life dear.. one day he will realize his loss ...

Answer 2

He's probably avoiding you because he's probably trying to move on with his life. He's not your shrink, just leave the poor boy alone. You obviously need to move on with your life as well and quit hanging on to him. So what if he has a new girlfriend? You aren't his girlfriend anymore anyways.

Answer 3

well, he is probably avoiding you. sorry for that. but maybe you can try avoiding him for some while, before start talking with him again. i think he just need some break. or.. probably you talk "overly" to him, like, saying that you love him and want him back? maybe he thinks, by avoiding you, he can help you move on with your life.

but that's ok. i think everyone needs some break, anyway. but if you really want him back, don't lie to yourself. maybe you are not meant to get back with him *now*, but as time passes by, who knows he might think that you are irreplaceable, and then he asks you to get back with him? :)

Answer 4

hon, ex's are just that... an EX.. so don't expect him to continue talking.

make yourself a clean break anyhow... spend time getting over it, and your grieving time.. but remember to keep busy, do things with family and friends... even take karate or join a gym.. something new...?

take care, and time will heal. it's hard i know xo