Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

I wonder if anyone will answer this question.
we are all strangers.
we don't know who eachother is.
tell me something no one else knows.

here is my secret....
I'm afraid to get to close to a guy and get hurt so I always push them away. they think I'm playing hard to get, but I'm not playing.

2007-12-28 08:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has been dating a girl for 10 months now and he hasnt let me see her yet and his other friends havent. he says your not seeing her . why his he being like that?

2007-12-28 08:28:53 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Friends

I had this man cheat on me and I am still with him. Do you think i should of forgave him or let him go.

2007-12-28 08:28:08 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together a couple of years and we have great sex but she thinks she is still inadequate because she hasn't given me a 3some and my ex-wife did. I am all for them but I am pretty happy in my relationship so I really don't want to indulge but as a guy I would probably do so. She wants to do it with a stranger to and I am not even sure about how to go about that. Any suggestions on what to tell her or where to meet a woman who would help her fulfill this so we can go on with our lives. I know that any guys who read this will not understand but woman please answer.

2007-12-28 08:22:51 · 7 answers · asked by Average joe 93 1 in Singles & Dating

like what do people mean by 1st base 2nd base etc, what are they to you?

2007-12-28 08:22:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know why, but i LOVE the smell of most, but not all, females feet. i had this girlfriend once and her feet smell drove me insane! she had such perfect feet and smelled so good! i wanted to do things with it and i did =) i know its a foot fetish, a smelly foot fetish that is. lol. ohh and the foot jobs are the best with smelling one foot and the other, doing you know what. lol! ever know of anyone like this?

2007-12-28 08:21:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can they ?
as long as they wait to get married?

2007-12-28 08:19:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay I have had a crush on this guy for so long about 7 years since grade 4 know I am in grade 10 okay we were kind of close talking and everything he would flirt with me to like I hate the feel of sand stone it gives me the chills and we had to study rocks together in grade 4 and I told him I wasn't touching it (of course that was the rock we got assigned) and he asked why and I told him that I gave me the chills and he started rubbing it on my face and hand and leg and where ever just to freak me out and then laugh then stupid little things like that would happen in grade 5 he and I were standing under an umbrella outside at a ceremony with the school and I moved so his friend Tyler could stand under it and he would hit me in the head with the umbrella and laugh when I turned around. Other things like that would happen to in grade but in grade 7 hear was so sweet

2007-12-28 08:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, here's the deal. I have a first date with a lady that I have gotten to know pretty quickly. She and i hit it off right to start with, seem to have a lot in common and talk comes really easy. I met her at my friend's apartment, she is her next door neighbor. So I have been to her place twice now, we sat and talked for a looooong time. Her daughter was asleep. She is new to the area, doesn't really have anyone to babysit but wants to go out with me. So I offered to take her and her daughter out for a date. I love kids and don't mind it really. But should I be a little wary that this lady is already comfortable bringing her daughter along on our date, though i am the one that suggested it. I mean most stuff I have read about single moms tell the mom to take it very slooooow when introducing their kids to a potential man in their life. So should this be a red flag to me or is it possible she feels that comfortable that fast with me?

2007-12-28 08:14:24 · 6 answers · asked by O2BEFISHIN 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...my Bf and i are bout' to go out to the movies and last time we went we kissed...but he used way to much tongue for my taste! How can I tell him w/o saying anything to not use to much....plz help me! thnx

2007-12-28 08:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im getting married in may. we are having a beach ceremony and then a reception at a venue about 10 minutes away from the beach. how would i write the location of the beach ceremony on the invitation? the beach doesnt have a physical address, so would i just give the nearest cross streets? or would i give the address of one of the buildings and then write outside of .......whatever building?? please help!! what is the proper way to do this with out confussing the guest?

2007-12-28 08:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by massiel41285 2 in Weddings

she is so remorsefull but how do i forgive her i love her but whats the best way to deal with it and move on if you can and how can i trust her now or ever i put on a brave face but inside i feel empty i just feel so betrayed and she says she loves me but how do you know she realy means it its all so confusing the more i think about it the more it hurts so i try nit to think about it is this the right thing to do thanks paul

2007-12-28 08:02:48 · 17 answers · asked by PAUL B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and i sometimes i stare at her and she to me, i have been sending her emails but she never writes back. only sometimes. Everytime i talk 2 her face to face, her face lites up with a huge beautiful smile. And i enjoy talking 2 her. when i talk to her it seems that she gets happy. But we don't talk much cuz we are both shy. But when we do talk its agood conversation. But I always start the conversation. I guess she is more shy than me. She doesnt really talk to guys alot. when it comes 2 emails she never writes back. this is very confusing. does she like me or not. i cant tell

2007-12-28 07:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've gotten a few phone calls.... but never went farther than a couple of dates.

Realized I have been in a lot of relationships and NONE of them were from me meeting some guy at a bar. Usually through friends... Bars and clubs to me are just places to randomly make out I guess.

Do you know of any successful relationships that actually form from meeting your signficant other at a bar or club?

2007-12-28 07:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iVE BEEN WiTH MY BOYFRiEND FOR ALMOST A YEAR, i TOLD HiM i LOVED HiM AND HE TOLD ME i CARE ABOUT U BUT i STiLL DONT LOVE YOU. i FELT SO BAD!! i DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!! SHOULD i LEAVE HiM OR SHOULD i STAY??? HELP!!!

2007-12-28 07:48:13 · 42 answers · asked by luwezza_20 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has his own place, about 40 minutes away from my house. I have my own car, but gas prices are CRAZY right now and I am burning so much gas all the time.
I always end up at his house because he has his own place, and I still live with my parents (he's 24, & I'm 21 but I'm in university & pay my own tuition which is why I live at home). It's getting so costly going there all the time, I'm spending $60 a week on gas. He has never once offered to help me pay for it and I've hinted so many times that it's costing me a lot. Should I expect him to help me pay for it or is this unreasonable? What should I do?? Help! Thanks :)

2007-12-28 07:45:36 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Out of curiosity, based on a reply I gave a minute ago about whether or not I cheated or was cheated on-- I was wondering...

My husband and I have been together now for two and a half years with a break up at about the first year, we've only been married a little over a month (and it's great-- no problems now) but when we first got together he was still obssessed with his ex.

He had dreams about her every night (he actually said "Every Night"), he would call and check on her and just talk about her as if she was a goddess or the most evil schrew on earth.

I didn't like that he had such strong feelings for her (good or bad). I certainly didn't hate any of my exes because I really didn't care about whether or not those relationships worked out. Well, it all came to a boiling point where he would compare me to her and make me feel worthless. He just didn't seem happy with me.

2007-12-28 07:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Singles & Dating

that even included the undies with the ruffles on the butt?

2007-12-28 07:36:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very kind, intelligent, funny and very attractive female. When I go out, I get all of the stares, which sometimes makes me uncomfortable, especially when I'm out with other girlfriends. But that's ALL I get-no one will approach me or start conversation. The men that do approach me are usually intoxicated and below my standards.

I'm not talking about only at bars, anywhere mainly. People that I get to know and become friends with always say I'm so different than they thought I'd be. They thought I'd be a
"B_ _ _ _ ". How can I stop this? Do things differently? Be more approachable?

I know this may seem ridiculous-- the "pretty girl's problem", but it really IS a problem for me-everyday!

ANY help, thoughts from MEN AND WOMEN would be appreciated.

Thanks!

2007-12-28 07:36:14 · 51 answers · asked by bamboo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 07:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bumped into this guy I have known since high school at a bar one night (we are both late 20s)... ended up drinking, flirting and making out.

We really clicked. When I said goodbye, he said to me "I'll call you tomorrow, okay?"

I said "oh yea?"

He's like "definitely"

Hasnt called.

Why not?

2007-12-28 07:31:23 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Background info: I live in Chicago. Mom is in Phoenix. I have 1 full time job and one part time job. I am in school part time. My marriage is in a really rocky place right now.

Proceeding...mom sent me an email today. I have no idea what the eff to say in return. To sum it up, she says that she's sent me a million texts (in reality...3) and phone calls (about 4) in the past week and because I haven't responded she is very upset. The fact that I didn't send her a birthday or Xmas gift left her feeling "humiliated" and "distraught" (I have 3 dollars in my bank account...my husband hasn't paid a bill in 2 months, and I'm BROKE). She wants to know if I want her to leave me alone and just go away (oh c'mon).

Well I pulled a double shift on Christmas. And I work 12 hour days EVERY day. Today is my first half day in 3 weeks.

I'm terribly frustrated and hurt that she isn't more understanding. Any ideas on what to tell her? I don't want to respond while angry, so I needed ideas

2007-12-28 07:29:50 · 11 answers · asked by Puzzle Box 2 in Family

i am 16 he is 15 and i am reasonably bigger both height and weight wise, i wanna do sexual stuff with him but i dont know if i want him to see my naked body or if tat could be awkward because of our size difference.

2007-12-28 07:29:28 · 12 answers · asked by Alyssa181 2 in Singles & Dating

i like guys that are taken. and guys that dont like me. why?

2007-12-28 07:28:24 · 4 answers · asked by hottie30349 1 in Singles & Dating

OK guys, do boys like girls that are not necessarily preppy, but they are cute, because all the boys the that I know only like hot girls. I'm getting kind of annoyed - do boys like girls that are witty, smart, and cute, or do they only like giggly, obnoxious, hollister- type girls??? I can be flirtatious if I want, but that is only sometimes. Basically what I am trying to ask is do boys like girls that are not typical preppy teenagers?

2007-12-28 07:28:09 · 8 answers · asked by Gracie 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this before but there was some confusion. I was talking about a job that pays like 16/hr not minimum wage. Of course I wouldn't expect a girl to stay with a guy who wouldn't try to find a job he could at least pay the rent with.

Taking this into consideration would you turn down a good looking guy if he made $15 to $20/ hr?

2007-12-28 07:27:35 · 14 answers · asked by wisemancumth 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok I hope this doesnt sound too crazy, but here goes... I am 48 years old, and have met a Woman about a year ago thru the internet. We hit it off almost instantly! I am in love with her, and she is in love with me. We talk with each other on the phone everyday, we share photo's of each other, we webcam when we can. I can honestly say that our personality's are perfect for each other and I've never been so IN LOVE....EVER. So here are the Kickers! 1. She lives several states away! Lord knows I'd fly, drive, or walk there if I could!!! Ready for #2??? You sure???

She is on my mind 24/7! I'd lay my life down for her, in a heartbeat...ok ok here is #2
She is married with kids!!! As for me, I am single. I divorced a few years ago. She say's she loves her husband, but is not (IN LOVE) with him. What do I do??? HELP!!!

2007-12-28 07:25:16 · 28 answers · asked by Aiden S. 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together about 7 months. He's always done his own laundry, cooking, etc. and has never expected me to do anything for him. Sometimes I offer to cook for him, because I like doing "old fashioned" type stuff to take care of my man, it's just who I am :-)

So, he doesn't have a washer and dryer in his apartment but I do. I offered to let him do his laundry at my place, and he did a couple of times. He did all of the loading and folding himself. Then one time he was busy, and I offered to do it for him (I really didn't mind).

A couple of days ago he brought his laundry over. I saw it sitting on the floor and said "Is that your laundry?" He said, "Yeah, I brought it for you to do," with a big smile on his face. I said "What, am I your b*tch now?" And he said "Yeah, you're my b*tch!" This was all said in a very joking manner, we joke like that all the time and we both laughed.

I'm going to do it for him, and honestly I don't mind. But AM I being his b*tch?

2007-12-28 07:25:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

between beautiful,hot,gorgeous,pretty,sexy,and cute? do you use different terms depending on how attractive the girl is? or do they all mean the same thing?

2007-12-28 07:22:26 · 16 answers · asked by pickles11119 3 in Singles & Dating

My situation is me and my wife got married in July and we moved to quick we both agree. We found out in October she was pregnant. We have had problems since the start mainly getting use to living with one another. Well about 3 weeks ago I found out she has been dishonest with some money issues and I ignored her for about a week. She text me cussing and I told her we can talk with her daughter not around. Well we finally talked or argued more or less. I noticed she had been talk with her ex going outside and in another room. I asked her what was going on. She said that is was nothing and finally said she would go back with her ex if he would have her. I asked her to try and work things out but she refuses. She has told her mom but refuses to tell her dad (we get along great) because he payed for trip to disney for them. I have since found out she returned my daughters christmas gift that she had bought with my money and has me behind on child support (she paid bills I gave money).

2007-12-28 07:20:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce