How come I never get any "sexual" signals from women?

Question

I have been reading alot of dating books by sociologists that say if a woman is interested in a man she does not know, she will always let him know using "sex signals" such as thrusting her chest, licking her lips, smiling, flicking her hair, etc, and if you don't get any of these signals; you will be rejected if you approach! I have been spending time at places that are supposed to be good for meeting women (bookstores, salsa dancing classes, bars), but I never get any of these signals from any woman, all I get is one quick glance (if even that), and then they just go back to whatever they were doing. What is wrong, do no women want me because I am mixed-race?Too tall? Not muscular enough? Why don't I ever get any signals from women?

Answer 1

Not all women give 'sex signals' and stuff. Just try talking to them and people might be more interested in you.

Answer 2

Firstly, all these books and good places to meet women never work because there is too much effort. All that stuff isn't what relationships and human interaction is about.
It could also be that the women are too shy to express "sexual" signals. In order for a woman to do that, they have to know the person more and so they can take a liking into them.
Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Signals are all b.s. You need to approach a woman in a friendly way and make some convo with her. If she gives you an opinion, she's open for convo. Conversate for a little while and then offer your number. Women don't like to give up theirs to total strangers or ask her for her email address. This opens the lines of communication, that's where you need to be, not looking for sexual signals, because they ain't ever happening unless your at a strip bar.

Answer 4

Just because women flick there hair, etc, it doesn't mean they are interested!!!!! All those "signals" can be a nervous habit. And just because you don't get those signals, you still may have a chance. Try not to look so desperate, (big turnofff) and stop the defeatist additude. Oh, BTW, how do we know if you're not muscular enough without a pic?

Answer 5

You need to stop relying too much on these books. You can easily get girls checking you out if you just appear more attractive and confident. If you are more friendly and socialize more, the chances of you meeting women will be greater. The signals you mentioned only usually apply to when you are dating that person. Random strangers will not give you all those signals right away even if they found you attractive. I mean I do all those things (like smiling, flicking my hair, and licking lips), but I doesn't mean I like the guy if I did those in front of a guy.

Answer 6

That's a question that's pretty hard for us to judge. I don't know why you're not receiving signals from women... but I have to say, that not all women shoot off "come f*ck me" signals at men....sorry, but I do disagree with that. Some women are just out for fun and laughs..

Answer 7

honey the majority of those books are written by ugly fat people who haven't had many dates if any,but because they have degree's in sociology they think they know how human sexuality works...every single woman in this world is very different in the way that they approach things...some may thrust their boobs,or lick lips or whatever else you said,but others take a more subtle approach to it...you can meet women anywhere that you go,,not just the places you mentioned,,and just maybe it's all about being in the right place at the right time,,and maybe someone has made jestures to you to show interest and you were so preocupied that you totally missed it...i'm sure there is nothing wrong with you,,you just haven't been in the right place at the right time..and maybe,just maybe your looking for a girl for the wrong reasons,,stop looking for "sexual signals",,,and start looking for subtle interests,,,like someone who is looking at you from the next check out line in the grociery store,or resturaunt....you'll find the right kind of girl,,and probably when your not expecting it or looking at all....good luck...

Answer 8

Hysterical question. I've never given any "sex signals" as you call it. Why don't you stop focusing on yourself and start focusing on others. I can't believe you are falling for those signals anyways. Boy, if you see what you want, just be natural and approach the woman. For crying out loud! You don't need a book to tell you that.

Answer 9

Honestly i wouldn't go off just your physical appearance. You have to give women a chance to get to know you. Relationships are never restricted to physical appearance. So if you are taking salsa dancing classes..take it to the next step and ask a partner from class to go salsa dancing with you in a club or something. If that isn't an option..just go to a club and see someone. I met my husband online on yahoo messanger so maybe if going out isn't your style..try getting to know someone online. You have to becareful but it is possible so good luck!

Answer 10

Drop those books man, Its all in your confidence. A woman can tell if you are weak or have low self esteem and they will tend to stay away.
You need to tuff up (Grow some balls) and just walk up to a woman with your chest held high, strike up a conversation. Whats the worst that can happen, sure she might reject you but look around, there are more women around you. She is not the only fish in the sea. A woman will like a guy who is okay with himself and confident enough to walk up and strike a conversation and be yourself. Trust me and good luck in your search for love, or booty call, or whatever you want. lol