Okay! im in a relationship with this guy that 21 and im 23 but the thing is that in the beging of our relationship he would call me more often pay more attention to me! I think Ive getting to attached to him. oh yeah one thing hes a transporter for a hospital grave yard shift. so most of his time hes always tired. what do i do to not feel like he doesnt like me ? sometimes i feel he doesnt even wanna talk to me because hes always like ill call you back when im getting into the conversation? girls and guys what do i do ? do you think its nothing ? do i pay too much attention to him ? what do i do?
2007-12-28 11:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by sweets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hiya. Girlies are terrible for wanting long, phone chats and texting their bfs every two minutes. Its a little overwhelming for a lot of men. Stick to only texting him if he texts you first. Never phone him, let him phone you. If he does text, don't reply immediately. Vary the amount of time you text back. If it requires an immediate reply then give one but in general stick to the hour to eight hour principle. If he phones you, give him 8 minutes and then say you have to go. This way, he will wonder about you and why you are always on the go or take ages to text him back. Also, if you chat on the phone for too long, he will wonder if he has to see you as you have discussed it all already. If he doesn't text or phone you within a 48 hour period, then he isn't worth having as he isn't attentive enough so you would seriously have to move on. Yes, a little less chasing! Let him do some running - you will know if he likes you as he will chase you about until he pins you down. Keep being a bit slippery and hard to get hold of sometimes so that it keeps his interest going.
2007-12-28 11:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite frankly very difficult to answer your question. The facts you presented can go either way, that is , show that he is losing interest or also mean nothing.My suggestion is that since you say you are in a relationship, talk to him---again.Tell him that it appears to you as if he is no longer interested in a relationship with you. Ask him to be blunt and tell you the truth no matter what it is. If he still wants to be with you, then tell him everything you have noticed that bothers you and ask him if there is anything you can do to help improve the romance. Your romance is only 4 months old so you are still practically on honey moon. However, if you get the feeling he is no longer in love with you, or if his words and actions don't match, or if he tells you it is over, then accept it. While you may love him you can not force anybody to stay with you; but he may have good reasons or an explanation for all that has been happening.Best of luck to you.
2007-12-28 12:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things in the beginning of a relationship are always great but as time goes by, things and the fun die out. Since your relationship is only 4 months old and is really still in the beginning, things should not be dying out. You should still be learning about each other and really enjoying each other. It sounds like he is either losing interest in you or is scared of the relationship. I think you should talk to him and if this keeps up you should move on before you get to attached and then it will hurt much more.
2007-12-28 11:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by 70RR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very insecure. If he's tired from working the late shift then let him get some sleep and call you back when he can. If you can't handle it or feel like he's not paying enough attention to you, I suggest you let him know how you are feeling and/or break up with him.
2007-12-28 11:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by gloristar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things never stay the same. All relationships fade eventually, some faster than others. It sounds to me like he's just losing interest. It's only been a four month relationship. Time to move on.
2007-12-28 11:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like its always like that give it time in the beginning of the relationship they always pay more attention to u because they want to get to know u and make sure ur an object of their affection but as time progresses the relationship can get boring its up to u to spice it up surprise him with something but dont give up on it
2007-12-28 11:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can be tried of the job hours, or he can also be seeing someone else. I wouldn't call him as much as before, she if he will start calling you.
2007-12-28 11:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bub,,,,,,,,,,,time to move on,,,,if he cant find 5mins to ring ya,,,i have a friend who does the same job,,,and most of the time he is on the phone to his mrs or friends,,,,,,,,,,,,yehh time to move on,,,,,,,its his lost not yours remember
2007-12-28 12:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on.
2007-12-28 11:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋