my boyfriend slept with my best friend from elementary school. i love my friend to death, but i also love my boyfriend dearly and i think hes the one. however i dont know who to blame... what do i do? :/
2007-12-28 12:44:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are too nice to have still to ask what to do..... go find a respectful faithful honest boyfriend, and a new female friend who has values, boundaries and control... good luck
2007-12-28 12:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dump them both. They have betrayed your trust. It makes no difference who started it-- either one of them could have said "no". I'm sure both of them knew how you would feel if you found out. Even if they didn't think of that, they still don't have a shred of respect for you
This boyfriend of yours certainly isn't "the one" if he treats you with so little regard. If he does this now, how will he behave once you are married? I shudder at the thought.
You deserve better, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. The same goes for your "best friend". Some friend.
If you crawl back to either of them, you are a fool.
2007-12-28 12:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by holey moley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds liek neither cares too much about you if they did that to you. If it happened before you got together then it doesnt matter the past is the past but if you were going out then yeah not much of a friend is she and he's not much himself as a boyfirned........they dont care so why should you...id move on but then again thats my opnion........i sure wouldnt take it
2007-12-28 12:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The three of you are to blame. Move on and find someone who will love you and cherish you for who you are. Don't be with someone who sleeps around.
2007-12-28 12:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by C G M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame anyone, put that behind you
How much do you love him? Was that a once off when everyone was drunk? Or did he liked her from the start.
2007-12-28 12:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Frank H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not the one or he wouldn't have cheated. once a cheat always a cheat. I learned the hard way. if this is your friends only mistake give her another chance. If not kick her to the curb and fast.
2007-12-28 12:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them obviously are very selfish and didn't consider your feelings when they did this. You are better off not knowing either one of them, it doesn't sound like they are real friends and if your boyfriend has cheated on you then he is a loser.
2007-12-28 12:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ben J 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i blame both of them, your best friend isnt your best friend if they would do that to you, and your boyfriend doesnt care about you. i would dump the boyfriend and the friend wouldnt be my friend anymore. cut them both out of your life.
2007-12-28 12:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Takes two to tango. Dump em both until they can settle it between themselves. Don't decieve yourself. They both chose this knowing full well you and he were in a committed ongoing relationship.
2007-12-28 12:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Greywolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Will he sleep with your sister before or after the wedding bells?
You deserve better, a better guy, and a better friend.
2007-12-28 12:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋