I just want your opinion...
2007-12-28 13:58:16 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems most answerers on here assume that you are actually IN this situation. Well, whether you are or aren't, I believe that it is very possible. Especially if you knew the person well before you started dating them. A sure sign of love is when you're willing to do anything for them (without compromising your own boundaries and beliefs), and you spend most of your time thinking of them. If you typically fall fast, however, it could just be that you are in love with the thought of them or in love with being in a relationship. So, in conclusion, yes. It its possible to love someone that soon.
2007-12-29 05:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by zlatham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think I fell in love with my husband the first time I met him, if not then, then my 3rd time being around him... almost 8 years later (almost 7 years married) still in love with him...
Granted him being a boy... (all males are boys.. lol) I didnt tell him til about 3 months into the relationship, and he was like .. oh yeah .. I love you too! lol
And I know it was love .. because I still have that same feeling when I look at him...
So Yes ... In my opinion, it is possible =) (sorry had to share why I thought it was possible, couldn't just say yes)..
2007-12-28 14:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly
2007-12-28 14:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I wouldn't say you will love them early on this point after just a few dates. While I was dating my bf, it took me about a month for me to actually have those romantic love feelings for him. I only liked my bf after the first few dates. As I got to know him better, my feelings started to grow stronger. So in my opinion, you can only love someone when you find out why you have feelings for them. At the beginning when you are dating someone you don't know, you are only lusting.
2007-12-28 14:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not possible to actually love them. you'll build really strong feelings, and alot of people mistake these feelings for love. in my opinion, it takes AT LEAST 3 or 4 months to even begin to fall in love. and that's really pushing it. love's not a game, and the word is thrown around these days like it doesn't mean anything anymore. you have to go through alot to fall in love with someone. you have to be able to tell them anything in the world, be yourself around them. you have to know them inside and out. it's just not possible in a couple days.
2007-12-28 14:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More likely to fall in love with being in love after a few days of dating. I don't think the love is legitimate.
2007-12-28 14:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by U.España 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because everyone is different, the answer is yes!
I fell in love with my wife of 15 years within a couple of dates. We would still be happily married today if she hadn't of died from cancer.
When you meet the right one, you just know it. Falling in love quickly with that person is very natural.
2007-12-28 14:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definately, i went on vacation with my mom's friend's family, and they brought a person my age. We pretty much got together there and went home like 4 days later, I fell in love, best time of my life
2007-12-28 14:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, Its the thrill of being with somebody and having all those awesome feelings that go along with it. It's called thrill,fun, happiness, suspense about what will happen next etc. Its a great feeling, though time will tell If it will eventuate into love.
2007-12-28 14:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I think that it is instantaneous because two souls that are meant to be have a certain recognition between them. It happened to me twice. It was like lightning when we looked into each others eyes and we know that there was something about each other that we had to get to know. Unfortunately it did not work out because of extenuating circumstances.
2007-12-28 14:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋