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Question

Okay I have had a crush on this guy for so long about 7 years since grade 4 know I am in grade 10 okay we were kind of close talking and everything he would flirt with me to like I hate the feel of sand stone it gives me the chills and we had to study rocks together in grade 4 and I told him I wasn't touching it (of course that was the rock we got assigned) and he asked why and I told him that I gave me the chills and he started rubbing it on my face and hand and leg and where ever just to freak me out and then laugh then stupid little things like that would happen in grade 5 he and I were standing under an umbrella outside at a ceremony with the school and I moved so his friend Tyler could stand under it and he would hit me in the head with the umbrella and laugh when I turned around. Other things like that would happen to in grade but in grade 7 hear was so sweet

One of the girls n the class had a surprise birthday party and he and I were both invited well I was dancing and this other girl (my cousin) started making fun of me so sat down at the table practically crying and he came over and was like what is the matter you were having fun I was like nothing I am fine and he was like no you are not it is Amy isn't it I was like yeah he said that I should have fun and not worry about here that everyone else likes me being here and he hugged me and I went dancing. Then a few weeks later in are class I was like wearing this ring not even thinking I put it on my left hand on my ring finger so it wouldn’t get paint on it and he and I had a seating plan beside each other and he said so who are you getting married to I was confused and said why and he was like the ring I was oh you and he was like yeah right if you were marring me I would buy you a better ring than that because you deserve better

Than in grade 8 we sat in different areas of the room he sat in front of me on a kiddie corner diagonal he would always turn around and smile at me this one time he tuned around and I was wearing sandals and out of the blue he says I can see your toes??? wtf but any way but once we hit high school we are not so close but his mother just loves me we se each other every so often and talk like we are best friends!!! What can I do so we can have relationship even though I am so shy?

Answer 1

you need to quit being scared and talk to him. why would you be too shy??? youve known this guy since like 3rd grade or sumthing. i mean come on. tell him how you feel. just say you miss hanging out with him. maybe yall could go see a movie. its really not that hard. i cant believe i read all that just to tell you to quit acting stupid. he likes you. duhhh. quit being so scared to tell him something. if your to scared to tell him that you like him what do you think will happen when yall actually get together????? you wont be able to tell him anything. everything happens for a reason. just give it a chance. if i dosent work out its not supposed to happen...

Answer 2

You're going to have to ask him out. It doesn't have to be a date, just say you miss hanging out with him and want to know if he wants to go see a movie or something like that. No need to be shy; you ask your friends to do stuff all the time, and he's just your friend. If you want it to be more, since you're the one who likes him and I don't really see any evidence that he likes you as more than a friend YET, you need to bring it up because he's not.

Answer 3

It sounds like he's picking on you because he likes you, try to start having phone conversations with him, or maybe go do things together,(Like go to the mall, or a movie, or the park), and maybe things will progress from there Good Luck,I Hope it works out the way you want it to.

Answer 4

~~~~ You really like this guy, Then go for it, if not ur always gonna have that dought what could have happened~.....you Can ask him to hang with you first and then just get the courage and tell him you like him, and that what he thought about it.............If his intrested his gonna let you know right away......~~~you should know if his intrested check if see if theres any signs...Good luck girly....