Do all men cheat?

Question

Are there any men out there who do not cheat? How can they when they are truly in love with their significant other? Why can't they just decide to leave who they are with if they decide they want to be with another person? Am I naive and living a fairytale if all I want is just to be loved and not worry about someone sneaking around behind my back? I take care of myself and try to look as attractive as I can, always be positive and have a fun-loving attitude, try to do everything that makes him happy and not create drama. I try to appreciate the small things in life. These things still do not seem like enough. What is enough to make a man not cheat?

Answer 1

Not all men do. Keep looking until you find one that won't!

Answer 2

No, all men do not cheat. The faithful ones are out there, just hard to find. I know you have heard and should know that men are different from women. Women, we are emotional, we like to express are feelings. Men are not good at expressing there feelings, and I'm not talking about being able to say I love you, to their significant other. When a woman is in love we are in it for the long run until we are mistreated, in most cases anyway. A man loves you, but when another attractive woman comes around he is not thinking. A man does not think about the whole picture relationship wise, just in sections. So with this other woman he does not think at the time that it will affect the relationship, it is not until long afterwards he realizes it was wrong and that is when they lie trying to spare their significant others feelings. Don't worry you will find that man out there that fully appreciates you for all you do, and don't give up on the fairytale just yet.

Answer 3

Well my experience is they do. I am single been single for a long time and attractive I also work with the public every day and I also have many people come to me for relationship advise.
My experience is from all that I here and saw in my life is yes most men cheat.
And the women who think thier men would never need a reality check.
I have had so many men who are married hit on me and there wife will swear up and down what a good husband they have and how faithful they are and the minute they turn there back the man is cheating.
Look women think of sex as love and emotions.
Men think of sex as an act they seperate it from love they can love a women and cheat and think what is the big deal why are you so mad about it.
I think the ones that don't cheat just don't have an opportunity.

They cheat and will always cheat why do you think sex sells porno playboy hookers ect...

Who do you think is buying and watching that stuff?
Well it sure the heck is not single guys they get it all the time it is married ones who are paying for that industry

Answer 4

The fairytale is a lie. Marriage is a lie. All men cheat. Even all the ones that lie to you right now on this site and say they don't all of them do. The real joke are the women that you meet that say "my man would never cheat he loves me" I have heard that 10,000 times and they all have been cheated on. I have even met married men in wheelchairs and religious men that cheat. You want someone you can trust get a dog. You want a fairytale watch a movie. If you have a man right now email me and I will tell you exactly what to check. If you want to check your friend's man or your sister's man they are all cheating too. Life is not fair. I believed in the fairytale too then I woke up and realized that I don't know one married couple that is truly in love and I have never met a man that doesn't cheat. All those married couples that claim to be so happy and in love are lying to you and themselves. Spend a few hours with them and take an honest look. If you are ever in love don't get married. Sorry

Answer 5

Not all men cheat. However, the best way to prevent it is to keep your relationship fresh. Men often cheat because they are looking for a feeling that comes with a new relationship. Remember how exciting it was when you found that special someone? You wanted to spend every moment with them and you felt important and looked forward to every minute you spent together? Well, those feelings tend to fade after you are together for a while and things get comfortable. Comfortable is not always a good thing when a person wants to feel alive, lustful and lusted after.

If you can keep the sparks flying, chances are you will have a happy and satisfied man that isn't looking for something extra.

However, men are just as much the problem in this as their partner. They aren't contributing to the work it takes to keep things fresh...and instead, they turn to other newer women. For some reason, more men choose to cheat than women...even though they both suffer from the lack of excitement in their relationship.

My advice is to be aware of the state of things. If you aren't "in the mood" much anymore, or walk around in sweatpants when at home or are just plain way too comfortable (passing gas, burping, etc in front of each other)...that's the sign that something has to give or you are heading for disaster.

Answer 6

Of course not all men cheat. if they do, its usually because they aren't satisfied with what they have and want more or they are just terrible four-letter-words. if men cheat then they aren't TRULY in love with thier significant other. Sometimes deciding on love is easier said than done. you are naive to think that all men cheat, but not naive to think that true love is out there and you just haven't found it yet. Don't try to do things, just do them and don't worry yourself about it too much.
and, it depends on the man, you need to find out what is enough to make him not cheat (don't ask bluntly though, if you did, he would find a way to cheat as soon as possible)

*wishing you true love and happiness*

Answer 7

No, all men do not cheat, but my mother told me something a long time ago and it has stuck with me for the past 50+ years and that is this: "If a man does not love God, he can not possibly love you". I found this to be true, because, if he had the love of God he would know to do the right thing at all times, and even if he slips up every now and then, he would have enough common sense to fall to his knees and ask the Lord to forgive him, then go on with his life.

Answer 8

First of all there are men who don't cheat (very few depending on age). those are the good guys that seem to be overlooked alot. Another thing, it there is nothing wrong with being positive and have a fun-loving attitude, but once you get to believing everything is all hunky-dory then there's a problem. Everyone in life has their problems and to act like they are not there.....well when reality hits, it's gonna hit hard and strong.

Answer 9

I am a man who doesn't cheat. I have been cheated on by both women I have been engaged to, but I don't blame all women for what those two did.
If a man or a woman wants to cheat, nothing you can do will change that. Just remember that decent men are out here, and we are looking for a woman like you...

Answer 10

all men do not cheat..i know cause im bored in an all man family..it just depends on some men..if someone really in love wiht u, u dont have to try ur hardest to just look good for him so he wont cheat on u..but mostly there is never a relationship that is always so good..love cannot be always sweet, it can sometime be bitter..like they say if u wanna see the rainbow u gotta go through the rain..if u wanna feel love u gotta go through the pain..
if u think u truely love someone and think they truely love u..the most important thing is TRUST.

Answer 11

I was listening to a talk show that had Danny Bonaduche on it (unfortunately) and he was saying about how he loved his wife more than anything else in the entire world but if there was a hot chick that wanted to have sex with him, he would have sex with her because he has no feeling for her whatsoever.

Then the guy asked him, "What if your wife had sex with another guy?"

He said, "I would kill him"

I think some men are just really messed up, but then again so are some women. I just hope there is no other man like Danny Bonaduche because he's a sick pig.