We met back in Sept.
We talk everyday in school
He liked me, I liked him
but then BAM:
-he has a gf
-been to prison
-drugs, alcohol, partying
-player
-left my xmas gift to him on the floor and didn't pick it up, right in front of me
he was so close to asking me out, it was fun talking to him, he still tells his friends about me, i always catch him looking at me and he still gets shy around me
BUT I need to move on.
quick, someone call Tyra so she can come over and tell me to learn something from this.
2007-12-28 10:01:48 · 15 answers · asked by kmkween24217 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not your fault. The man was a turn off, he let you down in many ways. He had a good opportunity with you and he didn't take it and that's because he took everything in his life for granted. He's a low-life drug-addict that probably just wants to sleep with a girl and then ditch her, then sleep with another one then ditch her. ect.
You deserve more than that. Look into someone who actually cares about you and doesn't just be your "friend" just in case he looses his gf.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-28 10:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have two ideas for you.First, keep your sense of humor which may come in handy .Your Tyra quip was a good one that shows you can laugh at yourself.Secondly, just read the beginning of your piece above. You have given all the reasons why you need to move on and the same reasons make it easy for you to do that. However, you insinuate that you guys may have briefly dated or gone out because you suggest you need to move on , a sentiment usually expressed by ex lovers .
2007-12-28 18:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well lets look at the other side of the coin.. you did date him..
this is your future
had sex with him about a million times, and then he leaves you and then you have him still talking to his friends about you : kiss and tell kind of person: and they still will stare at you=]
or forwhat ever reason he went to jail, you would be known as the girl who boyfriend went to jail, and it would bring you down and make you look like a fool
and the girlfriend he has now, he will cheat on =] and you could of been that girl
its always fun talking to boys like that, they say all the right thins, but are just a dumb ***
okay so the christmas gift you got him that meant nothing to him, why are letting that kind of bullshit drama disrespect in your life? hes crazy.. not a gentleman, and will probably end up being a horrible boyfriend, husband.. guys like that are only sweet and nice for a SHORT period of time, trust me sweetheart its not just you he will do this too.. stay away, far away, go talk to his friends and never look or talk to him again, boys come and go, wise up, or your going to end up heartbroken with alot of regret like me, i don't want to see that now!!!
2007-12-28 18:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every time you see him you just have to push all those things OUT of your head that say 'ooh he's so cute and he likes me!' and put all those bulleted thoughts INTO your head!! Sooner or later, he'll become less appealing to your eye and you can move on to your next guy.
2007-12-28 18:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pallavolo Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should do anything to keep yourself busy first of all. and if you got some good friends stay on the phone talkin to them ( male or female) and try to avoid talkin about him. then when you look back, you probably gon laugh at yourself for even gettin hung up on him.
2007-12-28 18:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by geminicutie93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him
hes not worth it :D
get a real guy hu loves u nd isnt fraid 2 show it :)
hope it helps
â¥
2007-12-28 18:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gradually.. and patiently close your communication with him.. DOnt answer his phone calls, emails or text.. once a relationship is without communication.. It will die.. Just an advice.. Do it also with respect.. Gudluck. =)
2007-12-28 18:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you've broken it all down, then read what you have written, and apply it. You really need to examine this one from an outside view.
2007-12-28 18:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Steven D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find a better board than YA where you don't have to type stuff like @$$ and curse about him properly.
2007-12-28 18:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
think of these: -been to prison
-drugs, alcohol, partying
-player
do you really want someone that does that? not to be mean, but just forget him. think of better things
2007-12-28 18:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by jsweetstuff9 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋