Look, I've changed. My Dad found out I was looking at pornograghpic images about 2 mounths ago. i feel really bad now. he thinks ima perverted untrustwrothy person now.
he put this internet pertecter thing on now i cant see pictures
not only that but he just doesnt trust me now
How can i earn his trust back!!
plz, i love him, i want him to trust me agin!!!
2007-12-28 15:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ima christian....
2007-12-28 15:30:21 · update #1
the reason i kno dat it blocks stuff is myspace
2007-12-28 15:31:49 · update #2
Well trust is earned one step at a time, you clean up your act, stop whining do extra chores with out being told to do them, do your regular chores in a timely matter and cheerfully. Help out around the house and yard, if the car comes in the yard and you know there are things to be carried in get out there and do it.
Study hard and bring up your grades, see if you can plan some time just you and your Dad to play ball, go to a game, learn to play chess together, find a common interest and use it to let him spend more time aroud you and so he can see you are growing up.
IF you have not apologized for your behavior do so...
If he had put the proper controls on to begin with some of this could been prevented, you would only have been caught reading his Playboy Magazines..... For real, he doesn't think you are perverted he just thinks you were exploring more than
you should have been. It is his job to monitor your behavior and be the parent...
that doesn't mean he doesn't love you it means he has to be the tough guy sometimes....
Don't be afraid to give him a hug and say "I love you dad"
when you are headed to bed at night....
2007-12-28 15:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he can't trust you if you are testing the internet protector.
Actions speak louder than words. Stay off the computer and get some work done around the house. Stop acting like a boy and take responsibility for your actions like a man.
2007-12-28 15:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Eventually he will trust you again, but not with you checking the computer to see if the website is blocked or not. You would still look, if you wouldn't get caught. So be honest with yourself first and things will turn out for the better.
2007-12-28 15:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a results of fact the Bible tells us: "He who spareth the rod hateth his son: yet he that loveth him correcteth him betimes" (Proverbs 13:24) and "Withhold no longer correction from a newborn: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall no longer die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and furnish his soul from hell." (Proverbs 23:13-14) nicely, hi my youthful pal. Say hear I study your ' BIO ' and seems such as you have an incredible existence. . .i comprehend you're 15yrs.previous and play guitar in a sprint band ,astonishing. Now,!! you're soliciting for suggestion on what you may desire to DO - once you fessd up on your Pop, who might have found out besides and placed the screws to you . . .Wow -Little brother -Wow. . you extremely ' don't get THIS ' do you. . . nicely,enable's see you have located your loving father and mother in bind . . .and doubtless tarnish their stable determine status with all of their company assoc.,and different well known contacts ,no longer forgetting THE regulation won't supply'em a smash. Exodus 20:12 (New worldwide version) 12 "Honor your father and your mom, so as which you will stay long interior the land the LORD your God is offering you with. whilst additionally jeopardizing your person FREEDOM ,guy is your head so far up your Bum that anybody you spot is . . . besides. awaken!!! study those examples interior the bible and you may awaken. nonetheless ,Obey your father and mother and seek for a much better thank you to have relaxing-BOYyy. . .that doesn't contain a drug of any form. See how that works for you. in case you like your Pop. This ain't approximately appreciate or have confidence or what you want ,it extremely is approximately sparing your little tail some severe Freedomless soreness!!! it extremely is his activity as a determine. So,OBEY and alter your concentration son. i such as you and that i do no longer even comprehend you. ok!!! clearly,Michael - BNTP - Oh yeah, i'm a determine too.
2016-10-09 08:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u love him and that you will earn his trust again, and work really hard and i'm sure u will do it. don't worry only time will take care of it and make it a thing of the past.
good luck.
2007-12-28 15:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Aseret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your Father not a male?????? Was he a perfectly good angle when he was your age?????? Knowing what I know about adult Men, he sounding a bit hypocritical to me. I would point that out to him.
2007-12-28 15:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hadley N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time quit doing things that would cause your father not to trust you action speak louder than words.
2007-12-28 15:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jajajajajaj.my dad is the opposite,,..he says its a normal thing about growing up//
2007-12-28 15:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop goin on the computer, when he's not there.
2007-12-28 15:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Crayons are yummy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋