What do you find attractive? A guy with a six-pack ripped abs and a tease or flabby and funny? What of these kind of stereo types are true, What is it your willing to overlook and go for more in the majority of guys? And does Super smart and clumpsy= what u seek, or Average smarts yet real physically close and capable in a realtionship?
2007-12-28 15:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by Nate B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for me, to be honest, i notice what i see first.
but what keeps me interested is the personality. if the guy is nice, sweet, funny, makes me feel good etc., etc., than i would definitely go for him. no matter what he looks like.
2007-12-28 15:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I am totally attracted to slightly geeky guys, who are usually about 10 pounds overweight, maybe 20. The smarter the better. I like funny guys, too, so long as they don't try too hard. Do I appreciate great abs? Yes, but only if they're on a guy who's honest and not a game player. That's awfully hard to find. I should go for the guy with average smarts who's capable of being really close and capable, but, forgive me, I go for smart and geeky.
2007-12-28 15:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Um, I didn't understand some of the question, but I'll just talk about what I find attractive in guys:
Their personality. And frankly, if a guy has too much muscle, I find it kinda gross. It only has to be slightly toned, no huge bulges of fat anywhere.
A guy should be down to earth, funny, understanding, can be serious when he needs to be, mature, trustworthy, and faithful. He should always be giving u compliments that make you blush, he should understand you if you want to take it slow.
2007-12-28 15:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[1] i first look at looks, &the eyes attract me the most. also the hair.
[2] average smart. i mean too smart is like uh no thank you and really really really dumb -- how can they even start a conversation? o_O
[3] i mean they have to at least look hot. i mean which girl doesnt love abs? : o anyways yeah if their muscles were like OVERLY SIZED HUGE. um no thanks. because it would be so fake lol : )
[4]confidence ! they stand out.
[5] umm yepp should do nice in a relationship def.
[6] funny def. i mean they should AT LEAST have a sense of humor.
[7] yeah somewhere along those lines :]
2007-12-28 15:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, girls don't care about the six-pack abs, although nice. Girls look for maturity, sense of humor, and personality. They want to know they can be with someone trustworthy and honest. Smarts are good, too. Girls look for emotional rather than physical.
2007-12-28 15:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by trivkc 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really like guys with a great personality and who are really funny (but not in a show-off kind of way). I would rather them be fit, because I am really into sports. That way we could go hiking and play sports and he wouldn't be tired. They don't have to be super muscular though. It really just depends on the person and who I click with them
2007-12-28 15:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like every physique else, i for sure look at actual seems first. the element i think of all females locate commonly used, is clean, superb hair and a good smile :) After that, i admire a guy who's worrying, keen to ask and have an interest interior the failings i admire and is clever, like waiting to tutor an opinion! i admire a guy who recalls issues i tell him, and purely be there!
2016-11-26 00:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like a guy who is very funny and smart. looks are always a plus. looks do hav a factor. most people wouldnt go out w/ a guy who is really ugly ...as shallow as that may sound, im afraid its true for alot of people. for me personality is most important tho. i would rather go out w/ an "ugly" guy who is funny and willing to commit rather than a hot guy who is detached and doesnt really care about me
2007-12-28 15:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ambellina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't as important as being confident, funny, smart, and really, really sweet!
In fact, guys that are ripped look extra queer to me.
I'm not saying that all built guys with a 6 pack are gay.
I'm just saying that in my opinion it LOOKS gay as f*ck!
(not that there is anything wrong with that!)
My fiance is flabby and funny as hell.
Cheers,
Christina http://myspace.com/mikepattonisgod
2007-12-28 15:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well too much muscle can actually turn me off but some nice abs and really nice arms are always a plus but not too much. all the girls i know think so too. but i have deff liked guys that are flabby and funny. if u can make a girl laugh u almost always have her heart that's wut all the girls i know think also :)
2007-12-28 15:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋