The easiest and shortest explana is instead of having delusions of grandeur he has delusions of persucusion. It is very hard as you can imagine to live with this. Also these are some other symptoms: -if your sick or hurt he is too but worse, no matter who it may be. - he really does not get along with any other males, unless they are from work and have worse psych problems than him- he b!tches about me to himself out loud so I can hear it, and than claims he's not b!tching at me- he also is very paranoid with thing like making sure doors are locked and finacial info,- he can not have a decent converstion with anyone unless it is about the weather, these are just some I'm sure there is more I can't think of. what the heck, I truly know there is something wrong with him he will not talk to anyone, I really want to know what this illness is. I'll tell you this schizophrenia and bi-polar disorder run in his family, I don't believe he has either. Could some of his behaviors just be learn
2007-12-28 15:16:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i feel for u my dad was a nut they said he was shell shocked there was 7 kids in my family and my mother was a real catholic and would not leave him i just wished he would die he was mean and very violent made life as a kid living hell would not wish that childhood on any one u need to get out and more important get your kids out he is doing damage to all of you people some will tell u he can be normal but if he doesn't think he is ill he wont get help get out don't do what my mother did to us
2007-12-28 18:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by furface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it does sound like paranoid schizophrenia. He needs to see a doctor, there are different drugs they can put him on that will help him. And many do well on the right one, and live as close to a normal life as they can.
I have had a lot of experience with paranoid schizophrenics. My mother in-law is one, and when she is taking her medication she is ok. But when she isn't she is so out there, that you cant even talk to her. And she is so paranoid she will not shower for fear that someone will come in the house while she is in the shower and kill her.
And I knew a man that was so bad, he had to live in a group home, for the most part he just said crazy things, and wore a towel wrapped around his head because he believe the sun fried your brain. But there were times, even when he was crazy that he made sense in an odd way.
Some are not so bad, and some are so out there, that there is no help for them. But the only way you will know, is to take him to a doctor. And get him some help, and on some drugs that will help him function and have more of a normal life.
2007-12-28 15:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he has a disorder called paranoid personality disorder. For these individuals it is really hard for them to seek help because they truly believe that the counselor or psychiatrist is lying and out to get them.
2007-12-28 16:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kat t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These type of people can wear you out emotionally but its not mental illness, sorry. Its simply insecurity and a need to one up everyone else. Your choice is to put up with it or leave him. There is no medication for being a boor.
2007-12-28 15:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love all? Do you love the one that matters most of all?
Don't try to do this all on your own. You don't have to. When you are afraid there is someone close by who understands, when you feel sad there is someone close by who understands, when you feel like not coming out of your room there is someone close by who understands........
It is the Lord.
The Lord tells us to take our troubles and lay them at his feet. When Christ is in our hearts and we are living a life for him, he will help us in our struggles. We will still have trials and tribulations, but the Lord will be there to pick you up and give you the peace that passes all understanding. It is a peace that no drugs, doctor, or anything else could give you. To have a personal relationship with the Lord....(Who loves and cares for you) here is what you need to do....
1. You must realize you are a sinner. (Romans 3:23) "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God."
(Romans 3:10) "As it is written, There is none righteous, no not one."
2. Second you must accept that as a sinner you owe a penalty. (Romans 6:23) "For the wages of sin is death...."
This is an eternal death in Hell. See everyone lives forever somewhere...either Heaven or Hell. Those who reject Christ and never ask for repentance of their sins go to Hell. Those who ask Christ to come into their lives, thank him for dying on the cross for their sins, and turn from their sin...will go to Heaven. You just pray to the Lord a simple prayer like this:
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner, and I deserve to pay my own sin debt, but I do believe that you died for me to pay the debt that I owe. Today, the best that I know how, I trust you as my savior. I will depend on you from this moment on for my salvation. Now help me to live for you and to be a good Christian. Amen
If you really believe that Christ died for you, and you are ready to repent of your sins and to turn to Christ...pray...and ask him to come into your life. When no one is there he will be.
God Bless You
2007-12-28 16:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like he's narcissistic (sp?) with ocd
2007-12-28 15:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋