if she comes back, when?

Question

how do you overcome a restraining order if you feel the other girl wants to see you? we had a breakup and got into a huge fight - she cheated and i said some things like threatening to go to her ex husband where she would lose her custody. i didn't mean it. before we had the chance to talk about it - she filed a temporary restraining order. the argument was over another guy she was seeing for two months while she was with me. i went over to her place when i wasn't supposed to so i could pour my heart out, and was afraid i was losing her to the other guy. she called the police. the restraining order went permanent. in the last four months, she has heard through friends why our relationship fell apart and now she understands and wishes she could see me, but she's very scared of losing custody b/c if she drops the restraining order, her ex will use it against her in her current custody battle. she knows i'm here for her if she needs me. how long do u think it will be if she comes back?

i know it's the worst thing you could ever say to someone. it's something that i really can't believe i did. i have never been in trouble with the law. i am very upset about all this.

Answer 1

she'll come backa fter she gets her thoughts all sorted out :]

Answer 2

Oh man BIG RED FLAG!!! I say run and find someone new. To much baggage and she is doing things to you that she shouldn't be doing like going out with another man for 2 months. How much more can you take of her? Move on and find someone with no baggage.

Answer 3

Stay away from her or my partners and I will come and get you.

I promise you will not like that.

Good luck.

Answer 4

she cheated on you to me thats a deal breaker